Do nice guys finish last?

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You mean you have never had a MOPED???

Moped = Fun to Ride as long your friends dont catch you on them!!

Mopeds Can be the alot of Fun!!

Y'know...

I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

Someone better write something funny, or I'm going to take this thread much further into serious mode than I already have.

rl

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Was that Walt?

rotflmao!!

No. It was someone else. He died a few years ago, but there's not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I still carry the last email he ever sent me in my wallet.

rl

Wow that's a quick way to kill the feeling of an upbeat fun thread. Thanks artificial Rhonda

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A conversation in another thread made me think about this. I have some friends who believe in the theory of: "Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen". I also know some girls who are beautiful both inside and out who date complete assholes. They get treated like shit constantly but go back for more every time.

Kirzz reckons: "The challenge is what makes it exciting. And some girls just get bored easily.. nice guys are boring, assholes keep you on your toes. There is something about assholes... they treat you like shit but the fact that they're not bending over backwards for you is what interests you.. can't explain it."

What do you think? Do nice guys finish last, just like the Greenday song says?

I dont hitnk it has anything to do with being nice or not. It really has to do more with your confidence. "Nice guys" tend to be pussies, where as "assholes" tend to be confident in themselves.

Mike, first of all I want to know why Frenchy is your avatar? second, are you in Canada yet? and third, can someone really define what a "nice guy" is? I've known a few guys who claim to be the "nice guy who finishes last" and they have turned out to be self centered jerks. THEY think of themselves as "nice" but are far from it. Sometimes a reality check/self assessment is necessary or a chat with a gay guy or a female friend for them to figure out what they are really doing wrong.

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can someone really define what a "nice guy" is?

A "nice guy" is defined as the guy who's heart was ripped out when you told him, "You are such a nice guy. I could never have anything physical with you it would kill out friendship."

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

Thats not what you told me the other night. Now I know why you force me to walk 50 feet behind you.

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.


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can someone really define what a "nice guy" is?

A "nice guy" is defined as the guy who's heart was ripped out when you told him, "You are such a nice guy. I could never have anything physical with you it would kill out friendship."

Oh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I get it! If the dude thinks he's gonna get some and doesn't...hmmm I think they need to let their expectations known...because some of us give a dude the friendship card and that's where things stay. The guy seems to be okay with being just a great friend, but if they truly aren't they need to share that tidbit of info I have lots of guy friends and I hope they're okay with it...guess I'll find out eventually.

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Someone better write something funny, or I'm going to take this thread much further into serious mode than I already have.

Ooohhhh!! So Demanding and Ultimatums too.. What a Bonus.

Shit!! There went my Nice Guy Image.

Well you know what they say.... Joke em if they cant take a Fuck!!

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If you have a guy friend who dosen't seem to mind watching chick flicks in the movie theater with you... that's probibly the guy.

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If you have a guy friend who dosen't seem to mind watching chick flicks in the movie theater with you... that's probibly the guy.

I have guy friends who don't mind watching chick flicks with me...and "nice guys" who do

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

Thats not what you told me the other night.

The rules don't apply to you, funks.

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Now I know why you force me to walk 50 feet behind you.

It's because you snuffle like a St. Bernard when you walk.



rl

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

well..that is my point exactly...i don't!! i like nice guys too,,,they just have to be hot in order for me to figure that out...
and the MOPED thing??? nahhh

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

well..that is my point exactly...i don't!! i like nice guys too,,,they just have to be hot in order for me to figure that out...

No. That's not your point exactly.

My point is that if I fucked an ugly guy, I'd not be ashamed to be seen with him in public...

...unless, of course, we're talking about funks.

rl

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I wouldn't fuck anyone I was ashamed to be seen with in public.

well..that is my point exactly...i don't!! i like nice guys too,,,they just have to be hot in order for me to figure that out...

No. That's not your point exactly.

My point is that if I fucked an ugly guy, I'd not be ashamed to be seen with him in public...

...unless, of course, we're talking about funks.

rl

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A conversation in another thread made me think about this. I have some friends who believe in the theory of: "Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen". I also know some girls who are beautiful both inside and out who date complete assholes. They get treated like shit constantly but go back for more every time.

Kirzz reckons: "The challenge is what makes it exciting. And some girls just get bored easily.. nice guys are boring, assholes keep you on your toes. There is something about assholes... they treat you like shit but the fact that they're not bending over backwards for you is what interests you.. can't explain it."

What do you think? Do nice guys finish last, just like the Greenday song says?

I dont hitnk it has anything to do with being nice or not. It really has to do more with your confidence. "Nice guys" tend to be pussies, where as "assholes" tend to be confident in themselves.

Mike, first of all I want to know why Frenchy is your avatar? second, are you in Canada yet? and third, can someone really define what a "nice guy" is? I've known a few guys who claim to be the "nice guy who finishes last" and they have turned out to be self centered jerks. THEY think of themselves as "nice" but are far from it. Sometimes a reality check/self assessment is necessary or a chat with a gay guy or a female friend for them to figure out what they are really doing wrong.

Frenchy in my Avatar?...shit...I cant get rid of the guy....he is everywhere!!! AHHHH

Yes, I m in Canada. You coming to visit?

Nice guys....I dont know what that is. I think I am a nice guy...but really I am a prick with a heart :)

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Was that Walt?

rotflmao!!

No. It was someone else. He died a few years ago, but there's not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I still carry the last email he ever sent me in my wallet.

rl

Oh, rl...

You didn't have to laught THAT hard!!!!

[once again Walt has been summarily rejected by rl. Ouch!!!]

Walt

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Was that Walt?

rotflmao!!

Oh, rl...

You didn't have to laught THAT hard!!!!

[once again Walt has been summarily rejected by rl. Ouch!!!]

Actually, all I rejected is the premise that you're ugly.

rl

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

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Was that Walt?

rotflmao!!

Oh, rl...

You didn't have to laught THAT hard!!!!

[once again Walt has been summarily rejected by rl. Ouch!!!]

Actually, all I rejected is the premise that you're ugly.

rl

You smooth talker, you!!!

Walt

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***Low Self-Esteem - After being in an abusive relationship there is a feeling that they can do no better than their current relationship.

Being Alone - To end the relationship could mean a loss of mutual friends, relatives and others associated with the relationship.

Financial - Money, children and no place to go also hold women in these relationships.

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Boy, does this hit home. My mom never came out and said it, but I know these are the main reasons she never left my dad.

After growing up watching her take his crap...and taking a great deal of it myself...it makes me cringe to think that anyone would CHOOSE an abusive partner. I made a pact with myself a long time ago that I would take better care of myself than that....and I've kept that pact.

I was pretty young and innocent when I met my husband 13 years ago, but I had seen enough to know that he was a MAJOR catch. While we were dating, he said something that baffled me. I had mentioned that I could not understand why someone had not snatched him up... he said it was because he was "boring". The "jerks" were more appealing. Man - I had seen enough excitement in my short life that "boring" looked pretty awesome to me. I am thankful that those girls felt that way, because my husband and I will celebrate 11 years of marriage next month.


P.S. Thanks, RL, for the information/links

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As G. W. Bush says, when referring to his authority or power....."ABSOLUTEly!

"T'was ever thus."

"T'was ever thus."

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For the life of me I cannot figure out why most women like to be with or keep going back to guys who treat them like shit. It just boggles my mind.

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Maybe at the end of the day everyone is just different and thus attracted to different people. I guess that's why they say there is some one out there for you..

.. & that sort of brings about another point of discussion. Is there one person out there for you or many people that could be 'the one'? One love or many loves?

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well i can't have sex with an ugly man no matter how "funny" he is...i have heard that men get better looking as you get to know them...this has not been the case for me...ugly continues to be so and i just can't do it...i like hot looking italian man the best...some spanish types are ok too...but ugly?..never...i am superficial when it comes to being turned on by men...hot is the only look that will do it for me...and not all hot guys are jerks either...most are just thought to be jerke by other jealous men...

I gotta agree with Lisa here.
(No, not about hot Italian men , but about the importance of appearances.)
But I'm going to factor in something else too...

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For the life of me I cannot figure out why most women like to be with or keep going back to guys who treat them like shit. It just boggles my mind.

Attractive people of both sexes are often regarded as 'jerks' (in the case of men) or 'high maintenance and bitchy' (in the case of women).
To a large extent it's often because these types of people feel that they can afford to be that way.
They figure "This is the way that I am, these are the things that I like and those are the things that I dont like and if that's too inconvenient for you then move along because I can find another partner soon enough that can handle me."
The partner on the receiving end of this ultimatum then needs to decide if the good outweighs the bad, and because physical attraction is important to the majority of people, they will usualy make an effort to stay with the 'jerk/bitch' until breaking point.
It's not the perfect relationship, but it exists, and that's my understanding of it.