onegirl 0 #1 February 13, 2006 Ok, so my boyfriend of over a year doesn't like having sex with me. He's older and has LOTS of experience, while I was saving myself for marriage until he came along. So what do I do? I am clean, I shave down there, and am not over weight or ugly. Any suggestions? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #2 February 13, 2006 get a new boyfriend? I volunteer... j/k... I wish I could help... I am saving myself for marriage.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #3 February 13, 2006 Have ya tried asking him?"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
onegirl 0 #4 February 13, 2006 Yes, we talk about it, and he knows how I feel. But he just chooses to ignore it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tmaricle55 0 #5 February 13, 2006 Does he have a high stress job? A great deal on his mind? Maybe medication? Muff Brother # 3883, SCR # 14796 ICD # 1 - Pres. Yeah, I noticed and I think it's funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
onegirl 0 #6 February 13, 2006 He does have a high stress job, but he enjoys it. We love each other very much and talk about marriage all the time, but I just wish we had that physical connection also. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #8 February 13, 2006 Sounds like you need to spice it up.. You got a friend that you can bring home for a threesome?? Just Kidding. If he isnt into sex.. So be it, Not all guys just care about getting laid all the time. Don’t let it bother you. Ask him about it. If you feel that you are not getting it enough.. Say something. If it remains a problem, you have to decide how important sex is to you and if you want to continue the relationship. Generally you hear his problem from the other perspective. Men are supposed to Just understand and accept the fact that Women sometimes don’t have the same sex drive. Well.. Guess What?? The same is true if the rolls are reversed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #9 February 13, 2006 Have you met BOB? My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GQ_jumper 4 #10 February 13, 2006 I am saving myself for marriage. Quote I'm saving myself for the next time I have sexHistory does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or the timid. --Dwight D. Eisenhower Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #11 February 13, 2006 QuoteI'm saving myself for the next time I have sex I'm saving myself for later this evening. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites AMax 0 #12 February 13, 2006 Here is my advice: If you really care about him and he cares about you, dont seek for advice on public forum and see the therapist. You will get all kind of useless responses here. Useless because we do not know you, your b/f and all the details or your problem. ed to correct spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites onegirl 0 #13 February 13, 2006 Ok,I love with all my heart and don't want anyone but him, but he refuses to go to the doctor. So does anyone has any suggestions for herbal remedies, etc. that might help my situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #14 February 13, 2006 QuoteI am saving myself for marriage. Quote I'm saving myself for the next time I have sex Yeah... that too... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites edwinsneller 0 #15 February 13, 2006 Maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom. Perhaps since he has all that experience he's looking for something a bit more kinky like chips, dips, chains, whips. Get some hot panties, massage oil, and handcuffs. Oh, and don't forget the plastic sheets.--- Some days it's not even worth the effort to chew through the restraints. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JohnMitchell 16 #16 February 13, 2006 QuoteOk, so my boyfriend of over a year doesn't like having sex with me. He's older and has LOTS of experience, while I was saving myself for marriage until he came along. So what do I do? I am clean, I shave down there, and am not over weight or ugly. Any suggestions? Is it that he doesn't like sex with you? Then it's time to move on. That relationship won't last. But if it's that he likes it, just not as often as you do, then you can work ithat out. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #17 February 13, 2006 It's not him. It's you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #18 February 13, 2006 QuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bazelos 0 #19 February 13, 2006 How often do you have sex? When you do it, is he on top, doing everything, or does he just lay down waiting for you to do all the work? Was he ok but changed recently? Does he have any problems getting hard? I mean it could be a lot of things, but, if I was taking a shower and my girl came in and started kissing me and grabing me I wouldn't be thinking about taking a shower no more...He who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites GQ_jumper 4 #20 February 13, 2006 I'm saving myself for later this evening. Quote quit rubbing it inHistory does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or the timid. --Dwight D. Eisenhower Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #21 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. I did? Who knew? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #22 February 13, 2006 Quotequit rubbing it in Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites masterrig 1 #23 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuotequit rubbing it in _________________________________ That's kinda' what my mom told me when I was a kid! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #24 February 13, 2006 In case it wasn't mentioned in previous posts (although I can't imagine that it hasn't): Slip him a Viagra Mickey. Be sure to have extra lube on-hand....er, nearby. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites warpedskydiver 0 #25 February 13, 2006 Ask if he minds if you get a spare guy for extra sex. I am being serious, if you want to stay with him but he does not want sex consider it. Sex only no dating mind you. 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NWFlyer 2 #11 February 13, 2006 QuoteI'm saving myself for the next time I have sex I'm saving myself for later this evening. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AMax 0 #12 February 13, 2006 Here is my advice: If you really care about him and he cares about you, dont seek for advice on public forum and see the therapist. You will get all kind of useless responses here. Useless because we do not know you, your b/f and all the details or your problem. ed to correct spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
onegirl 0 #13 February 13, 2006 Ok,I love with all my heart and don't want anyone but him, but he refuses to go to the doctor. So does anyone has any suggestions for herbal remedies, etc. that might help my situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #14 February 13, 2006 QuoteI am saving myself for marriage. Quote I'm saving myself for the next time I have sex Yeah... that too... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites edwinsneller 0 #15 February 13, 2006 Maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom. Perhaps since he has all that experience he's looking for something a bit more kinky like chips, dips, chains, whips. Get some hot panties, massage oil, and handcuffs. Oh, and don't forget the plastic sheets.--- Some days it's not even worth the effort to chew through the restraints. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JohnMitchell 16 #16 February 13, 2006 QuoteOk, so my boyfriend of over a year doesn't like having sex with me. He's older and has LOTS of experience, while I was saving myself for marriage until he came along. So what do I do? I am clean, I shave down there, and am not over weight or ugly. Any suggestions? Is it that he doesn't like sex with you? Then it's time to move on. That relationship won't last. But if it's that he likes it, just not as often as you do, then you can work ithat out. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #17 February 13, 2006 It's not him. It's you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #18 February 13, 2006 QuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bazelos 0 #19 February 13, 2006 How often do you have sex? When you do it, is he on top, doing everything, or does he just lay down waiting for you to do all the work? Was he ok but changed recently? Does he have any problems getting hard? I mean it could be a lot of things, but, if I was taking a shower and my girl came in and started kissing me and grabing me I wouldn't be thinking about taking a shower no more...He who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites GQ_jumper 4 #20 February 13, 2006 I'm saving myself for later this evening. Quote quit rubbing it inHistory does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or the timid. --Dwight D. Eisenhower Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #21 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. I did? Who knew? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #22 February 13, 2006 Quotequit rubbing it in Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites masterrig 1 #23 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuotequit rubbing it in _________________________________ That's kinda' what my mom told me when I was a kid! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #24 February 13, 2006 In case it wasn't mentioned in previous posts (although I can't imagine that it hasn't): Slip him a Viagra Mickey. Be sure to have extra lube on-hand....er, nearby. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites warpedskydiver 0 #25 February 13, 2006 Ask if he minds if you get a spare guy for extra sex. I am being serious, if you want to stay with him but he does not want sex consider it. Sex only no dating mind you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
edwinsneller 0 #15 February 13, 2006 Maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom. Perhaps since he has all that experience he's looking for something a bit more kinky like chips, dips, chains, whips. Get some hot panties, massage oil, and handcuffs. Oh, and don't forget the plastic sheets.--- Some days it's not even worth the effort to chew through the restraints. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #16 February 13, 2006 QuoteOk, so my boyfriend of over a year doesn't like having sex with me. He's older and has LOTS of experience, while I was saving myself for marriage until he came along. So what do I do? I am clean, I shave down there, and am not over weight or ugly. Any suggestions? Is it that he doesn't like sex with you? Then it's time to move on. That relationship won't last. But if it's that he likes it, just not as often as you do, then you can work ithat out. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildcard451 0 #17 February 13, 2006 It's not him. It's you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #18 February 13, 2006 QuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bazelos 0 #19 February 13, 2006 How often do you have sex? When you do it, is he on top, doing everything, or does he just lay down waiting for you to do all the work? Was he ok but changed recently? Does he have any problems getting hard? I mean it could be a lot of things, but, if I was taking a shower and my girl came in and started kissing me and grabing me I wouldn't be thinking about taking a shower no more...He who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GQ_jumper 4 #20 February 13, 2006 I'm saving myself for later this evening. Quote quit rubbing it inHistory does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or the timid. --Dwight D. Eisenhower Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #21 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. I did? Who knew? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #22 February 13, 2006 Quotequit rubbing it in Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites masterrig 1 #23 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuotequit rubbing it in _________________________________ That's kinda' what my mom told me when I was a kid! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #24 February 13, 2006 In case it wasn't mentioned in previous posts (although I can't imagine that it hasn't): Slip him a Viagra Mickey. Be sure to have extra lube on-hand....er, nearby. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites warpedskydiver 0 #25 February 13, 2006 Ask if he minds if you get a spare guy for extra sex. I am being serious, if you want to stay with him but he does not want sex consider it. Sex only no dating mind you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
wildcard451 0 #21 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuoteIt's not him. It's you. C'mon, you forgot the smiley things!!! Gee, reminds be of dry British humor. I did? Who knew? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #22 February 13, 2006 Quotequit rubbing it in Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #23 February 13, 2006 QuoteQuotequit rubbing it in _________________________________ That's kinda' what my mom told me when I was a kid! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #24 February 13, 2006 In case it wasn't mentioned in previous posts (although I can't imagine that it hasn't): Slip him a Viagra Mickey. Be sure to have extra lube on-hand....er, nearby. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #25 February 13, 2006 Ask if he minds if you get a spare guy for extra sex. I am being serious, if you want to stay with him but he does not want sex consider it. Sex only no dating mind you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
