how important is ... ?

[elias123 0]

How important is sex in a relationship with someone who you love more than anything in the world? If it is important to you, how much?

"In a mad world, only the mad are sane"

[leapdog 0]

But not that important. Personality and how well you get along is much more important.

Gunnery Sergeant of Marines
"I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker

[Broke 0]

it is definitally a more worthwhile partnership when the people involved complement each other.

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[leapdog 0]

Oh yes. But it is work, always.

Gunnery Sergeant of Marines
"I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker

[Broke 0]

Well you know what they say. When you love your work it dosen't feel like work

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[leapdog 0]

I always heard it as they have to pay you to show up, that;s why they call it work. Otherwise people would say I have to go to fun in the morning.

I know doesn't have anyhtin gto do with a relationship.

it is worth it to put effort into it when you already compliment each other.

Gunnery Sergeant of Marines
"I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker

[yamtx73 0]

I feel that sex is important, if you love them it helps you to connect. Sex is more than just a physical act in this situation, it's also a very emotional one and that helps deepen the bonds....

The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers...

[adventurechick 0]

I don't really think it's that important.... but I've never been in a relationship longer than 6 weeks....

I think just by kissing someone can increase the bond between you guys (not talking about the random make out sessions that don't mean anything)

But we are human and sex is going to happen and is fun and all that jazz but personally, I've never felt oh so much closer to the person because of sex.

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[ACMESkydiver 0]

Long term relationship = VERY VERY important.

Just dating = meh.

~Jaye
Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action.

[skymama 37]

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But we are human and sex is going to happen and is fun and all that jazz but personally, I've never felt oh so much closer to the person because of sex.

It sounds like you've experienced having sex, but not making love. The two are not anything the same. Sure, they both end with a climax but all the stuff leading up to it and the emotions invloved is what makes the difference.

You're still young and haven't had a long relationship. Give it time...you'll find someone you're truly in love with and will understand what I'm talking about.

She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

[freeflir29 0]

Damn important! However........if you really are in love with the person the sex should be spectacular. Now sometimes there's also the person that you aren't in love with but still want to do lots of dirty things to regardless.

[elias123 0]

to be honest, i taught that the 'women, important' choice would be lower, and to be honset 2 out of 29 guys who thinks sex isnt important (including me ) is also a little low,
on the other hand, i really dont have much experience but i would want to feel that later in my life, it really should not be that a big of deal (just turned 19 and ate a 900gram lobster, my favorite food, damn that bitch tasted good )

"In a mad world, only the mad are sane"

[NWFlyer 2]

Intimacy is critical in any relationship. How that manifests itself may be different for different types of relationship, and it may be different at different stages of the relationship.

"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

[freeflir29 0]

Yeah the numbers were a bit surprising to me too. However, sex is a human need. For a relationship to truly work that need must be satisfied.

[teamjenn1 0]

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However, sex is a human need. For a relationship to truly work that need must be satisfied.

Right on!

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[skydiver51 0]

Write this down and tack it on your wall and when you get older, say in your 40's you will say to your self "Damn, Skymama knew exactly what she was talking about." I wish I knew this when I was younger.