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Do nice guys finish last?

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Right on! Well put. It's all about having faith.

faith [ fayth ]

noun

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1. belief or trust: belief in, devotion to, or trust in somebody or something, especially without logical proof.



We also had THAT discussion...same thread. :ph34r:
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The thing about nice guys is that they finish. The follow up the loose ends, pay attention to the things that assholes don't care about.

So while they may not finish as often, they for damn sure finish better in the long run.

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However, they usually find themselves unexpectedly in first place later on. I have been variously described as one of the nicest guys around. Hell, one of my nicknames was "Ned Flanders" while I was in college (seriously).

Unexpectedly in the last couple of years, I found myself with a hot wife, a beautiful baby, a pimp house and a great career and a great business.

Nice guys spend a lot of time in last place. But they usually finish in first.


Amen to that bro'. :)

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Concerned with or comprehending only what is apparent or obvious; shallow.



Actually, I think you're both right. When you walk down the street and notice someone's ass, you're only comprehending the ass. So you're shallow. If you notice someone's ass, and you only care about the ass and not what he or she thinks, you're only concerned with the ass. So you're still shallow.

not to belabor the point or anything.

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well i can't have sex with an ugly man no matter how "funny" he is...i have heard that men get better looking as you get to know them...this has not been the case for me...ugly continues to be so and i just can't do it...i like hot looking italian man the best...some spanish types are ok too...but ugly?..never...i am superficial when it comes to being turned on by men...hot is the only look that will do it for me...and not all hot guys are jerks either...most are just thought to be jerke by other jealous men...
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well i can't have sex with an ugly man no matter how "funny" he is...i have heard that men get better looking as you get to know them...this has not been the case for me...ugly continues to be so and i just can't do it...i like hot looking italian man the best...some spanish types are ok too...but ugly?..never...i am superficial when it comes to being turned on by men...hot is the only look that will do it for me...and not all hot guys are jerks either...most are just thought to be jerke by other jealous men...



All I can say is "Wow!"

I've had sex with pretty men and with men who are nowhere near pretty, and how I've felt about them always comes down to what's in their hearts and minds.

It's become so ingrained in me that I'm no longer instantly attracted to anyone just because of that person's looks. I remember meeting someone who was probably one of the funniest looking base jumpers I've ever run across, and the minute he opened his mouth, lightning struck, the earth moved and I was hopelessly in love. I thought he was beautiful, but when I see a picture of him today, I know that has nothing to do with anything objective.

I guess it takes all kinds to make a world, but I can't imagine letting physical appearance come between me and love.

rl
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I guess it takes all kinds to make a world, but I can't imagine letting physical appearance come between me and love.

rl



I can, on occasion, allow physical appearance to come between me and breakfast.



What, exactly, are you eating, dear? :S

rl
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OK well for years I was constantly being told by my female frineds that I was a "Nice Guy." I have even had them tell me that "I want a guy who's like you, just not you." The list goes on and on from there.
I think the reasion why nice guys seem to finish last is because they meet a chick, and try to get to know them before trying to get into thier pants. Heaven forbid. And why they are wasting thier efforts on these women who will never see them "That Way" they are blind to any other female who might want thier sexy sexy body.
The nice guy just needs to open his eyes, and he will be able to get some.
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well i can't have sex with an ugly man no matter how "funny" he is...i have heard that men get better looking as you get to know them...this has not been the case for me...ugly continues to be so and i just can't do it...i like hot looking italian man the best...some spanish types are ok too...but ugly?..never...i am superficial when it comes to being turned on by men...hot is the only look that will do it for me...and not all hot guys are jerks either...most are just thought to be jerke by other jealous men...



All I can say is "Wow!"

I've had sex with pretty men and with men who are nowhere near pretty, and how I've felt about them always comes down to what's in their hearts and minds.

It's become so ingrained in me that I'm no longer instantly attracted to anyone just because of that person's looks. I remember meeting someone who was probably one of the funniest looking base jumpers I've ever run across, and the minute he opened his mouth, lightning struck, the earth moved and I was hopelessly in love. I thought he was beautiful, but when I see a picture of him today, I know that has nothing to do with anything objective.

I guess it takes all kinds to make a world, but I can't imagine letting physical appearance come between me and love.

rl



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I remember meeting someone who was probably one of the funniest looking base jumpers I've ever run across, and the minute he opened his mouth, lightning struck, the earth moved and I was hopelessly in love.



Was that Walt?
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well i can't have sex with an ugly man no matter how "funny" he is...i have heard that men get better looking as you get to know them...this has not been the case for me...ugly continues to be so and i just can't do it...i like hot looking italian man the best...some spanish types are ok too...but ugly?..never...i am superficial when it comes to being turned on by men...hot is the only look that will do it for me...and not all hot guys are jerks either...most are just thought to be jerke by other jealous men...
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You mean you have never had a MOPED???

Moped = Fun to Ride as long your friends dont catch you on them!!:P

Mopeds Can be the alot of Fun!!:D:D

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A conversation in another thread made me think about this. I have some friends who believe in the theory of: "Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen". I also know some girls who are beautiful both inside and out who date complete assholes. They get treated like shit constantly but go back for more every time.

Kirzz reckons: "The challenge is what makes it exciting. And some girls just get bored easily.. nice guys are boring, assholes keep you on your toes. There is something about assholes... they treat you like shit but the fact that they're not bending over backwards for you is what interests you.. can't explain it."

What do you think? Do nice guys finish last, just like the Greenday song says?




I dont hitnk it has anything to do with being nice or not. It really has to do more with your confidence. "Nice guys" tend to be pussies, where as "assholes" tend to be confident in themselves.
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Was that Walt?



rotflmao!!

No. It was someone else. He died a few years ago, but there's not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I still carry the last email he ever sent me in my wallet.

rl
If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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