waltappel 1 #26 March 7, 2006 Quotewhy should everyone need to know full details of what is going on in order to post? I would really like this explained. Because the disappointment of not winning the lottery is quite different from the disappointment of being turned down for a liver transplant or some other truly life-altering event. I have seen a ton of examples where people will really pull together to help one of their own who needs help but what really motivates them is being able to relate to that person's situation. That's what's missing from your original post. Most people here probably don't know her (I don't) and you post very sporadically, so many may not know you at all. To say someone is having a hard time emotionally because of a big disappointment in their life just doesn't give anyone enough information to relate to the situation. We've all felt bad. That's a normal part of living. What's different about this situation? We don't know. I'm not saying the situation isn't bad--I don't know. Neither do most people who read your original post, and you seem to be disappointed in the responses received. I think that is unfair and unrealistic on your part. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #27 March 7, 2006 Thank you, Walt, for explaining that so clearly - I certainly couldn't (and didn't).Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rick 67 #28 March 7, 2006 btw I love your screen nameYou can't be drunk all day if you don't start early! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PRSKY71 0 #29 March 7, 2006 Well Xena, I'm a little shy about posting on this forum, but the best of wishes to you in whatever difficulties you are having. Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meloo09 0 #30 March 7, 2006 Feel good vibes to you sweetie! I'm sorry to hear about the surgery, just make sure I'm on that 4-way with you and Christine! What you do speaks so loud, I cannot hear what you say. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jmpnkramer 0 #31 March 7, 2006 First to Mike - You like many others on here are missing the whole point. Nothing you said was taken as an attack. The point is to just wish someone well and luck in the future, even if you do not them. You never know when you will come across that person or they might be able to assist you. Life is short. Live it. Walt - First why should we take validity in your post since you have absolutely zero information in your profile. That is basically the same thing. Yes you can put whatever you wish in the profile but still nothing is the same thing you are suggesting about my post. Second - Everyone takes things differently. It was something that Xena worked hard for and did not get. I can relate because of my work. Although anyone who has worked hard for something and did not get it should relate. Maybe you should re-read the post & get a small grasp. Quoteyou seem to be disappointed in the responses received. No, I am not disappointed. I expected as much because many on this site ignore the unknown. I personally do not get on enough and miss a bunch. QuoteI think that is unfair and unrealistic on your part. It is neither of those things because I have seen some vibe requests where no real information was given but because the person is a regular poster others reply. In reality it does not personally matter to me. I am only pointing out the obvious. There are many people who know me and what I am about. I talk mucho shit on here but when a person needs my assistance I try to be there. Sometimes my job does not let me though. Just give the Woman some encouragement and let it be at that. Laters, K-MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .The REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER! "HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!" "Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #32 March 7, 2006 Trying to take this back on track... Sorry to hear that things aren't going as smoothly as you would like. I know the feeling and just try to tell myself that even though it might not be the way that I had planned... the fates go the way they should. (some might see that as a "cop-out", but I would rather see positives than focus on dissappointment) Good luck with the surgery. Karen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #33 March 7, 2006 drinking beer is good!!!!!!!!! I like drinking beer!!!! Thanks!!!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #34 March 7, 2006 I like to try and think that way as well....hard sometimes....but worth the effort!!!!!! Thanks Karen!!!!!! Hope you are doing well!!!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #35 March 7, 2006 wouldn't be a 4-way without ya girl!!!!!!!!! Thanks!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #36 March 7, 2006 I will be there.....I have a friend doing his level one on that day as well.......it is Sara????? right????? till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #37 March 7, 2006 Thanks for trying to explain everything dear.....I was just a bit down.....still am.....but I am sure things will get better!!!!!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #38 March 9, 2006 QuoteThanks for trying to explain everything dear.....I was just a bit down.....still am.....but I am sure things will get better!!!!!!!! A bit down,,Well, could you go down a bit further and finish the job off properly pleasehttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
