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eeneR

Guys, are you scared of smart strong women?

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I never noticed it until I met someone last summer that fit the description perfectly. Nothing happened there, but it made me realize that most of the women I have ever been attracted to have fit the same bill.
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Since the 1970s, I have had 5 long-term relationships. HS boyfriend (3.5 years): pretty darn smart and a ridiculously great guitar player. I'll call that one my equal. 1980s boyfriend (4.5 years) sheer genius, and also a wicked guitarist. We were equally matched too. 1990 Husband (almost 6 years) um. . . some people are brilliant in one area, and rather dim in others. I was definitely more cerebral. 1997 boyfriend, another GENIUS, and he had it over me. I still carry a torch for him *snif*. 2002 guyfriend loved me "that way", and sadly, I couldn't return the sentiment. Didn't graduate HS, which sometimes is okay, but he was not too smart. He learned a lot though during our time together (better social skills, how to operate a compter, etc.). The 'smarter' boyfriends were better in bed. :$

P.S. I was NOT a groupie chasing musicians. I had a vocal scholarship to Interlochen Arts Academy, and was a music major in (my short-lived) stint at Western MI Univ. I played professionally from 1980 to 1996, keyboards (people envy my Korg CX-3) and vocals, mainly blues and rock bands, but some jazz and *gak* some top-40 bands.
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I think it's an age thing, when I was single in my mid-20s and said I was a electrical engineer currently doing unix programing....well um, I swear I heard crickets chirping. Then I started skydiving and I didn't even have to tell a guy what I did, all I said to "what do you do for fun" was skydive and bam they were gone.

Now in my early 30s things are different, maybe it's because I want them to go away, but saying I'm a skydiving, rock-climbing, mountain biking engineer makes them ask for my phone number. >:(>:(:D:D:D
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Now in my early 30s things are different, maybe it's because I want them to go away, but saying I'm a skydiving, rock-climbing, mountain biking engineer makes them ask for my phone number



Damnit, I need to really get my ass back to CO :D:D:D:D:D
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
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Now in my early 30s things are different, maybe it's because I want them to go away, but saying I'm a skydiving, rock-climbing, mountain biking engineer makes them ask for my phone number



Damnit, I need to really get my ass back to CO :D:D:D:D:D



CO is cool, no one asks what you do for a living, most of my friends I have no clue what they do. Around here when asked what do you do they mean what do you do for a hobby. I know all of my friends hobbies but not a clue what they do for a living. :D
Fly it like you stole it!

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Smart, strong women are where it is at. As I said before, show a few my way if you get the chance.



Thanks for the reminder I need to see if my mom knows anyone in your target demographic... since you're living right down the road now. :D (and my mom, being a strong, smart woman herself, certainly can recognize the type).
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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I don't mean the bitchy dominant type, just the ones that seem to have there lives somewhat under control, make decent money and seem to be able to take care of themselves?

How about one that may or may not be smarter then you? Does that make you feel threatened?

Inquiring minds want to know :)B|:P



I think you have met my SO the math professor. What do you think?
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I don't mean the bitchy dominant type, just the ones that seem to have there lives somewhat under control, make decent money and seem to be able to take care of themselves?

How about one that may or may not be smarter then you? Does that make you feel threatened?

Inquiring minds want to know :)B|:P



I think you have met my SO the math professor. What do you think?



Yes I have...and you should be threatened by her :ph34r: J/K. You hooked yourself a keeper! :)
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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Smart strong chics are hot!!!!
Ever tried talking to dumb people for a long time... it gets old.
:)



Yeah, but there's always a place for a really dumb chick who will shutup and do as she's told--like "get me a beer and a sandwich and hurry up about it!".

Walt

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Q: What's that smell?

A: Oh, that's just Walt stirring up shit again.

:D



Thing is most of us know him from posting here well enough now to know he is just screwing around :D
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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Q: What's that smell?

A: Oh, that's just Walt stirring up shit again.

:D



Thing is most of us know him from posting here well enough now to know he is just screwing around :D





Walt



Opps, im sorry did I just blow your cover :o
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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Q: What's that smell?

A: Oh, that's just Walt stirring up shit again.

:D



Thing is most of us know him from posting here well enough now to know he is just screwing around :D





Walt



Opps, im sorry did I just blow your cover :o



To me it's - how do I put this... - like the icky sweet smell of cow manure. Naturally occurring, liberally spread, helps many a thing grow...


:|

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I don't feel threatened at all by dating a woman who is smarter or makes more money.



How about taller too:P



Would I feel threatened by dating a woman who is smarter, taller, and made more money? Not as long as she knew her place and didn't give me any smartass backtalk!:D:D

Walt

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Not as long as she knew her place and didn't give me any smartass backtalk!




Hmmm I have always considered anywhere I wanted to be as " my place"... and as far as the backtalk... I revel in it..... you may refer to me as your >:(" Evil Jeanne" >:(;);)

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Not as long as she knew her place and didn't give me any smartass backtalk!




Hmmm I have always considered anywhere I wanted to be as " my place"... and as far as the backtalk... I revel in it..... you may refer to me as your >:(" Evil Jeanne" >:(;);)



Yes, Mistress Evil Jeanne!:$:$

Walt

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Would I feel threatened by dating a woman who is smarter, taller, and made more money? Not as long as she knew her place and didn't give me any smartass backtalk!

It's not backtalk if you have to ask her permission to address her in the first place :)

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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Would I feel threatened by dating a woman who is smarter, taller, and made more money? Not as long as she knew her place and didn't give me any smartass backtalk!

It's not backtalk if you have to ask her permission to address her in the first place :)

Wendy W.



Woohoo!!!!!


I mean, yes Mistress Wendy!:$:$

Walt

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