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Oh I realize there are two sides to a coin...trust me...I believe he has issuses. I hear the stories she has told me about his side of the family, they are a bit :S

She can't go anywhere without him up her ass, BUT that maybe her doing too...who knows!


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You don't know! But you like her and you've gotten along well so far without picking up any hint of jealousy, right? I've dealt with jealous SOs before, (I think most of us have) but even when they tried to be friends to my face I always knew there was something more going on.

Anyway, all I'm suggesting is keep an open mind, BUT now that you know there is potential "weirdness" from both of them, maybe be a little careful about how involved you want to get with them. She's been a friend and it sounds like she needs a friend, so try not to cut her off. But at the same time, you don't want this dysfunctional couple to drag your healthy relationship down to their level.

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I would be wary of saying anything to her about it because if all is true from what he says( which of course we have no idea) then she is going to know that he talked with you about it. This will only make her feel that he is confiding in you and also emabarrassing her by making her out to be the jealous wife.

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Have you ever thought that it is not the wife at all, and he is fabricating this mad woman syndrome.
Maybe he was not sick and was out stomping another woman and by you asking how he was bust his cover?

Maybe he does not want you speaking to his wife, 'cause you or your SO might land him in the shit and uncover his philandering ways??

And she is the sweet innocent victim of a scumbag?

Just a thought.

I would speak to her about it.
Clear the air and have an open forum for discussions.
Stuff all this secretive bullshit that everyone has to sneak around eachother all the time. Be open and honest. "I HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUR MAN"

I think true friendship is under-rated

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