RkyMtnHigh 0 #1 December 9, 2005 Are guys/girls okay with just snuggling/spooning and just leaving things there? or do they really want more and hope that more actually happens? I have several female friends who have many male friends and are content with spooning/snuggling and don't want more...I think it's cool and normal. However others have questioned that more wasn't intended or desired. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tenshi 0 #2 December 9, 2005 You mean with a friend or a lover/gf? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #3 December 9, 2005 There's a time and a place for everything...My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #4 December 9, 2005 The only time I'm not looking for more is when snuggling is more of a survival thing . . . like when you're camping on a DZ, and it's FREEZING. Oh, or when you're with your actual S.O., and you don't feel the need to do it every night. Other than that, snuggling is usually a jumping-off point for naughty time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #5 December 9, 2005 I like the way you say "naughty time". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #6 December 9, 2005 QuoteYou mean with a friend or a lover/gf? I must agree with Tenshi fear to answer. Spooning is ok as long as its with a G/F or some one you are or hope to be ronmatic with at some time in the future. I wouldn't spoon with some guy like they did on 'FRIENDS" b/c I'm not into that LOL I don't mind NOT getting laid every time I touch my G/F but there's almost never a bad time for sexMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #7 December 9, 2005 I think it would be OK to cuddle w/a SO w/o any ulterior motive... although I haven't actually ever done it with anyone.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
artistcalledian 0 #8 December 9, 2005 if i want it, she's getting it, end of story________________________________________ drive it like you stole it and f*ck the police Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #9 December 9, 2005 Sometimes I just like to be held. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaGimp 0 #10 December 9, 2005 i think it depends on the person....and the person your with.....there are some women who i have snuggled/spooned with and had no intentions what so ever of taking it further, then there are others....well it was a way to lead into "naughty time" "Professor of Pimpology"~~~Bolas Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #11 December 9, 2005 I dont think its any big deal. Especially between skydivers. Were all family, in a wierd, incestual, kinky kinda way. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #12 December 9, 2005 QuoteI dont think its any big deal. Especially between skydivers. Were all family, in a wierd, incestual, kinky kinda way. You're just a slut hippie...I knew that two yrs ago Fuck Yippie _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #13 December 9, 2005 QuoteQuoteI dont think its any big deal. Especially between skydivers. Were all family, in a wierd, incestual, kinky kinda way. You're just a slut hippie and..... you point is? Quote...I knew that two yrs ago Geeze, what did I do. Ive drunken and dont remember! QuoteFuck Yippie well... if you insist!Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #14 December 9, 2005 QuoteOh, or when you're with your actual S.O., and you don't feel the need to do it every night. Other than that, snuggling is usually a jumping-off point for naughty time. So, if you snuggle up with anyone but your S.O., you're looking to be bad? Yeah, I took you out of context-but I want my bonus points for proper use of your and you'reI am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #15 December 9, 2005 I enjoy snuggling, I also enjoy watching TV with her sitting in front of me while I brush her hair. We've been together for nearly a decade now, times of quiet closeness is what fuels the passion.I am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #16 December 9, 2005 Yes . . . hence, if my S.O. snuggled with someone without threat of freezing to death, we'd have a problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #17 December 9, 2005 QuoteYes . . . hence, if my S.O. snuggled with someone without threat of freezing to death, we'd have a problem. Kel, youre so stingy! Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #18 December 9, 2005 QuoteYes . . . hence, if my S.O. snuggled with someone without threat of freezing to death, we'd have a problem. Hey, don't threaten me, i only winked at him onceI am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #19 December 9, 2005 QuoteAre guys/girls okay with just snuggling/spooning and just leaving things there? or do they really want more and hope that more actually happens? I have several female friends who have many male friends and are content with spooning/snuggling and don't want more...I think it's cool and normal. However others have questioned that more wasn't intended or desired. Depends on the woman. With some, just laying there soaking in love makes me feel like I could never experience anything more soothing to my soul. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #20 December 9, 2005 QuoteSometimes I just like to be held. Sometimes I just want her to hold it. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #21 December 9, 2005 QuoteYes . . . hence, if my S.O. snuggled with someone without threat of freezing to death, we'd have a problem. I snuggled with him once. He didn't have a say in the matter though. I barged into his tent at about 6:00am cause i was freezing and told him to give me some body heat!! Plus the fact he's like my brother so i would never want naughty time with him. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lightningbugirl 0 #22 December 9, 2005 Yes!! Though I rarely snuggle with someone I am not sexually attracted to... unless a girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest #23 December 9, 2005 Quote I like the way you say "naughty time". It's pronounced "Naugh'-y" like the British say it... mh ."The mouse does not know life until it is in the mouth of the cat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #24 December 9, 2005 Quote Are guys/girls okay with just snuggling/spooning and just leaving things there? Personally? No. I also think that a lot of women are teases and actually like to torment guys. They give all the "green light" signals, lead them right up to the edge, and then "I just think of you as a really horny friend..." There is nothing worse than a tease. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bob.dino 1 #25 December 9, 2005 Quotejust laying there soaking in love Well done for taking the wet spot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites