skymama 37
She has obviously figured out how to push your buttons. If she calls again, tell her that you need to get over your relationship and you can't do that if she continues to call you. Then, don't call her and don't accept calls from her.
In those moments that you start to miss her, remind yourself of all the ways she hurt you and that you're better of without her. When you're ready, ask someone else out on a date. Don't let this bad relationship ruin your chances at finding someone else.
Finally, if she has any valid complaints that you haven't been wanting to admit to, learn from that and don't repeat them with the next woman.
In those moments that you start to miss her, remind yourself of all the ways she hurt you and that you're better of without her. When you're ready, ask someone else out on a date. Don't let this bad relationship ruin your chances at finding someone else.
Finally, if she has any valid complaints that you haven't been wanting to admit to, learn from that and don't repeat them with the next woman.
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon
QuoteAll you can really do is walk away.
He can sue her for the return of the ring.
It would be odd if he were to lose such a lawsuit.
rl
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb
JohnMitchell 16
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1. I supported her to the tune of a few hundred thousand dollars(she never had to work and didn't except for 4 months.
2. I wish the best for her and hope to never get that call that says she has died.
3. I guess I am one sick motherfucker because I still care alot.
4. I hope she gets help someday....I guess it's up to her
1. Several hundred thousand dollars? Let her keep the ring. You're getting off cheap.
2. I hope she doesn't die either. It's okay to care about another person, but love should be reciprocal.
3. Once again, it's okay to care about someone, but you need to look at yourself to understand why you would try so hard to make such a bad relationship "work." If she was truly worthy of your love and support, she would not treat you this way. Some women look for a doormat. If they are good looking enough, they can find them. There are a lot of beautiful women in the world that aren't head cases. Find a new one, and enjoy your life.
4. That's right. It's up to her. You can not fix her, no matter how cool it would be or how hard you try. Her life sucks, maybe she doesn't realize it, but don't let her drag you down with her. Let her finally fall flat on her face, and maybe she'll be motivated to change. You keep padding her fall. Don't wait around for her to change, either. Let her know that you're no longer around to bail her out. That would be the best thing for her . . .and you.
There's a great life for you out there with a woman that will treat you well. Go find her.
tigra 0
I'm with Walt on this.
Here's the thing- If the girl breaks off the engagement, she really should return the ring, but unless its a family heirloom, ASKING for it back is petty, especially since you say money isn't the issue. You're stooping to her level- why? What exactly are you planning to do with it? If you pawn or sell it, you'll only get a fraction of its worth, and no other girlfriend or fiancee is going to want a "used" engagement ring or stone with that much baggage attached to it. If you hang on to it, you are hanging on to a piece of her. If she's as bad as you say, why? You won't be able to move on with your life until you let go of her. Don't you want to move on?
Here's the thing- If the girl breaks off the engagement, she really should return the ring, but unless its a family heirloom, ASKING for it back is petty, especially since you say money isn't the issue. You're stooping to her level- why? What exactly are you planning to do with it? If you pawn or sell it, you'll only get a fraction of its worth, and no other girlfriend or fiancee is going to want a "used" engagement ring or stone with that much baggage attached to it. If you hang on to it, you are hanging on to a piece of her. If she's as bad as you say, why? You won't be able to move on with your life until you let go of her. Don't you want to move on?
rehmwa 2
QuoteIf I was her...I'd return it...too many memories attached to it...unless the guy was a really huge prick then I'd pawn it and buy something nice for myself.
I don't care if the guy is the anti-christ. If the women calls off the engagement she should return the ring
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I can't understand why the girl would want to keep the ring to begin with, unless it is out of spite. There's no reason for her to keep it, regardless of circumstances. She should at least ask the guy what he thinks and go from there. Every couple is different.
Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda
Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda
Money has never been the issue to me...she can keep her 1ct. and .5ct. (2ea.)earrings...all 4 of them...I am only speaking of this due to the fact she called in the middle of the night drunk and wanting to kill(she has a pistol) the new guy she is currently sleeping with(I talked her out of it).
My trangressions were these:
I looked at porn...She would not even have sex after all that time together(last 7 months)
I was doing nice things for my friends.(shge said paying too much attention)
I never went out without her actually.
BTW I AM actually POOR!
Then she had the nerve to call again and ask if I ever really loved her. She seems to think I would have done for anyone what I have done for her?
That hurt the most of all
All you can really do is walk away.
Walt