McDuck 0 #1 June 10, 2006 ...that your S.O. was not married prior to your involvement? A few of my teammates and I were discussing the stigma that is associated with being previously married and how it tends to be a potential deal-breaker for some. I mean, why on earth is it necessary to have "single" "married" AND "divorced" on certain forms? Single is single, right? I suppose if you've got lingering responsibilities (financial or familial) from a previous association, it could be pertinent... I'm curious to see the broader perspective as displayed here.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #2 June 10, 2006 Thats why you marry the ugliest chick that way you know she hasnt slept around Hope Brandy doesnt read this posthttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #3 June 10, 2006 Whether my SO (if I had one) was previously married doesn't matter to me. It isn't their past that's important but the present and our future together that really matter. Of course the women in the age group I'm interested in normally have been married before....The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MF42 0 #4 June 10, 2006 The only time this ever mattered was when she had divorced a viciously abusive asshole and sometimes the emotional baggage made problems between us. She kept on expecting me to be viciously abusive since that's what real men do, right? Then when I refused to beat her, she lost all respect for me. Matt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #5 June 10, 2006 But has anyone ever encountered a situation where they were met with relationship skepticism based on the fact that they were in what amounts (in most minds) to a failed long-term relationship?Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #6 June 10, 2006 I was seeing a guy once that told me we would never work out long term cause he was "old fashioned" and wanted a girl that had never been married before. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #7 June 10, 2006 QuoteI was seeing a guy once that told me we would never work out long term cause he was "old fashioned" and wanted a girl that had never been married before. Then you're better off... that's the wrong attitude to have.. The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #8 June 10, 2006 QuoteI was seeing a guy once that told me we would never work out long term cause he was "old fashioned" and wanted a girl that had never been married before. What a tool. He'll never know what he missed out on.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #9 June 10, 2006 I think it really depends on the reasion as to why they got divorced. So what do women think about previously married men?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #10 June 10, 2006 That's kind of silly from my point of view. The way I see it, if I happen to meet the perfect woman (and she'll actually talk to me!) then chances are really good that I'll think that all the people in her life before me did a wonderful job of helping her become the person she is now. I'd have a hard time feeling bad about that!Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #11 June 10, 2006 QuoteThat's kind of silly from my point of view. The way I see it, if I happen to meet the perfect woman (and she'll actually talk to me!) then chances are really good that I'll think that all the people in her life before me did a wonderful job of helping her become the person she is now. I'd have a hard time feeling bad about that!Walt DING DING DING.... We have a winner... I couldn't have said it better myself... Thanks WaltThe only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #12 June 10, 2006 Exactly! That's what SHOULD be a the forefront of most minds in that that circumstance. However, there are some who are less enlightened in that regard. It baffles me.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #13 June 10, 2006 I always thought I would marry a man who had never been married, never had a kid....and he and I would do those things together. Life threw Skymedic in my path and all that flew out the window. He has been married before, and has a now 12 year old that lives with us full time. Best part is that he knew EXACTLY what he wanted out of a marriage if he was ever going to get married again. I know he learned a lot from his "starter" marriage. We have been together for four years, married almost one. ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #14 June 10, 2006 There will always be some who just don't get it... if she (or he) is the person you want to be with it's because of what they've experienced and sometimes that means they were married (or in a long term relationship) before... what we experience in our lives makes us who we are today and who we will be tomorrow... if you (generic) don't get this then I feel sorry for you...The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #15 June 10, 2006 Are you really a hobbit with a hairy ass? Wait! maybe is the wrong icon to use in that instance. Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #16 June 10, 2006 QuoteAre you really a hobbit with a hairy ass? Wait! maybe is the wrong icon to use in that instance. Well... for a while there was a pic of my bare ass on here... but I'll just let you wondering... As for the .... I think I'll pass.... The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #17 June 10, 2006 Honestly? I don't need to see the picture or even the potential mental image of another man's hairy ass. Mine is hairy enough to carry me over into another several centuries. Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stitch 0 #18 June 10, 2006 Depends.Was she with a brotha b/4 me, if so then no.I don't want to strap on a 2x4 everytime we get in bed."No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #19 June 10, 2006 When I was younger, I was a lot more judgmental about it, but now, not so much. Partly because the pickins of men who have never been married (at least if I stay roughly in my age range) are slimmer. What matters, no matter what the relationship history, is how it has shaped them into who they are today. If they talk about all their exes (whether they be wives or just ex-girlfriends) as "bitches," they either have shown consistently poor judgment or the women really weren't the problem."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #20 June 10, 2006 QuoteDepends.Was she with a brotha b/4 me, if so then no.I don't want to strap on a 2x4 everytime we get in bed. Ahhh, nothing like ol' Stichy to keep me in stitches. Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkymonkeyONE 4 #21 June 10, 2006 QuoteThats why you marry the ugliest chick that way you know she hasnt slept around Hope Brandy doesnt read this post I have you on speed dial, you fat, sweaty fucker! I am going to report you to the boss immediately. To Kevin: I guess I would be fucked if being divorced precluded a person from getting a decent mate then. Same for Katie though, too. Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royd 0 #22 June 10, 2006 If you divorced, and neither you or your ex ever remarried, but she died, what does that make you? A divorced widower? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #23 June 10, 2006 Not very, if at all, important I didn't used to feel that way, though. I wanted a man, not only previously unmarried but also one that had not loved another before me. It sounds really ridiculous looking back---but how I felt nonetheless. I'm happy for my hunny's past experiences in love (though he was not previously married) b/c it's only helped solidify his feelings/love for me.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #24 June 10, 2006 QuoteTo Kevin: I guess I would be fucked if being divorced precluded a person from getting a decent mate then. Same for Katie though, too. Chuck I'm in the same boat. We learn and grow from each encounter in our lives...hopefully.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #25 June 10, 2006 My wife was a divorcee. 'Nuff said. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
