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When Do YOU say, "I Love You?"

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I have noticed that there are very many different styles when it comes to saying "I love you" and I'd like to know if there's some pattern to the breakdown.

rl



rl, sweetheart, it's your way of saying "I love you" that I love most.

"Walt, if you don't stop stalking me, I'm calling the police!!!!!"

:D:D:D

Walt

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I was going to give it to him for nothing...but if he's payin' for it...what the hell.

Live and learn.

:D:D



I AM still a broke student. C'mon now.



Oh well...in that case...

I love you, dear.

:D:D
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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Since the 1st day I told my wife I love her (she wasnt my wife then:P) I have told her everyday. for over 17 years now
I somtimes even say it midway through our fights:ph34r:
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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I was going to give it to him for nothing...but if he's payin' for it...what the hell.

Live and learn.

:D:D



I AM still a broke student. C'mon now.



A broke student, with student loan debts (lots of that) and a future 3-4 years of high stress and low pay.... then after that, he'll have the money for the hookers, but not the energy or spirit.

**serious answer. I say it to all that are cherished by me, as often as needed and then more. Those that are dear to my heart will know their importance. I have missed the opportunity in the past and vow that it will not happen again. There is little more crushing than to say those words to your friends after they have died.

Karen

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P.S. My answer to the topic question is: As often as possible.




Good answer. :)
I also like what LMarie said about NOT saying it after sex "IF" it is the first time you say it. Now that said, if your sweetheart makes you lose track of the time/space continuum she (or he) deserves AT LEAST an "ILY" and you volunteering to sleep in the wet spot. :$:):o:D

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No. We're just irresistibile



So...did you answer the question?

When do you say, "I love you?" o irresistible one?

rl



I dont say it. I show it. Actions speak louder than words.




How was that? That was pretty fucking good wasnt it?;)

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Since the 1st day I told my wife I love her (she wasnt my wife then) I have told her everyday. for over 17 years now

AWWWWW!!!!!!!!!![/RED] That is [B]SO sweet. Good job and keep up the good work! ;)
Nina

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I dont say it. I show it. Actions speak louder than words.



If I didn't know better, I'd ask you to marry me. ;)

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How was that? That was pretty fucking good wasnt it?;)





You're shameless. :ph34r::ph34r:
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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Actions speak louder than words.

But sometimes, we just need the words! :$



In all seriousness, I could live the rest of my life without the words if I got the actions.

One of my biggest difficulties in relationships has been men who say all the right words and then do all the wrong things. Lip service is no substituted for empathy.

Cognitive dissonance. I can't stand it. It makes me a little psycho.

rl
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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Points to the first guy who figures out what is wrong with that picture. :D

-Miranda
you shall above all things be glad and young / For if you're young,whatever life you wear
it will become you;and if you are glad / whatever's living will yourself become.

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In all seriousness, I could live the rest of my life without the words if I got the actions.

OK...Good point. But sometimes, in certain circumstances, words are all you have. [:/]
Nina

Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz)
Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance

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IMHO I believe that it is wholly possible to overuse the word love.

Surely your actions, and treatment of the ones you love mean way more than just the actual going through the motions of saying 'I love you'.

Unless of course you say it with the same passion, thought, emotion, and mean it. I don't think it should be used at every opurtunity (takes the special-ness out of it surely?)

Saying it for the sake of it demeans it in my opinion. But having said that I know that I make sure my better half knows I love her because of the way I treat her. And she treats me. It's a two way street after all.

Great thread, and appreciate the poster for asking the question :)

Out of 10,000 feet of fall, always remember that the last half inch hurts the most — Captain Charles W. Purcell, 1932

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