GiaKrembs 0 #1 February 10, 2006 I'm taking stock on my personal life and realized that I'm on good terms with all my ex.'s but one. I'm wondering if this is the norm, or if most others choose for one reason or another to completely end it. Feel free to comment. g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #2 February 10, 2006 QuoteI'm taking stock on my personal life and realized that I'm on good terms with all my ex.'s but one. I'm wondering if this is the norm, or if most others choose for one reason or another to completely end it. Feel free to comment. g I voted yes, I try. But I make that vote on a case to case basis. I will try to be friends if I actually want to be friends, not just because they might think we should be.Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #3 February 10, 2006 My ex's were bad for me in all sorts of ways....I made clean breaks from them and ran like hell. So you can only guess which choice I made on your poll. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #4 February 10, 2006 I could start up where we left off with all of them. I try to never leave on a bad note. I have respect for them all and miss them more than they know.Still searching for my first love to see how she is doing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jjiimmyyt 0 #5 February 10, 2006 I'm on good terms with most although there is one that we cross the street if we see each other. That one kinda ended very badly and by the end the only thing we could agree on was that we wanted nothing to do with each other ever again. Included being in the other persons company as little as seeing them on the street. "This isn't an iron lung, people. You can actually disconnect and not die." -Dave Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #6 February 10, 2006 "Still searching for my first love to see how she is doing." Theres a reason why she "hiding". BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #7 February 10, 2006 Yep. One thing I am very proud of. Every single girl that I have ever Been with, I am still friends with. I cant think of a single exception. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #8 February 10, 2006 I know but ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #9 February 10, 2006 I'm surprised one of your ex's in particular even has any friends....Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #10 February 10, 2006 QuoteI'm taking stock on my personal life and realized that I'm on good terms with all my ex.'s but one. I'm wondering if this is the norm, or if most others choose for one reason or another to completely end it. Feel free to comment. g I am most definately friends with all my ex's save one. That bitch cheated on me. Ask me if I'm bitter.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #11 February 10, 2006 QuoteI'm taking stock on my personal life and realized that I'm on good terms with all my ex.'s but one. I'm wondering if this is the norm, or if most others choose for one reason or another to completely end it. Feel free to comment. g Being on friendly terms with my exes is a fairly recent thing for me. For years, I made a lot of really poor choices in relationships and those relationships predictably ended very badly. I'm great friends with one of my exes (I've known her well over 20 years--we were together at least 15) and have been on really good terms with my most recent ex. It's easy to be on friendly terms after a breakup if you choose a good person to have a relationship with. Not so easy if you make bad choices though. If I do say so myself, I'm a fairly decent ex! Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #12 February 10, 2006 generally dont find myself talking to my ex's as friends, but most would be plesant if I were to run into them. Never fully understood why you would want to keep them ( the x) as good friends... I'd be curious how these views with differ across the sexes. Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #13 February 10, 2006 QuoteI'm surprised one of your ex's in particular even has any friends.... Now that's not very nice Remi, do I need to bust out the paddle for a good long hard spanking!!! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #14 February 10, 2006 QuoteIt's easy to be on friendly terms after a breakup if you choose a good person to have a relationship with. Not so easy if you make bad choices though. Very well put Walt! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #15 February 10, 2006 QuoteNever fully understood why you would want to keep them ( the x) as good friends... I think because most of mine started out as good friendships.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #16 February 10, 2006 QuoteQuoteI'm surprised one of your ex's in particular even has any friends.... Now that's not very nice Remi, do I need to bust out the paddle for a good long hard spanking!!! g OMG....you said "long" and "hard" to Remi. He's a perv you know.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #17 February 10, 2006 I usually stay friends with my ex, unless it ended on bad terms. I have a couple that still hold a place in my heart as a dear friend. Never thought it was worth causing problems if you weren't ment to be together..... I mean, the point of relationships is to find the person that you are most compatible with and want to share your life with right?? If you put someone there that was only ment to be a friend, I see no reason why they can't go back to being a friend when it doesn't work out...of course if both agree to those terms.*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #18 February 10, 2006 QuoteQuoteIt's easy to be on friendly terms after a breakup if you choose a good person to have a relationship with. Not so easy if you make bad choices though. Very well put Walt! g Why thankyou. It's one of life's lessons that can be quite painful to learn. I don't like nasty breakups. They stress me out. But the really bad part (at least for me) about a nasty breakup is that I can't really write about about most of the really good stuff. I did make an exception for this story but it was some exceptionally difficult writing. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcneill79 0 #19 February 10, 2006 I'm on good terms with most of my ex.'s, although there are only a few that I would actually call a friend now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #20 February 10, 2006 What's an EX? j/k... there are many people that have passed through my life that I would have liked to stay friends with but for a multitude of reasons I have been unable to do so. And every friend I've lost touch with is a small part of me that I've left with someone... (I just hope its a good part of me...)Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #21 February 10, 2006 Whats your definition of ex? by my definition. None, nada, zip. Weather I broke up or they did, none of them wanted anything to do with me afterwards. Except the one I married. I couldnt run her off with a bad attitude and hippie smell. Go figure.Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,439 #22 February 10, 2006 The only one I'm not on good terms with is the obsessive stalker . My ex-husband and I share a son -- it's important to be on good terms with him, and it's served both of us well. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #23 February 10, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteI'm surprised one of your ex's in particular even has any friends.... Now that's not very nice Remi, do I need to bust out the paddle for a good long hard spanking!!! g OMG....you said "long" and "hard" to Remi. He's a perv you know. And "paddle" and "spanking" between those four words, I'm sure there's a reason we haven't heard from him since. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #24 February 10, 2006 QuoteI'm surprised one of your ex's in particular even has any friends.... Maybe those "friends" just need him for something...you know, like green cards or whatever. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #25 February 10, 2006 We try, since there are humans that share a part of both of our DNA, some days it is hard and I think we want to strangle each other, then other days its only bad enough to where we want the other to contract the flesh eating disease... and on a really good day we only wish that the others armpits will be infested by a thousand fleas...Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
