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Quote[replyI had placed him in my favorites, but I didn't realize that he might be able see my profile right now.
You can tell who's been browsing your profile.
Ruh Roh!
Better clean the cashe now!

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun
i find that a little creepy.
If I am going to stalk someone, I would prefer to stalk someone anonymously. Finally, I can turn the tables...
Oh, and we have shared a funny past, Clint. Haven't we?
Of course, I've held nothing against you.
If I am going to stalk someone, I would prefer to stalk someone anonymously. Finally, I can turn the tables...

Oh, and we have shared a funny past, Clint. Haven't we?


QuoteHe doesn't know what I look like, so that is actually a little flattering.
And this is why I think this is worth a shot for you, Rosa. Frankly, you're a gorgeous women. And guys tend to hone in on that. if you are anything like a few other beautiful women I have known, after a certain time it gets irritating to them.
Perhaps it's why my wife is with me. She seemed to like I that I wanted to get to know her from the inside out instead of the outside in. As she said, "The other guys seemed to want sex and nothing else."
You've got little to lose in trying it, Rosa. I say, damn the torpedos, and go for it full speed.

And my other advizce - don't let them know what you look like! let it be a pleasant surprise for a lucky guy who may get the chance to meet you in person.
My wife is hotter than your wife.
QuoteAnd my other advizce - don't let them know what you look like! let it be a pleasant surprise for a lucky guy who may get the chance to meet you in person.
You make very good points about not showing my picture. I've already submitted some pictures, which are awaiting approval. They are the same ones that I am using for my breast cancer walk profile. However, I am already excited that this smart, interesting, gorgeous man told me that he liked what I had written without him knowing what I look like.

I am thinking of perhaps taking back the pics that I've submitted and not posting anything at all in that space. (Or, perhaps just using a picture of myself that is not very revealing.) I would rather that they just see what I look like in person, after we have established that they like my personality and vice versa. I am looking at people's profiles based on what they have written, more than anything.
Then again, I don't want someone to overlook reading my profile because I didn't include my picture.
Online dating is a good way to stir up action (action, as in, opportunity.) From what I've gathered, you've got tiers of internet dating from the lowest rung say, in Pennsylvania, it's PASingles.com to Yahoo Personals, to Match.com, Eharmony.com to PerfectMatch.com. There's even Mate1 or Alt1 for the kind of people who like to play, so I hear. Anyway, the higher the cost the less the riff-raff (although, not necessarily.) If you want to meet someone successful, indicate that with your preference in income or education. Most importantly, try not to put any emotional interest in any wink or email. When one yearns to find someone, they often "project" what they want onto someone they don't know or have never seen and start feeling something which is self-conjured. Will the defendant please rise! I plead guilty your honor.
I keep my distance in that respect now. Anyway, play it like you've yet to see the one for you ... but when you post your picture, that will draw them out.
Oh, and keep your emotional distance too, it helps to be lucid.
You're always the starter in your own life!
I keep my distance in that respect now. Anyway, play it like you've yet to see the one for you ... but when you post your picture, that will draw them out.
Oh, and keep your emotional distance too, it helps to be lucid.
You're always the starter in your own life!
QuoteAnyway, play it like you've yet to see the one for you ...
Well, I don't "play" games. If I have some interest in someone, which actually almost NEVER happens, I'll let that person know. If not, then I'll let them know, also. I'm quite the skeptic about people "falling in love" this way.
I am also certainly not desperate, nor "yearning" for anyone on there. Yet, I have to admit that I am not an easy person to get close to romantically because I don't really let that happen very easily. I tend to brush away and turn down most men more than I probably should. That's probably not a good thing. This may be a way for me to loosen up and go meet some interesting men.
champu 1
QuoteI hate cats.
Baby, that's music to my ears...
...and my respiratory system...
...and skin.
skymama 37
QuoteI had lunch with a lady today that I met on Match dot com. Her listed "age" was 54. First confession outa the box was that she was, in fact, 61.
To me, that would make me not want to go on a second date with someone. I'd be thinking that if they would lie about something as silly as their age, what else would they lie about?
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon
Hey Ryan, how YOU doing?

champu 1
champu 1
QuoteHahaha...
Thank you, that joke was two and a half years in the making, I'm glad it worked out.
(bows)
Why are you laughing at me.
Y - Y- You don't love me anymore?
I mean - we DID have dinner together -
and shared SO much.
I'm devastated
and getting Angry!
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun
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