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Would you Date a Whuffo??

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As I was hanging out at a party tonight, a few guys asked me about my new love, skydiving. All of them told me they would be too scared to ever try it and how crazy I am to jump every week. Some then proceeded to give me their number...ect. I think they are too much of a wuss for me to ever date.... have you encountered this before?? Could you go on a date with someone who is too scared of extreme sports and is not willing to give it a chance??

I tried to convince them to go shark diving with me after they turned me down for skydiving... that didn't work out so well either.... what happened to the wild and crazy twenty year olds!! Sissies I tell ya! :P;)

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um, take it to the womans forum...:S
Skydiving isn't for everyone. Not jumping out of an airplane doesn't make you a wuss.life is a daring adventure all by itself.
if anything I don't even think of skydiving as "extreme" I was just lucky enough to be introduced to it.
lighten up.
in the end I would be more impressed with a woman that coud handle my lifestyle and not be involved than with a woman who skydived/BASE jumped.
Good luck, Have fun
~J
"One flew East,and one flew West..............one flew over the cuckoo's nest"
"There's absolutely no excuse for the way I'm about to act"

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I date whuffos, but only ones with interest. Like my girlfriend now, we have been dating for one month now and she feels she is ready to complete a Tandem in May. Most of my ex's were the same way.

A man will do anything for the right woman,
and when that woman destroys him,
that man will become a hunk of meat with the common sense of a rodeo clown! ~ Christopher Titus

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Just remember.......whuffo or not......the only thing that matters is that he respects you and supports your decisions........when it boils down to it....just make sure that he treats you WELL........although a skydiver boyfriend would be pretty cool;););)

till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates....
In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground..............
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As I was hanging out at a party tonight, a few guys asked me about my new love, skydiving. All of them told me they would be too scared to ever try it and how crazy I am to jump every week. Some then proceeded to give me their number...ect. I think they are too much of a wuss for me to ever date.... have you encountered this before?? Could you go on a date with someone who is too scared of extreme sports and is not willing to give it a chance??

I tried to convince them to go shark diving wit

h me after they turned me down for skydiving... that didn't work out so well either.... what happened to the wild and crazy twenty year olds!! Sissies I tell ya! :P;)



I met a guy in his 80's who told me this" skydiving isn't an extreme sport...but it can be if you do it while being shot at!"

he jumped on D DayB|

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Just remember.......whuffo or not......the only thing that matters is that he respects you and supports your decisions........when it boils down to it....just make sure that he treats you WELL........although a skydiver boyfriend would be pretty cool;););)



This bears repeating. :)
I got lucky and have a great guy who also happens to be a skydiver. I've got the best of both worlds. :$B|

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Just remember.......whuffo or not......the only thing that matters is that he respects you and supports your decisions........when it boils down to it....just make sure that he treats you WELL........although a skydiver boyfriend would be pretty cool;););)




he might need a safety harness for all that "dangerous sex":o

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Yes you do Jamie.... but you two are an incredible couple from the start.



Thanks Lisamarie. :$ That's sweet. :)
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I agree with Xena... at the end of the day all that matters is that he is genuine, honest and supportive.



Genuine, honest, and supportive. All important traits, unfortunately, not common enough. Granted, guys who have those things are out there. They just have to be found by the right girls. :)

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Granted, guys who have those things are out there. They just have to be found by the right girls



Couldnt agree more. Over the past few months I have noticed more men have these traits but they are ignored. Hell there are several on here who are awesome awesome guys, but cant find a girlfriend.
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

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Whuffo or not is irrelevant.

As has been said quite a few times, how you are treated and cared for is where you should be concerned. The man could be a whuffo and treat you like a princess...who cares if he jumps or not. Or he could be a skydiver and treat you like shit...they why would you want to be with him?

Or you could find your gem like I did and get a skydiver who treats you like a princess...and then you have it the best.

A sport should not be the concern in whether you end up with a person or not. What should be the concern is who that person is inside and how they treat you and others.
Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.

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The ultimate test? Which one of those scaredy cat boys will prove their interest in you by facing their fears and doing a jump? B|
Convo between my friend and his ex...
Nick - "Chad talked me into skydiving."
Her - "I thought you didn't like extreme sports"
Nick - "Dating you WAS an extreme sport."

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You have 20 jumps and you are worried about dating someone who is not a skydiver. I think you are a bit ahead of yourself at this point of time.

Besides, if you are so shallow that you can not date someone who does not do an 'extreme' sport, if you ever break your bag or shatter your pelvis or any other horrible thing that happens to alot of people in this sport, you will end up one very lonely girl who will have to learn how to 'extreme' walk on her own.

I have a partner of three years that does not jump, Some days i wish she did but if she jumped, that would cut my jumping in half. I know my partner is there for me and she would be there for me if i hurt myself as well. You want to go and 'date' skydivers, what if you get injured and then you are not a skydiver anymore and he does not want you because you are not 'extreme'?
Don't be so shallow, you are still a student, so far to go before this becomes your life. Wait until you have sold your car, sold your house, sold your soul to the turbine god and then worry about dating a whuffo.

Besides, if dating a whuffo is such a big deal, why are you not at the dropzone right now jumping?

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Well, I did sell my car to do AFF....

I know skydiving is one of many sports I do and hope to have many more in life... but I know many guys are threatened by a girl who likes to do "extreme sports" like shark dives, skydiving, bunjee jumping, ect....

As a guy... if you weren't a skydiver, would you feel weird if your gal did many crazy things and you didn't? That's where I was trying to get with this. I know many guys at least in college here have the mentality "I need to be the big, tough, bf... and my gal can be the scaredy cat."

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I dont think she is just saying "skydiving" she is a person who participates in many extreme activities from SCUBA to rockclimbing to jumping... its a mind set. Would she as a person who is into living on the edge be happy with someone who stays as far from the edge as possible.

Your post was rude, shes just as much a skydiver as you "may" be.
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
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I dont think she is just saying "skydiving" she is a person who participates in many extreme activities from SCUBA to rockclimbing to jumping... its a mind set. Would she as a person who is into living on the edge be happy with someone who stays as far from the edge as possible.

Your post was rude, shes just as much a skydiver as you "may" be.



Thank you Lisa marie! :o)

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As a guy... if you weren't a skydiver, would you feel weird if your gal did many crazy things and you didn't?



Sorry if my post was rude. I do not know you so i should not comment on your commitment to the sport. I just fpund the way you asked to be very shallow. If you are this extreme chick that does all these extreme things though, it should not be a question to you as you would think your 'circles' would revolve around other extreme people.

If i was not a jumper and my gal was, i would not think it was weird, i would think it was my foot in the door to something really cool. The thing is though, i would not date anyone i had nothing in common with. I like everyone else though have many things in common with whuffos.

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