I disagree with both your statements, but if I did that then everyone would think that since I only named you two that that means I think they are.... sigh.... 
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this
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QuoteWell I think I'm a bit of a snob. And an opinionated BOITCH!
.. and I am OK with that!
but you give good hugs, so it all works out.
Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you.
I concur with funks.
Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing.
QuoteQuoteWell I think I'm a bit of a snob. And an opinionated BOITCH!
.. and I am OK with that!
but you give good hugs, so it all works out.
Hehehe.. yah it always seems to work out doesnt it? The end of the world has yet to come!
ps- I miss Texas..
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I'd just like to chime in and say that I'm really hurt lisamarie that you would say such things about me. I didn't think you were like that. Maybe you are just a wolf in sheeps clothing.
I'm gonna go cry now.
I'm gonna go cry now.
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QuoteQuoteWell I think I'm a bit of a snob. And an opinionated BOITCH!
.. and I am OK with that!
but you give good hugs, so it all works out.
Yeah, and it's been like forever since I have had one! Think you can spare one at Dublin for me, Kitty?
As much as I somewhat agree with what is being said about men.....there are two sides of the coin. I do feel that some of the behavior problems that women encounter at the bonfire is sometimes brought on by themselves. If every man there knows you been with 4 guys the past month and a half, you'll probably have more shots fired your way/ and less respect.(not saying that is right, but)
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Man, I thread-crapped an 'inspirational poem' thread last week and didn't catch this much shit! Kids these days...
Personally, my self-worth is totally tied to dz.com - if someone here said something bad about me, I'd jump off a bridge.
Kids these days...
Personally, my self-worth is totally tied to dz.com - if someone here said something bad about me, I'd jump off a bridge.
it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality
THANK YOU for saying that. However big of a can of worms it is.. you are right. In most cases, there is a direct correllation between your behavior and how you are treated. I firmly beleive in that statement. I will stand by it.
QuoteIf every man there knows you been with 4 guys the past month and a half, you'll probably have more shots fired your way/ and less respect.(not saying that is right, but)
No, it's not right. And it's no one's business who is fucking whom.
If you treat a woman (because this isn't done to men) disrespectfully because of the choices she makes in bed partners and the frequency with which she has sex...
...well, you can just friggin' bite me.
I know this wasn't the issue, and it was only intended as an example, but boy, it is a concept that PISSES ME OFF.
rl
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb
QuoteIf you treat a woman (because this isn't done to men) disrespectfully because of the choices she makes in bed partners and the frequency with which she has sex...
...well, you can just friggin' bite me.
Like I said, I don't think it is necessarily right, but it is the way the world works. If you openly hook up with many people in a group, people will form an opinion about that. I know men who will be more aggressive pursuing a woman who has slept with a couple of his friends not caring about any "line" they might be crossing.
QuoteI know this wasn't the issue, and it was only intended as an example, but boy, it is a concept that PISSES ME OFF.
I don't think it is a concept, I think it happens every weekend. What pisses me off is when woman are afraid to say something when people touch or grab them in a inappropiate manner. If they don't mind that is one thing, but.... I think it's sad that people have to run and hide from people cause they can't take an OBVIOUS hint.(male or female) There is definitely a lack of respect in the world sometimes.
QuoteIf you treat a woman (because this isn't done to men) disrespectfully because of the choices she makes in bed partners and the frequency with which she has sex...
...well, you can just friggin' bite me.
I know this wasn't the issue, and it was only intended as an example, but boy, it is a concept that PISSES ME OFF.
rl
I can certainly understand the position, even being a male...but, and I have to ask, aren't the 2 issues you're talking about: partners and frequency, indicators of her overall "behavior", or just "behavior" in general? Should these 2 issues be shelved separately, from say, her behavior as it relates to drinking? how about her behavior as it relates to work/job/career?
as horrible as this may seem, i make judgement calls on people based on their behaviors and actions, not on what they look like/sound like. as a result of this, it's pretty easy to see that i might make a judgement about a man or a woman (but since i'm a guy, i tend to pay more attn to women than men...) using their partner choice and frequency as evidence. rather than think of it as labeling her a "slut" or a "prude", shouldn't we be able to look at the behavior and say "she is sexually active/overactive/inactive"?
but here's the kicker - as far as treating someone with respect/disrespect, i completely agree: their choice of partners and frequency really shouldn't have any bearing. problem with that is you're talking about sex, and everyone's feelings toward sex are different. (you've got the religious zealots, the s&m folks, the in-the-middle folks, and so on...) so if i have strong feelings about sex, and i'm looking at the sexual behavior of another woman, it would be naieve to think my strong feelings won't play a major role in determining how i judge her actions/inactions.
i'm not saying it's right, i'm just saying it's the reality. partner choice and frequency are behavior(s) and action(s). i judge people based on behaviors and actions, rather than their looks. sex is a hot topic with most people, and they have strong feelings about the subject. their strong feelings make a noticeable impact on any decision/judgement that is reached.
(you know, i struggled with trying to think of a way to get rid of judge/judgement in this response, as i dont think it really suits well. i'm not trying to say i sit in judgement of others, i'm just trying to say that i make "decisions". i.e. he/she is shy, angry, depressed, etc)
is the can of worms fully open yet? lol.
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No, it's not right. And it's no one's business who is fucking whom.
If you treat a woman (because this isn't done to men) disrespectfully because of the choices she makes in bed partners and the frequency with which she has sex...
...well, you can just friggin' bite me.
I know this wasn't the issue, and it was only intended as an example, but boy, it is a concept that PISSES ME OFF.
rl
wel rhondalea....we definitely agree on this one...i could not have said it better myself...
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my tandem changed my life....i have never done it from behind....and i liked it....
my tandem changed my life....i have never done it from behind....and i liked it....
Oh my gawd. You people are all on crack. Thanks for the entertainment. Fucking whiners.
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QuoteFucking whiners.
PERSONAL ATTACK!!!!!!!
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QuoteQuoteRare is different then saying "Brains is the only nice one I have met."
Funks - your a fuck wad, but I love it, the boogie I guess didnt have enough drama so I am making up for it on here...
Actually in this case I am saying everyone else (besides you) is acting like the flippin drama queens. You make one comment that may be open to interpretation and everyone starts whining.
lol.... correct. that would be the defensive, judgmental, drama queens.
I dont see how anyone could take offense to that unless they were being defensive because they thought to themselves that they might be included in her statement.
fist off, that is being judgmental of her, I cant fucking stand peeps who are judgmental huge pet peave I guess. and second, what does everyone care? if she wants to call you a bad person, or classify you as something, and you take offense of it. you should really look in the mirror and realize who YOU are and stand by yoursef. if you know you not that way, and you know who you are, and you are confident in that, then you shouldn't have to constantly TELL peeps you are such a great, loving , giving person. because if you are, the ones who aren't judgmental will see that, and love/ and care for you for who you are.....
No I want to be sure to chime in and say that I think I'm a jerk!!!
Well I think I'm a bit of a snob. And an opinionated BOITCH!
.. and I am OK with that!