Sexual Tension?!?!

[kirrz 0]

I'm really curious.. I'm pretty young so I can't really answer this question just as yet but I'm hoping some of you with more life experience will be able to..

You know that incredible sexual tension/ chemistry type feeling when you meet someone? Not the kind that grows with time.. but the massive magnetic attraction type thing that is two way and just present from the moment you guys meet that is so so powerful.. And it doesn't fade, your relationship is just dominated by this force of attraction that you just can't control or understand. Whether or not you guys are 'best friend' compatible is totally irrelevant.. this chemistry is so overpowering it just makes everything work..

Do you know the feeling? How many times in life do you encounter it?
Is it pretty common - happens with everyone you're sexually attracted to? Or is it incredibly rare?

[PLFXpert 0]

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Is it pretty common - happens with everyone you're sexually attracted to? Or is it incredibly rare?

It is generally directly proportional to the amount of Alcohol that has been consumed!

[RhondaLea 4]

Well, in the end it doesn't "make everything work," and a lot of the time, it breaks your heart, but it isn't something I would willingly avoid.

I don't think it's all that common, but it certainly isn't rare.

rl

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[Joellercoaster 6]

I think you've answered it yourself with the "I'm pretty young" part of your post.

After a while it will go away, and it will stop making everything Just Work, and it will eventually stop happening with new people. Treasure it while you still got it
(EDIT: Actually it will occasionally happen with new people, but your brain will get in the way. This is probably for the best in the long run.)

This sounds depressing, but getting older has its compensations too and IMO they make up for it. Of course, I may just be saying that because I don't have a choice

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[Hipwrddude 0]

Funny how questions aren't answered but the propositions in the argument get challenged.
On to your questions; "Do you know the feeling (sexual tension)?" Damn straight sista! Animal magnetism. Pure lust. Yup. You know it! "Is it common?" Nope. Doesn't happen to everyone I'm sexually attracted to? Only the lucky ones (chuckle.)
Incredibly rare? For me, rare but incredible. In fact, one time I had sex that was so good, (Chorus-"How good was it?") It was so good I woke up in the middle of the night and called myself a liar! Another time it was so good, ("How good was it?") I was in full orgasmic rapturous oblivion when some guy with a beard and sandals kicked me and asked, "Do you see me now?"

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[LuvToFly 0]

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And it doesn't fade...

It will, give it time. You're referring to something very primal, put there for procreation purposes. It will not last forever, and cannot be depended on to sustain any relationship.

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this chemistry is so overpowering

That's exactly right, but remember in this case what "chemistry" means. Chemicals circulating through the brain and other body parts to bring the sexes together. It's a wonderful beginning, but will not keep you going.

I have definitely experienced it, and it's almost narcotic in it's wonder. But just like any drug, it can also affect your judgment. More akin to a certain blindness, in that trance you may see nothing objectionable about your object of desire even if someone threatened you at gunpoint to do so. Enjoy the high, but watch what you're doing. Being young, you may not have the life experience to discern the impact of a situation when caught in the heat of moment.

"The helicopter approaches closer than any other to fulfillment
of mankind's ancient dreams of a magic carpet" - Igor Sikorsky

[groundrush134 0]

Pure unadulterated lust is so much better than love but seems to be short lived most of the time. As others have stated the older you get the less it happens so indeed relish in the moment while you can.

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[squink 0]

I'll completely agree with RL on this one. The first person that I had that incredible animal attraction to broke my heart. All he had to do was look at me and it would make me weak in the knees. It took serious control just to NOT jump him sometimes. I haven't felt it since him, but I'm sure I'll feel it again. Only time will tell.

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[PLFXpert 0]

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Do you know the feeling?

Most definitely

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Is it pretty common - happens with everyone you're sexually attracted to? Or is it incredibly rare?

I would say it's rare.

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this chemistry is so overpowering it just makes everything work..

I have to disagree. I'd love to hear a story of someone that happened to and they lived happily ever after. Lust & Love, imo, usually come from two different places---though that's NOT to say you can't have animal urges (and satisfy them frequently) with the one you love.

Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

[Salsa_John 0]

Felt it twice in my lifetime. One gal is still a very good friend. I get weak kneed when I see her.

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I'm really curious.. I'm pretty young so I can't really answer this question just as yet but I'm hoping some of you with more life experience will be able to..

You know that incredible sexual tension/ chemistry type feeling when you meet someone? Not the kind that grows with time.. but the massive magnetic attraction type thing that is two way and just present from the moment you guys meet that is so so powerful.. And it doesn't fade, your relationship is just dominated by this force of attraction that you just can't control or understand. Whether or not you guys are 'best friend' compatible is totally irrelevant.. this chemistry is so overpowering it just makes everything work..

Do you know the feeling? How many times in life do you encounter it?
Is it pretty common - happens with everyone you're sexually attracted to? Or is it incredibly rare?

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