bob.dino 1 #26 May 29, 2006 What's a cocky asshole? Someone who's confident, playful, and a bit flirty? Then yeah, of course they're attractive. Very few women are attracted to insecure, morose depressives (17yo goth chicks may be an exception). Would you want a relationship with someone who was no fun to be around? Didn't think so. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #27 May 29, 2006 Quotemen who basically talk shit to women, slightly degrading but in a sarcastic type of way Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flying-Wench 0 #28 May 29, 2006 mmm defining it.. id say a cocky asshole type guy is someone who is too overconfident, they think that they are gods gifts and assume that they can get whatever they want, when they want and they dont have to behave well to get it. well not for long anyway lol. they usually dont have alot of respect for a person, and will mow down anything/anyone in their way to get what they want. And of course once they have conquered.. its off to the next challenge.. someone whom is confident and flirty.. but yet respectful.. yes thats attractive. someone who is overconfident in the way i have defined above.. defintely not.. well not to me anyway.. perhaps to someone who is terribly insecure, in which case id day they have some issues to work on themselves.. its not the fault of the cocky one! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nanook 1 #29 May 29, 2006 Maybe you didn't come off as cocky to the ladies on your experiment. Maybe you came off as confident and a good dude to boot. It's hard to hide one's good side, Women pick that shit up quickly. Sometimes I think in some cases people who call other guys cocky tend to look how they treat them rather than how they treat women and judge them in a not so unbiased view. . . Sometimes. Women do not like jerks. a lot of the times, that means, they don't like men who are jerks to them. And, sometimes they dont see their boyfriends as being total jerks to other guys, but seeing them being annoyed by a total pussy or annoying twerp. And there are women who don't lile any type of jerk. Ask your girl why she likes you. _____________________________ "The trouble with quotes on the internet is that you can never know if they are genuine" - Abraham Lincoln Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UntamedDOG 0 #30 May 29, 2006 QuoteThis has been bothering me for a while now. It seems like so many women enjoy the company of a complete and utter cocky prick by their side. You have a lot to learn. I’m sorry you seem so bitter towards others that have what you truly desire. It is the instinct of every man to conquer and acquire the female as both a slave-lover and respectful-servant. You must learn to exude confidence, power and control over women. When approaching a nymphet for the first time, I don’t ask for their respect. I command respect through my actions and words. I treat women like children by talking down to them and treating them with no more courtesy than a common streetwalker. Women by nature are arrogant and put themselves on a pedestal in hopes that someone will knock them down a peg. That is precisely why GOD created man. To keep women from letting their own stupid egos blow up the planet. Philosophers call this “universal harmony” Women worship me because I enjoy being a selfish asshole. It makes me feel like a big man when they realize they will never have any say in our relationship. Their future is held firmly in my hands and that is what makes me irresistible. UntamedDOG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
inzite 0 #31 May 29, 2006 100% of what untamedDOG said is true. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #32 May 29, 2006 QuoteWomen worship me because I enjoy being a selfish asshole. It makes me feel like a big man when they realize they will never have any say in our relationship. Their future is held firmly in my hands and that is what makes me irresistible. Now THAT is some of the funniest BS right there. Dawg...are your eyes brown? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
morningdove831 0 #33 May 29, 2006 QuoteQuoteThey act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Sounds familiar. Yes, this sounds all too familiar! Once they get what they want, they treat you like shit. But what goes around comes around, and one day guys like that will get what they deserve from a really good woman who sees through their lies. Karma is beautiful. One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. -- Hasidic Saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #34 May 29, 2006 I know I shouldn't say it but that was really funny... not necessarily in a good way... but funny none the less... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royd 0 #35 May 29, 2006 QuoteOMG, I can't believe this has 18 posts and nobody has said....) I wish more women liked their assholes cocky! We were waiting for you to do it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #36 May 29, 2006 QuoteYes, this sounds all too familiar! Once they get what they want, they treat you like shit. But what goes around comes around, and one day guys like that will get what they deserve from a really good woman who sees through their lies. Karma is beautiful. The problem with this is that they'll never know because they're too shallow and self-centered to realize that karma bit them in the ass.The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
morningdove831 0 #37 May 29, 2006 QuoteQuoteYes, this sounds all too familiar! Once they get what they want, they treat you like shit. But what goes around comes around, and one day guys like that will get what they deserve from a really good woman who sees through their lies. Karma is beautiful. The problem with this is that they'll never know because they're too shallow and self-centered to realize that karma bit them in the ass. You're probably very right on that one. One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. -- Hasidic Saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #38 May 29, 2006 Way too many guys use this myth as a way not to look a little deeper into themselves to see WHY their relationships aren't going the way they want them to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #39 May 29, 2006 QuoteWay too many guys use this myth as a way not to look a little deeper into themselves to see WHY their relationships aren't going the way they want them to. Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #40 May 29, 2006 Way too many women consider this a myth so they won't have to take a look at themselves and the men they're attracted to...The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #41 May 29, 2006 I always love the discussions that start out with a neat premise like, "All men/women are the same and they think/want... Plus, they only have one set of emotions/opinions/desires at all moments." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #42 May 29, 2006 QuoteI still say that "Nice guys" do NOT finish last. What you seem to be talking about is "picking up chicks" and/or "scoring" which is quite different from actual relationships. Granted one can lead to the other... but most of the time scoring is just about the adventure. And for adventure... yeah... cocky guys are more fun. Sometimes, women go out and hit on hot, disinterested guys for a fun time. The guys are classified as arrogant, but almost always they are being honest about their intentions. He doesn't like her. It's all about the party, there's no mystery. She wants sex with a hot guy, there he is, her choice. The odd part is when people seek a relationship with someone who treats them poorly and then they complain. A relationship is with the person (their character). They want a relationship with who they can change them into. When that happens, they are actually being entirely superficial because they are dating them for reasons other than character (money or looks). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dolph 0 #43 May 29, 2006 QuoteI always love the discussions that start out with a neat premise like, "All men/women are the same and they think/want... Plus, they only have one set of emotions/opinions/desires at all moments." It's much easier that way. We need little boxes to sort our little lives out. Imagine if we'd have to think! On second thought, don't. I think people are in relationships for a great variety of reasons. To me, they're all basically almost as good. I find it hard to say that it is better to be in a relationship because you think your partner is totally hot, than it is to be in on because the other part is totally rich. Or because you need the emotional support (but don't really have any love). And so on. In fact, I'd go as far as to suggest the majority of marriages are more about growing accustomed to each other and being afraid of the unknown outside of marriage than it is about red hot love. Which is OK in my book. It seems there is more to love than just romantic teenage he/she-is-the-stars-the-sun-without-him/her-I-dwell-in-darkness stuff. Which is why it is really, really interesting, because it's hard to understand at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flying-Wench 0 #44 May 29, 2006 QuoteQuoteWomen worship me because I enjoy being a selfish asshole. It makes me feel like a big man when they realize they will never have any say in our relationship. Their future is held firmly in my hands and that is what makes me irresistible. . *rotfl* crikey... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ashtanga 0 #45 May 29, 2006 Case in point...One Ugly but Cocky Dude.... http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=34486657 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 2 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
Ashtanga 0 #45 May 29, 2006 Case in point...One Ugly but Cocky Dude.... http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=34486657 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
