Ashtanga 0 #1 June 11, 2006 So you know they say you will know who you will marry when you meet them. Well, I met her! The only problem is she is younger and does not know I feel this way. I work with her too. I don't know how to tell her because of this. I am in love and she doesn't know it! How should I work this? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #2 June 11, 2006 Well first off don't be a nice guy or a good friend, because then you are dead in the water. ASk her out to dinner, and let her know your felings at that dinner. Don't seem too agressive or overly clingie. calm cool and collected. But let her know that you have certain feeleings for her. You may also be just in the infacuation phase right now. Tell her that tehre is something different about her that other women just don't posses. Be carefulDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #3 June 11, 2006 QuoteSo you know they say you will know who you will marry when you meet them. Well, I met her! The only problem is she is younger and does not know I feel this way. I work with her too. I don't know how to tell her because of this. I am in love and she doesn't know it! How should I work this? Club her upside the head and drag her back to your cave. Chicks dig that. Oh, and walk up to her and tell her you'd like her to be the mother of your children. Worked for me. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #4 June 11, 2006 QuoteWell first off don't be a nice guy or a good friend, because then you are dead in the water. That is not always true My .02...ask her out, spend some time with her, get to know each other and see what comes of it. Hell either there will be sexual tension so freaking thick you cant see anything else around but each other ....or nothing at all coming back at ya. Make nice comments about something she is wearing, or if she is smart. Flattering comments. See where it goes....This is from recent personal experince and he was the "nice guy" She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashtanga 0 #5 June 11, 2006 I love you Frenchy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #6 June 11, 2006 Quote I work with her too. Ruh-roh... (obligatory common sense advise that will result in "i told you so" later was edited out) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #7 June 11, 2006 fuck that I say go bat-shit crazy for her if she runsaway screaming or gets a order of protection against him, than it'll just give him the opportunity to show her how he truly feels My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stitch 0 #8 June 11, 2006 I honestly hope you're taking advice from these guys.........PM Remi, he'll tell ya how to handle it."No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #9 June 11, 2006 Workplace romances never work, so if you REALLY dig her, the only course of action is to quit your job immediately. So... still think she's the one? Elvisio "get the help wanted section out" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #10 June 11, 2006 QuoteI honestly hope you're taking advice from these guys.........PM Remi, he'll tell ya how to handle it. I hope he's taking our advice, too. He should send her Naked picture of himself to her and her family. if they all approve, He'll be married in a week.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #11 June 11, 2006 Quotefuck that I say go bat-shit crazy for her if she runsaway screaming or gets a order of protection against him, than it'll just give him the opportunity to show her how he truly feels JT, it's always so difficult to tell how you feel about something!!!! And might I add, this is excellent advice! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #12 June 11, 2006 QuoteWorkplace romances never work, so if you REALLY dig her, the only course of action is to quit your job immediately. So... still think she's the one? screw that, get HER fired. she's gonna have to leave anyway to have the kids right? Nate, I hope you listen to me. I seem to be the only one with common sense here.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #13 June 11, 2006 QuoteJT, it's always so difficult to tell how you feel about something!!!! And might I add, this is excellent advice! I thought you were a smart woman when I first started replying with you. Now, I know you are a smart womanMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #14 June 11, 2006 And you are obviously one extremely perceptive man!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #15 June 11, 2006 See, I don't think anyone else see my genious on this site. My brilliance is SOOoo wasted on them.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #16 June 11, 2006 Don't feel too badly; they're obviously all idiots.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #17 June 11, 2006 QuoteDon't feel too badly; they're obviously all idiots.... Damn, you are just letting the cat out of the bag, now. they don't know that. well, they didn't.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ImGunnaJump 0 #18 June 11, 2006 Well, yet another woman's perspective coming at you (the other's were great)... it would be good if you asked her out first. Chances are if she doesn't want to go out to dinner with you, she won't want to marry you. While out at dinner, compliment her - her choice of outfit, for starters, some great thing you noticed she did at work, etc. Maybe tell her about your love of skydiving before you tell her you want her to be the mother of her children, on the outside chance you'll freak her out and she'll get that restraining order, or at the very least report you to H.R. Then after a great first date, ask her out again and build on what happend on the first. In other words, like some of the others previously mentioned, go slow w/the declarations of love and see what comes of it. Good luck!"...I've learned that while the "needs" in life are important (food, water, shelter), it's the "wants" in life (ice cream, chocolate, sex) that make it worth the effort." Kbordson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaden 0 #19 June 11, 2006 If you truly know that this is your soulmate, someone you've dreamed about forever. Go ahead & tell her. She will accept/agree...or not. If not, you need to keep looking. If she's just hot...this is a lust issue, which can be alot of fun but, not the long term solution. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #20 June 11, 2006 QuoteSee, I don't think anyone else see my genious on this site. My brilliance is SOOoo wasted on them. "genius" (I can't help it if people feed me the straight lines.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fraggs 0 #21 June 11, 2006 I can't believe no one has mentioned this? Simply go out to the copy room, and Photocopy your wang and Leave it in the tray for her to find. You should probably only do this if you are sure she will use the machine straight after you. nothing worse then your boss finding it. He may get a little interested Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #22 June 11, 2006 Quotegenius" (I can't help it if people feed me the straight lines.) roflmao!!!!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #23 June 11, 2006 Make sure your work doesn't have a policy against coworkers dating. Make sure she's single. A good friend did this when he wanted to date a girl he saw at a coffee shop every day: Call a florist and have one rose delivered to her at work every day for a week, starting on a monday. Don't sign the card. Let her wonder who they're from. On Friday of that week, deliver the rose (or 8 more to complete the dozen, depending on your style) in person and ask her out. It worked brilliantly. They're married with two kids. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ImGunnaJump 0 #24 June 11, 2006 This is the best suggestion yet! It will be interesting for her to have a little mystery. Go for it!"...I've learned that while the "needs" in life are important (food, water, shelter), it's the "wants" in life (ice cream, chocolate, sex) that make it worth the effort." Kbordson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #25 June 11, 2006 I totally know what you mean. The man i'm going to marry doesn't feel the same way about me yet, but he will. I'm patient so until then i'm having fun. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
