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Has anyone used internet dating sites? Which ones? How successful were they in finding you a date?

My brother met his Russian wife on one. They had never met in person when she left her country, family, job, and condo to come to the states to marry my brother. All of my brother's family and friends warned him about what a foolish thing he was doing. We were all convinced that she was just using him.

They have been married for six years now. She has obtained her U.S. citizenship, and they are the most happily-married couple that I have ever seen. It's so cute to watch them together. :)
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very successful, been married for almost 2 years

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That's a bit of a non-traditional marriage though wouldn't you say?... considering she just had another man's baby... :S

...what am I thinking? I'm talking to a skydiver. :D

How are ya doin' phissy? Your Mom is wondering how she'll feel about jumping on Saturday after her cutaway last week.

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you had a cutaway ?? Apaprently "not too bad" as you're posting, and willing to go again.. You should feel great.
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That's a bit of a non-traditional marriage though wouldn't you say?... considering she just had another man's baby...

non traditionnal, that's true...
just had a baby ?? Come on, Devany was already 5yrs old.. I haven't been skydiving for 5 years yet...
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When I was in college (VMI when it was all male) we used to get on those because there were few avenues for meeting females. I'm still very close friends with some of the girls I met on there.
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ok one thing i hear read is that most skydivers prefer a skydicing partner, totally understand that.

why doesnt dz.com have a new section to the classified's? the personal classifieds section??

seems like a simple thing to set up and i dont see why it couldnt work.

there could also be a swingers section. when youre going from DZ to DZ you'll have a new brief "freiend" awaiting your arrival! B|:P
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why doesnt dz.com have a new section to the classified's? the personal classifieds section??



Because if you want to meet a skydiver your best bet is at the dropzone! I have heard rumours of 'swinging' there, too. :)

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My brother met his Russian wife on one. .....
They have been married for six years now. She has obtained her U.S. citizenship




heh. now she has her freedom and will start screwing around with the first russian guy she finds.

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Just beware... not only do you have scammers on there trying to screw people out of cash (getting them to send $$ for emergencies, plane tix, etc) but there are several lawsuits brewing against some sites.

I think it was match.com and yahoo personals (dont quote me on those, I may be wrong) that former employees blew the whistle on "date bait" scams. when they would see users not doing well and about to cancel a paid account, they were told to create bogus profiles (hot and successful of course) in the person's area and then send a message showing interest. that would cause the person to renew thinking they had found a hottie, only to have that person not respond any longer.

I have seen that scam firsthand on two different occasions several years ago. fell for the first one, and got smart the second time. Like many internet things (ebay, dating sites, etc) they start out great until they get bigger and asshats find the sites... then it all goes to hell.

Just be careful out there. its a zoo.
Two wrongs don't make a right, however three lefts DO!

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why doesnt dz.com have a new section to the classified's? the personal classifieds section??



It does! Occasionally there will be an actual personal ad in there, though mostly people use it for housing hookups.

I think Bonfire acts as its own personals section anyway.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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why doesnt dz.com have a new section to the classified's? the personal classifieds section??

seems like a simple thing to set up and i dont see why it couldnt work.



Because Sang is good at math. 85-90% of the sport is male. Doesn't make for a good matchup market.

I've never done much with Match. I'm too much of a chicken when it comes to the whole dating thing. But I had a co-worker who used it for awhile but stopped because he got tired of doing better with hookups and dates when he was playing games. It was just too much work for him.

But as long as you're careful I don't see how you have anything to lose but time by trying them out.

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I think if you look at it as "just another way to meet people" it can be okay. Assume that the odds are that most people you meet are probably not going to be your soulmate (and really, that's no different than any other way of meeting people) and it could be fun.

Manage expectations, be safe (casual date, public place for the first meetup), trust your instincts and enjoy it.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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I met an ex-boyfriend using AOL chatroom in 1996 and we were together for approximately 1.5 years.

My current SO and I met through Match.com. It's coming up on one year next month and is going well. :)
Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks

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I met an ex-boyfriend using AOL chatroom in 1996 and we were together for approximately 1.5 years.

My current SO and I met through Match.com. It's coming up on one year next month and is going well. :)



I'm glad to hear that Sarah... I tried Match.com, as well as a few others, with rather poor results... I guess I'm just too "unique"... :D
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But as long as you're careful I don't see how you have anything to lose but time by trying them out.

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Manage expectations, be safe (casual date, public place for the first meetup), trust your instincts and enjoy it.

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Oh, I wasn't asking because I was thinking about trying it. I just wanted to hear about other people's experiences.

A few years ago, I registered on three sites. I only had one man express an interest in meeting me. He was a self-expressed couch-potato intellectual who was looking for a wife. I declined to meet him because I just wasn't looking for a marriage partner, and I didn't think it would be fair to him.

I love to hear about success stories like my brothers. I know a few friends who have had good experiences too... :)

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I only use it to find people I normally wouldnt. My keeps me constantly traveling, so why only look in specific areas? With the internet, I can check all over the US for women I might be interested in... :S

A man will do anything for the right woman,
and when that woman destroys him,
that man will become a hunk of meat with the common sense of a rodeo clown! ~ Christopher Titus

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Well, one of the things that did it for me this time around was the skydiving!! I had wanted to try it years ago and meeting him was just a "sign". Well, now Mr. Bruce, I doubt you'll have any trouble what with your new official skydiver status and all!!!! :D:)
Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks

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