ccowden 0 #76 March 9, 2006 And he was probably raping girls and doing drugs and meeting up with his mistress too. And the whole time, his wife is home washing dishes and doing laundry for him. Poor victimized thing! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beverly 1 #77 March 9, 2006 Something like that - you guys are finally getting it!! Ok ok, I am a little bitter and twisted at the moment, but not for no reason!! "No no no no, babe, no no no no don't lie, what ja gonna do when it all comes out..." I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #78 March 9, 2006 I figured as long as we were speculating, I might as well add to it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #79 March 9, 2006 Quote Maybe he was not sick and was out stomping another woman and by you asking how he was bust his cover? Maybe he does not want you speaking to his wife, 'cause you or your SO might land him in the shit and uncover his philandering ways?? That's what I was thinking too. I think it's a tough situation to be in. Working with friends can cause problems. If you do bring it up and she freaks out on you, your husband still has to work with him and hear about it and vice versa. It's a sticky situation. I don't think she should talk to her about it point blank. Not unless she knows for sure what the real situation is. You can get a vibe from her when the four of you are together. If she's jealous, you'll know it by the way she acts when you talk to her husband. You could always just innocently bring up jealousy issues with her one day when you're having a safety meeting. Mention someone you might have been jealous of when you were a kid or bring up how an ex was super jealous or something. See how the conversation evolves. Just an idea. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wartload 0 #80 March 9, 2006 QuoteHave you ever thought that it is not the wife at all, and he is fabricating this mad woman syndrome. Maybe he was not sick and was out stomping another woman and by you asking how he was bust his cover? Maybe he does not want you speaking to his wife, 'cause you or your SO might land him in the shit and uncover his philandering ways?? And she is the sweet innocent victim of a scumbag? Yep ... and she may have a pretty good sense that he's creepin' on her, but not sure with whom. That makes virtually every woman they come into contact with a source of paranoia ... and they apparently come into contact with you a lot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #81 March 9, 2006 I just found out from my SO...he called on their lunch break.... Conversation... SO Talk to Karin this morning? Me: No why? SO: Karin and Larry got into a big fight last night! Me: Over what? SO: She is pissed that he rode in the truck with you and me yesterday! She is threatening to leave his ass. Me: I don't get this..where is this coming from. SO: Just tellin ya what Larry said. Me: Should I go talk to her? SO: No, stay out of it...this is too weird. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #82 March 9, 2006 They do not go anywhere without each other!! I see them coming and going together whenever they both go out...my SO keeps him pretty occupied during the week...he has no time or energy to go anywhere or do anything..the weekends? They are always together!! ALWAYS! BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #83 March 9, 2006 QuoteI just found out from my SO...he called on their lunch break.... Conversation... SO Talk to Karin this morning? Me: No why? SO: Karin and Larry got into a big fight last night! Me: Over what? SO: She is pissed that he rode in the truck with you and me yesterday! She is threatening to leave his ass. Me: I don't get this..where is this coming from. SO: Just tellin ya what Larry said. Me: Should I go talk to her? SO: No, stay out of it...this is too weird. Bobbi Looks like your SO is making a good call. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #84 March 9, 2006 It just bugs me thats all.....I have never done anything to either of them...I am having a really hard time wrapping my mind around the situation and lack of rationality over her actions. What if HE is playing the game and trying to stop whatever friendship that has developed evolve? NONE of this makes any sense to me!!!!!! BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #85 March 9, 2006 QuoteIt just bugs me thats all.....I have never done anything to either of them...I am having a really hard time wrapping my mind around the situation and lack of rationality over her actions. What if HE is playing the game and trying to stop whatever friendship that has developed evolve? NONE of this makes any sense to me!!!!!! Bobbi The fact that it doesn't make any sense to you should be your cue to stay away from it. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #86 March 9, 2006 Moth to the flame, baby...moth to the flame... BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #87 March 9, 2006 QuoteMoth to the flame, baby...moth to the flame... Bobbi C'mon Bobbi, you're smarter than me!!!! Don't do that moth to the flame thing! Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #88 March 9, 2006 Well, that's just it. You're only hearing things from him and not even getting a jealous vibe off the girlfriend when you are with her. Can she really be that good at covering it up? I don't know- on the one hand, do you really need to get involved in all that drama? On the other, maybe she really needs the friendship you've extended even if she is jealous and insecure. Tricky situation! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #89 March 9, 2006 Thats just it...she doesn't come across as insecure and jealous, AT ALL...NO I don't need any of that kind of drama in my life...but they live a stones throw away, across the street...this is going to be weird ..... Walt.... I know...I know.. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #90 March 9, 2006 Just go over there and knock on her door right now and ask her what the fuck is up. (set up a video camera first if you can, you know, for our pleasure) -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #91 March 9, 2006 Oh crap, no response. I hope you didn't really go over there. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #92 March 9, 2006 No I can't do that....My SO and her "hubby" have a working relationship....I can't destroy that. Though I am dieing to ask her what is up!! BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUPERConnie 0 #93 March 9, 2006 oooookkkk...sounds like the neighboors got marriage issues...don't let someone elses problems become your own...problems in a marriage are best handled by the professionals, we can't solve other people's problems or even try to understand them...even tho you live close to them & have the work thing going, back off, don't even smile or talk to them unless you need to & forget being friendly or nice, just be cordial...don't let someone else's drama become yours. Plain & simple. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #94 March 9, 2006 Yeah I know...but going from talking every day "over the fence" to not at all...I feel like I lost a friendship and I don't even know why!!!!!!! BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #95 March 9, 2006 That does suck. You can PM with me when you get that "talk over the fence" feeling. Will that help? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #96 March 9, 2006 Your sweet. Thank you. Funny...that does help.BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jeiber 0 #97 March 9, 2006 QuoteLeave them alone, you home wrecker! You OBVIOUSLY are trying to get in this guys pants and split them up! I agree.... you're only posting here to find people to believe your story! Where there's smoke, there's fire! J ps- just kidding Shhh... you hear that sound? That's the sound of nobody caring! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #98 March 9, 2006 Maybe you should have an all girl skydiving pajama party at your house. See what she does. I kid, I kid. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #99 March 9, 2006 Hey! Thats not a bad idea!! Mmmm..lets see..chips, beer, whip cream..... BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #100 March 9, 2006 Wooo hooo! What state are you in? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
