PLFXpert 0 #26 February 23, 2006 I've been there a few times in my life. I'm the type that when I feel some way, I act on it instantly. If I'm not happy, I find a way to make myself happy. Although, otherwise intelligent, I quit my first job out of college after 1.5 years w/out having another job lined up. I just knew I was OVER it. The problem (and the nice thing) was that I did VERY well instantly out of college. I knew it would be difficult to find another job that would pay as well AND have greener grass. I was fortunate to have enough means to pay all my bills (after all, I'd just bought my first house 6 months earlier) for several months while I searched for that next thing. I found it and I absolutely LOVE my current position. I work from home, don't deal with "Big Brother" or asshole clients, and am now making more $$$ than my previous position. But, it's taken me a year to get there. That year was a struggle, admittedly. I became even more pissed than I was before even, at times. But, it was well worth it! Hope that helps youPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #27 February 23, 2006 QuoteI have a very good chance of meeting my life goal of retiring at the age of 32. BUT, that entails staying where I am, and bustin my ass in this next year or so. Wow, to me that seems like enough to modivate you and stay there. What an opportunity! Definitely take weekend trips, start a new hobby, take a class, etc. to keep your life fresh, but if I were you I'd go for that goal.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #28 February 23, 2006 QuoteI am talking about relates to the success of the company. I have a very good chance of meeting my life goal of retiring at the age of 32. BUT, that entails staying where I am, and bustin my ass in this next year or so. I have put a lot into this company, and it would take a lot for them to let me go.....but I am the kinda person that needs/craves change. Whoa...soooo similiar to my previous posted example. OK, so maybe not 32...my goal was 45. Sheesh! 32??? I seriously had plenty moments of doubt after I left--as if I'd just screwed myself. But, I'm SOOOOO happy now. And my goal is still well within reachPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meloo09 0 #29 February 23, 2006 Move to zhillsWhat you do speaks so loud, I cannot hear what you say. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #30 February 23, 2006 Hmmm.........I SO know exactly what you are talking about. I have been a little scared a few times in my life because I keep having to move on. When you make the jump it's scary but for me..........it has ALWAYS led to better things. I started life (As an adult) in the Air Force. I almost got out then they offered me another job and I took it. That was a little scary as there was a lot to live up to. Liked that job so much I stayed for another 6 1/2 years. Finaly got fed up with the Air Force and got out after serving 9 1/2 yearsThat scared the shit out of me but damn had they provided PLENTY of motivation. Only took me a couple months to find a decent job in the computer business. Did that for two years until I got to the point that if I sat at that damn desk one more day I was going to eat a bullet! So........I quit to open my own business. I spent a couple weeks doing very little. Did ONE whole job that paid me a grand total of $125. I was sorta getting concerned till someone called me back on an application that I had made just about a year before. It was an EXCELLENT resume bullet so I took the job. To think.........me.........a Federal law enforcement officer. Did that for 2 years until I couldn't take the bullshit anymore. There were civilian companies offering to DOUBLE my salary. Almost a year ago now I dumped that job. I have NEVER been happier to be honest. I am doing a job that I love. Although it's in a place that I hate. Overall.........it's a good gig and each step has taken me higher and higher and closer to my life's goal of NOT having to EVER work for anyone else. In the mean time......I really am getting to help people and I'm making PHAT cash in the process. I couldn't be happier to be honest. You are a smart chick that ANY company would be lucky to have. Take no freakin prisoners and get what you deserve! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #31 February 23, 2006 I'll move to the keys if you move to the keys!! You need to get your butt movin and find a job down in Florida! You can have my job if you want, I will just tell my boss that you will be taking over for a little while *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #32 February 23, 2006 32 is my favorite number .....I have always thought I would retire from either becoming really rich, or because I would be starting my family. Maybe both! I don't think that I would ever be able to NOT work....I would go stir crazy. My 'retire' at 32 is more of a not having to rely on my career to keep my head above water. Does that make sense?? Basically I want what everyone else wants....do what ever I want, within reason , and not have to worry about money.*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goofyjumper 0 #33 February 23, 2006 QuoteHow long will you both be over there?? I have seriously been considering going overseas, since I have never been. We are going 5/19/06-5/28/06 Can't wait to go. Never been there......----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #34 February 23, 2006 Thanks for that post Clay! I think that there really is going to be a time limit that I will stay at this job. I figured give it another year...if things haven't changed or there is no progress in getting the company sold, then I will move on. I enjoy learning things, and when I get to a point in a job where I am not learning and instead doing the same thing everyday, I get bored and want to move on. Good luck reaching your goals! *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcneill79 0 #35 February 23, 2006 You should change your hair of course Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #36 February 23, 2006 I REALLY keep thinking about getting it all cut off....and the same length as yours....but I am skeeerd! *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcneill79 0 #37 February 23, 2006 Try it... it can always grow out. And it is a really fun change to make Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #38 February 23, 2006 Oh, I definitely meant RETIRE, as in NOT WORKING Hence why our age-goals might be different. I have a lot of doctor friends...go figure...and they think I'm nuts. Not only b/c I jump out of airplanes, but they simply can't imagine NOT working. "What? Retire? What would you do?" And the phrase "Are you fucking kidding me?" immediately comes to mind I would do everything I do now except more often and w/out "work" breaks. Ha! Skydive, scuba, travel, kayak, garden, paint, write a book, grow orchids, go running, travel more, volunteer at animal shelters, volunteer in general, travel some more, sit all day listening to music and reading magazines, shop, visit art galleries, museums, design, travel some more.... Get the idea?Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites missg8tordivr 0 #39 February 23, 2006 I don't understand those people that can't think of anything else to do besides work. There are SO many other things that I could be doing and places that I could be visiting if I didn't need this job to support my hobbies and interests. My parents retired about five years ago, and they are busier now that they don't work. Of course, they have a 33ft sailboat, a treasure diving boat, and other hobbies/clubs to take up their time. Its funny to hear my mom complain about how busy they are now that they don't have real jobs anymore. I just sit back, laugh and tell her "It must suck to be retired!" *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #40 February 23, 2006 Yep...nothing wrong with being "retired" My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #41 February 23, 2006 Quote My parents retired about five years ago, and they are busier now that they don't work. Of course, they have a 33ft sailboat, a treasure diving boat, and other hobbies/clubs to take up their time. Its funny to hear my mom complain about how busy they are now that they don't have real jobs anymore. I just sit back, laugh and tell her "It must suck to be retired!" Sounds like my parents. Not quite as outdoorsy as yours, but between travel, hikes, volunteering, genealogy research, and reading about a book a day (it seems), they're too busy for words!"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bob.dino 1 #42 February 23, 2006 Go spend two weeks hiking through New Zealand. Book a trip to the Equinox Boogie in Australia in October. Hike the Inca Trail in Peru. Go to Cuba for a fortnight. Spend a few days in St Petersburg in May. Learn to surf in California. The world is full of fun things to do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #43 February 24, 2006 My parents, EXACTLY. They bought a PREVO about a year ago. The damn thing has more TV's than I have in my house! And the bastards won't let me borrow it (Love, you daddy!)Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wingnut 0 #44 February 24, 2006 QuoteWhat do you do when you get that feeling of restlessness, like you should be doing something different in your life, but don't know what it is? work to change it....... i'm trying to get debt free right now.. when i get that done i will be able to pick up and do whatever it is i find that is for me....... to to all of you knocking ohio..... it really is a great place..... we have 4 seasons and our dirt isn't red, sandy, or nonexsitant...... butyes it does get cold some times..... you get used to it.... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites J_Cook 0 #45 February 24, 2006 Quoteto to all of you knocking ohio..... it really is a great place..... we have 4 seasons and our dirt isn't red, sandy, or nonexsitant...... butyes it does get cold some times..... you get used to it.... My thoughts exactly. No hurricanes, earthquakes, wildfires, very few tornados, clean air, and the best of every season. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #46 February 24, 2006 Quotewhen I get to a point in a job where I am not learning and instead doing the same thing everyday, I get bored and want to move on. That's the EXACT thing that has taken me to where I am today. Keep learning and each time you move on hold your new employers hostage and make them pay you what you are worth. I have FREAKIN SKILLZ!!!!!!!! and I get payed for it. Don't let the world punk you. You are smart, beautiful, and have a lot to offer. Don't let anyone make you feel like you need to beg. The world OWES you. Go out there and get it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dgskydive 0 #47 February 24, 2006 What she said. Move to Zhills baby!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites missg8tordivr 0 #48 February 24, 2006 wow....so there really are people that like Ohio? *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites missg8tordivr 0 #49 February 24, 2006 QuoteWhat she said. Move to Zhills baby! Now why would I do that? *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #50 February 24, 2006 Quotewow....so there really are people that like Ohio? Yes but they are all COMPLETELY insane. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. 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PLFXpert 0 #38 February 23, 2006 Oh, I definitely meant RETIRE, as in NOT WORKING Hence why our age-goals might be different. I have a lot of doctor friends...go figure...and they think I'm nuts. Not only b/c I jump out of airplanes, but they simply can't imagine NOT working. "What? Retire? What would you do?" And the phrase "Are you fucking kidding me?" immediately comes to mind I would do everything I do now except more often and w/out "work" breaks. Ha! Skydive, scuba, travel, kayak, garden, paint, write a book, grow orchids, go running, travel more, volunteer at animal shelters, volunteer in general, travel some more, sit all day listening to music and reading magazines, shop, visit art galleries, museums, design, travel some more.... Get the idea?Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #39 February 23, 2006 I don't understand those people that can't think of anything else to do besides work. There are SO many other things that I could be doing and places that I could be visiting if I didn't need this job to support my hobbies and interests. My parents retired about five years ago, and they are busier now that they don't work. Of course, they have a 33ft sailboat, a treasure diving boat, and other hobbies/clubs to take up their time. Its funny to hear my mom complain about how busy they are now that they don't have real jobs anymore. I just sit back, laugh and tell her "It must suck to be retired!" *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #40 February 23, 2006 Yep...nothing wrong with being "retired" My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #41 February 23, 2006 Quote My parents retired about five years ago, and they are busier now that they don't work. Of course, they have a 33ft sailboat, a treasure diving boat, and other hobbies/clubs to take up their time. Its funny to hear my mom complain about how busy they are now that they don't have real jobs anymore. I just sit back, laugh and tell her "It must suck to be retired!" Sounds like my parents. Not quite as outdoorsy as yours, but between travel, hikes, volunteering, genealogy research, and reading about a book a day (it seems), they're too busy for words!"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bob.dino 1 #42 February 23, 2006 Go spend two weeks hiking through New Zealand. Book a trip to the Equinox Boogie in Australia in October. Hike the Inca Trail in Peru. Go to Cuba for a fortnight. Spend a few days in St Petersburg in May. Learn to surf in California. The world is full of fun things to do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #43 February 24, 2006 My parents, EXACTLY. They bought a PREVO about a year ago. The damn thing has more TV's than I have in my house! And the bastards won't let me borrow it (Love, you daddy!)Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #44 February 24, 2006 QuoteWhat do you do when you get that feeling of restlessness, like you should be doing something different in your life, but don't know what it is? work to change it....... i'm trying to get debt free right now.. when i get that done i will be able to pick up and do whatever it is i find that is for me....... to to all of you knocking ohio..... it really is a great place..... we have 4 seasons and our dirt isn't red, sandy, or nonexsitant...... butyes it does get cold some times..... you get used to it.... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
J_Cook 0 #45 February 24, 2006 Quoteto to all of you knocking ohio..... it really is a great place..... we have 4 seasons and our dirt isn't red, sandy, or nonexsitant...... butyes it does get cold some times..... you get used to it.... My thoughts exactly. No hurricanes, earthquakes, wildfires, very few tornados, clean air, and the best of every season. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #46 February 24, 2006 Quotewhen I get to a point in a job where I am not learning and instead doing the same thing everyday, I get bored and want to move on. That's the EXACT thing that has taken me to where I am today. Keep learning and each time you move on hold your new employers hostage and make them pay you what you are worth. I have FREAKIN SKILLZ!!!!!!!! and I get payed for it. Don't let the world punk you. You are smart, beautiful, and have a lot to offer. Don't let anyone make you feel like you need to beg. The world OWES you. Go out there and get it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #47 February 24, 2006 What she said. Move to Zhills baby!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #48 February 24, 2006 wow....so there really are people that like Ohio? *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #49 February 24, 2006 QuoteWhat she said. Move to Zhills baby! Now why would I do that? *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #50 February 24, 2006 Quotewow....so there really are people that like Ohio? Yes but they are all COMPLETELY insane. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
