CSpenceFLY 1 #1 May 31, 2006 After a weekend from hell,not my stay at Emerald Coast but the trip there and back,and getting the news about Shannon,I must bring you another bit of bad news.A friend we knew here in Georgia and Florida as New York Brian,Daskal here on DZ.com took his own life this past weekend.It is my understanding that he was upset about having failed the bar exam for the second time.I had not seen him recently so I don't know what else might have been going on in his life.Brian was a good person,one of those that would do anything for a friend. People this should never be thought of as an option.Everything,no matter what it is that is going on in your life,is temporary.I don't care what you think you can't handle this is not the way.Find help!!Find help in your friends,find help in a church,find help at a hospital,FUCK,write a note,staple it to your shirt and then go drink till you pass out somewhere that someone will find you.Brian was in his early 20s.From what I understand he was worried about letting down the people around himand keeping others happy.Fuck all that,stay alive and make yourself happy. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #2 May 31, 2006 Sorry~ May he rest in peace. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McBeth 0 #3 May 31, 2006 Wow tough times lately I miss you Spencey. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flying-Wench 0 #4 May 31, 2006 well said man.. *big hugs* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #5 May 31, 2006 QuoteWow tough times lately I miss you Spencey. Really!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #6 May 31, 2006 That sucks... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #7 May 31, 2006 Damn. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #8 May 31, 2006 Sorry Spence. *Hugs* and when those hugs run out here's some more for you *hugs* ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #9 May 31, 2006 Damn... I'm sorry to hear that, Spence... Agreed, definitely agreed with what you said - if ANYone finds themself in that type of thought process, please, PLEASE get some help. Talk to a friend, a family member, a doctor or priest..but please, talk to SOMEone!!Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #10 May 31, 2006 Holy Shit.. Brian was a great guy. Fuck!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #11 May 31, 2006 Damn, looks like i need to kick more butt in heaven. Bastard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #12 May 31, 2006 Holy Damn! What the hell is going on this week? Personally known people for me: 1 major mal and very close call 1 base fatal and now one on his own Brian was one of the good guys...damn! RIP Brian...no worries, no pain.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #13 June 1, 2006 Brian was a good guy. Why the fuck he felt he needed to top himself i don't know. Well, i guess its the best way to get back at your parents.lol He is probably in heaven right now telling Pruitt how dumb he was for jumping his birdman suit...lolhttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #14 June 1, 2006 Everyone has their demons, and sometimes they catch up. When will it be safe to log back onto this web site?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #15 June 1, 2006 QuoteEveryone has their demons, and sometimes they catch up. When will it be safe to log back onto this web site? maybe this week-end will give us some credit for the next few years..Let the powers above pick on another sport, like bowlinghttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Revillusion 0 #16 June 1, 2006 I just heard about Brian. BSBD Brian. VIRTUS JUNXIT MORS NON SEPARABIT Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #17 June 1, 2006 QuoteI just heard about Brian. BSBD Brian. Take it easy now Take it easy nowhttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #18 June 1, 2006 That sucks, I met him a few times, seemed very laid back back. We always joked he had mafia ties. (Dark humor below, apologies in advance) Think he got whacked by the mafia and they just made it look like suicide? Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #19 June 1, 2006 I am so sorry to hear it. I did not know him, but condolences to his friends and family.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #20 June 1, 2006 If anyone is thinking of suicide, please reach out one last time. There are people who know and understand that darkness, that never-ceasing pain. People who understand what it's like to sit at the edge of the abyss and feel the pull to slide down into it. There are people who understand, who care more than you'd believe, and who will hold your hand all the way back from the edge. Do not think you are as alone as it seems - there are people all around you who know that blackness intimately, who've fought it...and are willing to help you fight it, too. Call someone. Tell someone. Write a note to a virtual stranger - me - and know that you'll be heard. Reach out one more time...'cause there is help; there is a life after this blackness, there is a way through and there can be happiness again. I know this; and I promise you this, too. Just reach out one more time. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #21 June 1, 2006 Quote like bowling That's a game, not a sport. It dawned on me many years ago, as I came close to calling it quits, who say's it's going to be any different on the other side?We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #22 June 1, 2006 People can win a whole hell of a lot more money bowling than skydiving it is a sportDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashtanga 0 #23 June 1, 2006 Quotethere are people all around you who know that blackness intimately, who've fought it...and are willing to help you fight it, too. I have been there and I have overcome the need to end my life. Anyone that wants to talk about it can PM me anytime. Life does get much better! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brian3576 0 #24 June 1, 2006 QuoteLife does get much better! your life got much better, not everybodys does though i think sometimes there is something majestic about somebody committing suicide, something so glorius in it's purity. One final act of doing something for yourself, a way of taking control when you may have been out of control Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashtanga 0 #25 June 1, 2006 http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
