malboy 0 #1 June 14, 2006 if you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you?www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #2 June 14, 2006 Quoteif you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you? Better be a DAMN good reason - cuz - I can't think of one.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #3 June 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteif you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you? Better be a DAMN good reason - cuz - I can't think of one. We were nekkid in a pool, I was jumping off the diving board and accidently impaled myself? It was an accident. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #4 June 14, 2006 Trust is the hardest thing to rebuild. You can "bury the hatchet" but can never forget where you buried it. Relationships are not worth a lifetime of mistrust. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #5 June 14, 2006 Quoteif you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you? If my canopy malfunctions - it's gone - no questions asked. It's a good philosophy to live by in some regards.Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NlghtJumper 0 #6 June 14, 2006 No way, no how. I have tried the whole "forgive and forget" but that mental image never goes away. Puts too much strain on someone. Its not worth it. Thats why one of the first things I tell them is "if you ever feel that you might cheat, call me, e-mail me, text me, something. Once one person calls off the relationship, its over. You do that and guess what? Your not cheating anymore. I am here to help make you happy, not keep you from someone you think is better." It seems to work pretty well. A man will do anything for the right woman, and when that woman destroys him, that man will become a hunk of meat with the common sense of a rodeo clown! ~ Christopher Titus Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tumbler 0 #7 June 14, 2006 I found out on a Thursday afternoon and retained an attorney on Friday morning, filed Friday afternoon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #8 June 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteif you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you? Better be a DAMN good reason - cuz - I can't think of one. We were nekkid in a pool, I was jumping off the diving board and accidently impaled myself? It was an accident. So he just happened to be lined up and wearing wood when you impaled yourself? That would take not only remarkable aim - but if you pulled it off - the two of you belong together.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boinky 0 #9 June 14, 2006 Absolutely, positively...Nope...it would be over. We've both been cheated on before and know how much it hurts. We understood our feelings and the mutual agreement before we got serious about one another. There is NO excuse for cheating. You KNOW what you're doing BEFORE you do it. You are saying you have no respect for your SO if you can't control your sexual urges. Is a piece of "strange" worth losing someone who probably loves you more than life itself? If you don't feel you can be faithful any more, you need to end it BEFORE you do something that will permanently hurt the other person.Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #10 June 14, 2006 Truthfully, in the past I took back the first guy that cheated on me, but the trust was never the same. I couldn't help thinking he would do it again. After the relationship ended, I found out he did do it again while we were together. Second guy who cheated on me... It was over immediately. There were no other chances. I couldn't put myself through the emotional rollercoaster of trying to build trust back up again. Sorry to say that now I don't trust anyone... It'll take me time to actually be able to trust again. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pincheck 0 #11 June 14, 2006 Shit Ewan hope this ain't personal Dude you been your expedition yet or heard from Ruth and how she is doing??. Billy-Sonic Haggis Flickr-Fun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #12 June 14, 2006 Even in my early twenties, I had developed a "rule against second chances." No matter what the reason for the breakup. Just not working and breakup? Well, it's all done, then. We're through. And it was understood with them. I actually think it is the main reason why I stayed friends with all of my past relationships (except the one that DID cheat on me). No romance, no sex. Nothing but friendship. The openness was great. The rule worked well for me. I see no reason why I should change it. My wife also knows that if she ever cheated on me, that would be it for us. She's told me, "It's actually one of the things that attracts me to you. You're no weakling." Oh, yeah, and I'd be on the curb so quickly my head would spin if I cheated on her. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #13 June 14, 2006 lol, nah dude dont worry, its not personal, im just bored at work and i thought id see what everyone would do! 9 days till empuria!! well lookin forward to it!www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FlankSteak 0 #14 June 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteif you found out your SO had/was cheating on you, would you? If my canopy malfunctions - it's gone - no questions asked. It's a good philosophy to live by in some regards. This is a good point, so I ask: Do you go and find that canopy you cut away, get it repacked and use it again OR do you just go buy another one? I guess it depends.______________________________________________ "...whatever stands against freedom must be set aside, be it ritual or superstition or limitation in any form." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pincheck 0 #15 June 14, 2006 blow me and empuria I will be up saturday morning but will only stay till 2pm as i am nights this week enjoy your trip and training when you are out there are you all getting coaching for the nationals or just ironing out and fine tuning your jumps Billy-Sonic Haggis Flickr-Fun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #16 June 14, 2006 Immediate cutaway. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #17 June 14, 2006 its kind of a holiday/blowout/team trainin, with the majority of jumps being 4 way, were also gettin some coachin off felix. its gonne be expensive, but worth it! www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caspar 0 #18 June 14, 2006 if she was cheating witha hot chick... i think id faint from excitement becuase of course id only forgive her if....well you all know how it would go."When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #19 June 14, 2006 I'd possibly take them back... but it certainly wouldn't be easy... The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #20 June 14, 2006 So - did Bill Clinton Cheat?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vt1977 0 #21 June 14, 2006 Quote9 days till empuria!! well lookin forward to it! Sorry... thread drift... I'm there in 14 days! Guess I might see ya there. Vicki Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #22 June 14, 2006 very possibly, wele be the scottish 4way team sigma 5, give us a shout if you see us!www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
countzero 7 #23 June 15, 2006 dump them!! if you take them back then, in thier mind, they've gotten away with it and will think they could do it again in the future.diamonds are a dawgs best friend Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #24 June 15, 2006 I have ZERO tolerance for cheaters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adventurechick 0 #25 June 15, 2006 cutaway PMS #449 TPM #80 Muff Brother #3860 SCR #14705 Dirty Sanchez #233 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites