Remster 30 #26 December 5, 2005 QuoteJohnny, i have been dating a professional for about a year and a half. PM me with any questions. And we still wonder what you keep slipping in her drink for her to stick around....Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #27 December 5, 2005 QuoteQuoteJohnny, i have been dating a professional for about a year and a half. PM me with any questions. And we still wonder what you keep slipping in her drink for her to stick around.... The website you sent me said it was the same thing you used on Karen Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #28 December 5, 2005 This is a double-edged sword. How she will turn out depends on the person going into it. If she's got some emotional problems, stripping might not be the best way to go. I've dated a couple of strippers - one who would become one after we broke up and one who was one while we were dating. The one who became a stripper had some serious emotional issues (I found out she was a cutter when I saw some weird marks on her - the beginning of the end for me due to some problems I couldn't handle and we couldn't work through). I really didn't think that entering an environment like that would be that good for her. I heard that within a few months, she was on to some hard drugs, which was tough for me to hear because I could see it coming. Still, my thought was that stripping merely sped this up - I thought the downward spiral was inevitable with her. The other one was a stripper for about a month before we met, and stripped for about the next two weeks. Then she quit and moved back to her university. She made enough money in a month and a half to pay for school for the next year. She then volunteered as a teacher's aide, since she ultimately wanted to be a teacher. She was refreshing. She told me that her job could be narrowed down to "find what money is out there and get it." To her, turning people on was how to get the money. She said, "those guys are gonna get screwed but they aren't gonna get laid." Damn, that woman had a strong head on her shoulders. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #29 December 5, 2005 We are so not going here again - hey guys once again why don't you ask the "stripper" in the group? I prefer the term exotic dancer or burlesque performer. Here's my post why this subject got a little heated last year http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1285240#1285240 PLEASE READ THAT POST, if you do you will notice I am not embarrassed or ashamed about my job at all. Jimmy D, since I am a 31 year old "stripper" does that make me almost pathetic????? Considering I didn't even start until I was 26 I haven't been doing it very long. Yeah, a lot of strippers are fvck ups, but I am meeting more and more that aren't. Johnny, PM me or the greatest boyfriend in the world, Brains, and we will answer any of your questions. (PS you should see some of the fvck ups I met at work from the corporate world that are way worse than any strippers I have ever met.) And hopefully this will be the year I change careers or get on the way to changing careers because I am accomplished pretty much all my goals with the dancing job that I have wanted to accomplish. It's true you can't do it forever nor do you want to. It will take you being a strong, trusting man to date a dancer, but being strong and trusting are some great qualities a good woman looks for in a man. And if she is a good woman and worth being with, dancing won't screw it up. And if she becomes a good dancer, check out my attached pics and she can do fun stuff like that. also check out my website www.nocturnalcreationsonline.com or my space (yes I have a my space page but it is only for work purposes, it helps sell fire shows and burlesque performances) http://www.myspace.com/mercykillingsartist"Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Johnnyskydive 0 #30 December 5, 2005 I did say guys up there.....but I mean YOU GUYS...should have said guys and gals.....anyone who wants to reply is welcomed to. Of course I'd like to hear from the ladies too.....some of us men get freaked about the subject a little too easy. So any advice, or insight would be great....thanks everyone! Johnny Skydive! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ReBirth 0 #31 December 5, 2005 Bottom line is that most girls can't seem to get through that job without some help. That means drinking or drugs. They may like it at first, even get a thrill out of it. But for them to make good money they have to lie to guys about what they'll get in the couch room, or actually give it to them. Grinding their asses against some fat dirty drunk guy's package...with the occasional guy whipping out his dick or trying to finger her...that's every day life for them. Even if they aren't drinking or high for every shift, they are affected in other ways. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jenfly00 0 #32 December 5, 2005 QuoteBottom line is that most girls can't seem to get through that job without some help. That means drinking or drugs. They may like it at first, even get a thrill out of it. But for them to make good money they have to lie to guys about what they'll get in the couch room, or actually give it to them. Grinding their asses against some fat dirty drunk guy's package...with the occasional guy whipping out his dick or trying to finger her...that's every day life for them. Even if they aren't drinking or high for every shift, they are affected in other ways. The debilitating addiction (while sometimes chemicals) is power and control. Combine that with the inevitable growing distain for men and I don't envy the original poster. ...and yes, been there, done that ...will never do it again.----------------------- "O brave new world that has such people in it". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ReBirth 0 #33 December 5, 2005 Right on point.....I was trying to describe the common condition I've observed most of them portray. That's it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SudsyFist 0 #34 December 5, 2005 Quote...and yes, been there, done that ...will never do it again. With the sheer number of girls whose nethers I've seen onstage, on video, or on the 'net (basically, those who've been there and done that), am I the only one getting the feeling like those who've never participated in adult entertainment are members of a shrinking minority? Nothing against those who do; in fact, I'm rather quite fond of y'all, actually. It's just getting weird when I pretty regularly run into girls off to whom I'm sure I've jacked it at one time or another. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ReBirth 0 #35 December 5, 2005 QuoteIt's just getting weird when I pretty regularly run into girls off to whom I'm sure I've jacked it at one time or another. I went to the bank last week...the teller is a girl I've known as a stripper for years. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites cameramonkey 0 #36 December 6, 2005 Been there, done that, got the Tshirt.. and damn, it was an EXPENSIVE shirt. Run away. unless you love her, then grab her and make her run away with you. The chances of her getting fu$$ed up greatly outweigh the chances of her keeping her head on straight and investing the money or some crap. If she was so inclined, she could work hard and save instead. Besides, $$ aint everything. I have done some stupid sh$$ in my life. I can honestly say none of it comes close to dating the stripper(s). Some SERIOUSLY messed up Sh$$. Unless your life is REALLY boring, and you feel you need to build more character, I say run away. Odds are you are more likely to get burned by this bonfire than to just stand idly by drinking beer like you are used to. The only thing I see positive from my experiences is that I am stronger, more confident man because of it. it was a trial by fire, but something I personally needed to kick my ass into gear (and get my priorities in line) Hindsight is an amazing thing. I can honestly thank both women( One I actually did, but she didnt take kindly to being referred to a psychopath. oh well- the truth hurts sometimes). They made me wiser than I knew I needed to be. (no offense to our resident stripper)Two wrongs don't make a right, however three lefts DO! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites cloudseeker2001 0 #37 December 6, 2005 QuoteWe are so not going here again - hey guys once again why don't you ask the "stripper" in the group? I prefer the term exotic dancer or burlesque performer. Here's my post why this subject got a little heated last year http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1285240#1285240 PLEASE READ THAT POST, if you do you will notice I am not embarrassed or ashamed about my job at all. Jimmy D, since I am a 31 year old "stripper" does that make me almost pathetic????? Considering I didn't even start until I was 26 I haven't been doing it very long. Yeah, a lot of strippers are fvck ups, but I am meeting more and more that aren't. Johnny, PM me or the greatest boyfriend in the world, Brains, and we will answer any of your questions. (PS you should see some of the fvck ups I met at work from the corporate world that are way worse than any strippers I have ever met.) And hopefully this will be the year I change careers or get on the way to changing careers because I am accomplished pretty much all my goals with the dancing job that I have wanted to accomplish. It's true you can't do it forever nor do you want to. It will take you being a strong, trusting man to date a dancer, but being strong and trusting are some great qualities a good woman looks for in a man. And if she is a good woman and worth being with, dancing won't screw it up. And if she becomes a good dancer, check out my attached pics and she can do fun stuff like that. also check out my website www.nocturnalcreationsonline.com or my space (yes I have a my space page but it is only for work purposes, it helps sell fire shows and burlesque performances) http://www.myspace.com/mercykillingsartist Don't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Brains 2 #38 December 6, 2005 QuoteDon't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. I am just going to quote you here to bump this up so she will see it. By the way, when are you going to come to SSM and jump?? Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #39 December 6, 2005 'nother bump... *sitting back with coffee cup and toast waiting for the fireworks to continue*My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Johnnyskydive 0 #40 December 6, 2005 I do love her....probably should have put some more info in here. If I'd knew it was going to turn into a discussion...then I would have. We've been dating for almost 6 years now. Aww right, or some might ask why aren't you guys married?? Well, we've been dating since high school....I went to college...she is going through college. I've been wanting a good job, finally got a decent one. We are going to get married....after we can "settle" down. So I guess I should call her my fiancee...but I hear that too much. So I'll just stick with GF. She has a year and a half of school left. We want to have a house by the time she gets out...and maybe a little money saved up...I am of course making most of the money....she is still going to school and limited in jobs by that. She feels bad that she isn't "contributing". I tell her she shouldn't, she's cont. by going to school....but she talked to a friend of her's and decided, if I was okay with it, she'd start stripping a few nights a week to make some money. Which she (and I) thinks will help tremendously. I know she is getting into it for the right reasons...and she has a good head on her shoulders...so I know she'll be just fine. She isn't stupid, nor am I. She'll find a good club...not on of the "bump and grind" clubs everyone seems to be talking about. I also know that we are both committed to the relationship. I'm not worried about her "fulfilling" other guys fantasies and what not. She'll look at it the right way...it's a job....it's paying bills and helping us save money. Which she is anal about money anyway....don't think she'll go blowing it. In fact, I'll probably have to force her to do anything else with it but put it away!! Okay, this is getting long, so I'll wrap it up. Just thought I'd go into a little more detail since this has turned into a discussion....which is fine with me. I'm enjoying this thread quite a bit. I like seeing both sides. Thanks for the ladies that had/have had some experience....I appreciate you guys. Lets see where this goes...... Johnny Skydive! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ReBirth 0 #41 December 6, 2005 Sounds like you made up your mind...I'll give you the same advice my lawyer gave me after my last experience with a stripper. Make sure you're the first one to file the restraining order. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites fireflytx 0 #42 December 6, 2005 Quote Don't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. I am not just some "Chick"! I know what I am talking about. I teach a class for dancers to make it though the job and do it correctly not become a complete asshole doing it. In teaching my class I learn that there are more and more dancers that are using this as a good stepping stone to get though some rough times in there life. So what is your experience with this subject since you seem to be such an expert and know it all? Sorry if you had a bad experience and soory if your girlfriend, if you have one, doesn't have a pole in her living room to do private shows for you. Why don't you go back and read this post http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1285240#1285240"Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wmw999 2,452 #43 December 6, 2005 Sweetie, I'd simply agree with him that you can't take the club out of the dancer. It's your club, you've worked very hard to earn it. Then offer to use the club on him, preferably forcefully about the head and shoulders Your AOTMB performance was awesome Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites fireflytx 0 #44 December 6, 2005 Johnny, don't worry. She seems like a smart girl and I will make sure she will know what's up "Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites fireflytx 0 #45 December 6, 2005 I love you Wendy!"Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites goodnplentygirl 0 #46 December 6, 2005 I'm going through rough times I mentioned the idea to Jason, but he wasnt very keen on it....and he said I didnt have the balls to do it anyways. He's probably right. Its just that you make it look so classy and beautiful, it makes me think that I can do it too. Edited to add: Thats ok though if Jason doesnt want me to make extra money to buy a new car, he can just continue to be my driving bitch my body, my choice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JAC 0 #47 December 6, 2005 QuoteI'm going through rough times I mentioned the idea to Jason, but he wasnt very keen on it....and he said I didnt have the balls to do it anyways. He's probably right. Its just that you make it look so classy and beautiful, it makes me think that I can do it too. Edited to add: Thats ok though if Jason doesnt want me to make extra money to buy a new car, he can just continue to be my driving bitch She does make it look beautiful.... but there's no way I'm kidding myself to think I could even make it two feet up that pole. You'd probably find me lying on the floor with a broken neck or something. Everybody loves to "Drive Ms. Bucci". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Brains 2 #48 December 6, 2005 QuoteEverybody loves to "Drive Ms. Bucci". Quick, somebody tell me the name of the driver in Driving Miss Daisy, i need to call Jason Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites goodnplentygirl 0 #49 December 6, 2005 Hoke Colburn was the chauffeurs name my body, my choice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jenfly00 0 #50 December 6, 2005 QuoteI do love her....probably should have put some more info in here. If I'd knew it was going to turn into a discussion...then I would have. We've been dating for almost 6 years now. Aww right, or some might ask why aren't you guys married?? Well, we've been dating since high school....I went to college...she is going through college. I've been wanting a good job, finally got a decent one. We are going to get married....after we can "settle" down. So I guess I should call her my fiancee...but I hear that too much. So I'll just stick with GF. She has a year and a half of school left. We want to have a house by the time she gets out...and maybe a little money saved up...I am of course making most of the money....she is still going to school and limited in jobs by that. She feels bad that she isn't "contributing". I tell her she shouldn't, she's cont. by going to school....but she talked to a friend of her's and decided, if I was okay with it, she'd start stripping a few nights a week to make some money. Which she (and I) thinks will help tremendously. I know she is getting into it for the right reasons...and she has a good head on her shoulders...so I know she'll be just fine. She isn't stupid, nor am I. She'll find a good club...not on of the "bump and grind" clubs everyone seems to be talking about. I also know that we are both committed to the relationship. I'm not worried about her "fulfilling" other guys fantasies and what not. She'll look at it the right way...it's a job....it's paying bills and helping us save money. Which she is anal about money anyway....don't think she'll go blowing it. In fact, I'll probably have to force her to do anything else with it but put it away!! Okay, this is getting long, so I'll wrap it up. Just thought I'd go into a little more detail since this has turned into a discussion....which is fine with me. I'm enjoying this thread quite a bit. I like seeing both sides. Thanks for the ladies that had/have had some experience....I appreciate you guys. Lets see where this goes...... Best of luck to you. In my short 5 months of stripping, I saw some women start with the 'right' reasons but I didn't see any who stayed with it more than a year that weren't significantly damaged. Mostly, it's power ... frequently girls diddled by daddy (or father left in divorce) or another male figure who are stuck in a cycle of dangling sex in a neverending dance to recapture daddy's love while experiencing the control they never had when younger. This is inevitably followed by resentment (hatred) of the men they seek the love and acceptance from. Views of men in general become more solidified as chumps or marks to be used and despised while continuing to dangle sex to get the love they want and need. The more they don't get what they need, the more they resent men and the more they use them. From the attention seeking, it becomes a matter of money comes to represent the love. This behavior is not exclusive to strippers. We have all seen it in 'real' life and even on internet chat boards. Some women spend their lives in this dance. The strippers I knew fell into two overlapping categories. Those whose personal relationships were with women and those who used men for money with the money being the substitute for love and the mark of personal value. Conversations in the dressing room centered around how much they had taken men for and what a despicable chump he was. The look of pride on their faces was ...intense. I'm sure there might be well adjusted strippers with good relationships, I just haven't met them.----------------------- "O brave new world that has such people in it". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 2 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. 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ReBirth 0 #35 December 5, 2005 QuoteIt's just getting weird when I pretty regularly run into girls off to whom I'm sure I've jacked it at one time or another. I went to the bank last week...the teller is a girl I've known as a stripper for years. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cameramonkey 0 #36 December 6, 2005 Been there, done that, got the Tshirt.. and damn, it was an EXPENSIVE shirt. Run away. unless you love her, then grab her and make her run away with you. The chances of her getting fu$$ed up greatly outweigh the chances of her keeping her head on straight and investing the money or some crap. If she was so inclined, she could work hard and save instead. Besides, $$ aint everything. I have done some stupid sh$$ in my life. I can honestly say none of it comes close to dating the stripper(s). Some SERIOUSLY messed up Sh$$. Unless your life is REALLY boring, and you feel you need to build more character, I say run away. Odds are you are more likely to get burned by this bonfire than to just stand idly by drinking beer like you are used to. The only thing I see positive from my experiences is that I am stronger, more confident man because of it. it was a trial by fire, but something I personally needed to kick my ass into gear (and get my priorities in line) Hindsight is an amazing thing. I can honestly thank both women( One I actually did, but she didnt take kindly to being referred to a psychopath. oh well- the truth hurts sometimes). They made me wiser than I knew I needed to be. (no offense to our resident stripper)Two wrongs don't make a right, however three lefts DO! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #37 December 6, 2005 QuoteWe are so not going here again - hey guys once again why don't you ask the "stripper" in the group? I prefer the term exotic dancer or burlesque performer. Here's my post why this subject got a little heated last year http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1285240#1285240 PLEASE READ THAT POST, if you do you will notice I am not embarrassed or ashamed about my job at all. Jimmy D, since I am a 31 year old "stripper" does that make me almost pathetic????? Considering I didn't even start until I was 26 I haven't been doing it very long. Yeah, a lot of strippers are fvck ups, but I am meeting more and more that aren't. Johnny, PM me or the greatest boyfriend in the world, Brains, and we will answer any of your questions. (PS you should see some of the fvck ups I met at work from the corporate world that are way worse than any strippers I have ever met.) And hopefully this will be the year I change careers or get on the way to changing careers because I am accomplished pretty much all my goals with the dancing job that I have wanted to accomplish. It's true you can't do it forever nor do you want to. It will take you being a strong, trusting man to date a dancer, but being strong and trusting are some great qualities a good woman looks for in a man. And if she is a good woman and worth being with, dancing won't screw it up. And if she becomes a good dancer, check out my attached pics and she can do fun stuff like that. also check out my website www.nocturnalcreationsonline.com or my space (yes I have a my space page but it is only for work purposes, it helps sell fire shows and burlesque performances) http://www.myspace.com/mercykillingsartist Don't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #38 December 6, 2005 QuoteDon't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. I am just going to quote you here to bump this up so she will see it. By the way, when are you going to come to SSM and jump?? Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #39 December 6, 2005 'nother bump... *sitting back with coffee cup and toast waiting for the fireworks to continue*My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Johnnyskydive 0 #40 December 6, 2005 I do love her....probably should have put some more info in here. If I'd knew it was going to turn into a discussion...then I would have. We've been dating for almost 6 years now. Aww right, or some might ask why aren't you guys married?? Well, we've been dating since high school....I went to college...she is going through college. I've been wanting a good job, finally got a decent one. We are going to get married....after we can "settle" down. So I guess I should call her my fiancee...but I hear that too much. So I'll just stick with GF. She has a year and a half of school left. We want to have a house by the time she gets out...and maybe a little money saved up...I am of course making most of the money....she is still going to school and limited in jobs by that. She feels bad that she isn't "contributing". I tell her she shouldn't, she's cont. by going to school....but she talked to a friend of her's and decided, if I was okay with it, she'd start stripping a few nights a week to make some money. Which she (and I) thinks will help tremendously. I know she is getting into it for the right reasons...and she has a good head on her shoulders...so I know she'll be just fine. She isn't stupid, nor am I. She'll find a good club...not on of the "bump and grind" clubs everyone seems to be talking about. I also know that we are both committed to the relationship. I'm not worried about her "fulfilling" other guys fantasies and what not. She'll look at it the right way...it's a job....it's paying bills and helping us save money. Which she is anal about money anyway....don't think she'll go blowing it. In fact, I'll probably have to force her to do anything else with it but put it away!! Okay, this is getting long, so I'll wrap it up. Just thought I'd go into a little more detail since this has turned into a discussion....which is fine with me. I'm enjoying this thread quite a bit. I like seeing both sides. Thanks for the ladies that had/have had some experience....I appreciate you guys. Lets see where this goes...... Johnny Skydive! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ReBirth 0 #41 December 6, 2005 Sounds like you made up your mind...I'll give you the same advice my lawyer gave me after my last experience with a stripper. Make sure you're the first one to file the restraining order. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #42 December 6, 2005 Quote Don't listen to this chick. This is 100% dancer crap. If your g/f starts dancing, within a month you will not even know her anymore.....really. You can take the dancer out of the club, but you cannot take the club out of the dancer. I am not just some "Chick"! I know what I am talking about. I teach a class for dancers to make it though the job and do it correctly not become a complete asshole doing it. In teaching my class I learn that there are more and more dancers that are using this as a good stepping stone to get though some rough times in there life. So what is your experience with this subject since you seem to be such an expert and know it all? Sorry if you had a bad experience and soory if your girlfriend, if you have one, doesn't have a pole in her living room to do private shows for you. Why don't you go back and read this post http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1285240#1285240"Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,452 #43 December 6, 2005 Sweetie, I'd simply agree with him that you can't take the club out of the dancer. It's your club, you've worked very hard to earn it. Then offer to use the club on him, preferably forcefully about the head and shoulders Your AOTMB performance was awesome Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #44 December 6, 2005 Johnny, don't worry. She seems like a smart girl and I will make sure she will know what's up "Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #45 December 6, 2005 I love you Wendy!"Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goodnplentygirl 0 #46 December 6, 2005 I'm going through rough times I mentioned the idea to Jason, but he wasnt very keen on it....and he said I didnt have the balls to do it anyways. He's probably right. Its just that you make it look so classy and beautiful, it makes me think that I can do it too. Edited to add: Thats ok though if Jason doesnt want me to make extra money to buy a new car, he can just continue to be my driving bitch my body, my choice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JAC 0 #47 December 6, 2005 QuoteI'm going through rough times I mentioned the idea to Jason, but he wasnt very keen on it....and he said I didnt have the balls to do it anyways. He's probably right. Its just that you make it look so classy and beautiful, it makes me think that I can do it too. Edited to add: Thats ok though if Jason doesnt want me to make extra money to buy a new car, he can just continue to be my driving bitch She does make it look beautiful.... but there's no way I'm kidding myself to think I could even make it two feet up that pole. You'd probably find me lying on the floor with a broken neck or something. Everybody loves to "Drive Ms. Bucci". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #48 December 6, 2005 QuoteEverybody loves to "Drive Ms. Bucci". Quick, somebody tell me the name of the driver in Driving Miss Daisy, i need to call Jason Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goodnplentygirl 0 #49 December 6, 2005 Hoke Colburn was the chauffeurs name my body, my choice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jenfly00 0 #50 December 6, 2005 QuoteI do love her....probably should have put some more info in here. If I'd knew it was going to turn into a discussion...then I would have. We've been dating for almost 6 years now. Aww right, or some might ask why aren't you guys married?? Well, we've been dating since high school....I went to college...she is going through college. I've been wanting a good job, finally got a decent one. We are going to get married....after we can "settle" down. So I guess I should call her my fiancee...but I hear that too much. So I'll just stick with GF. She has a year and a half of school left. We want to have a house by the time she gets out...and maybe a little money saved up...I am of course making most of the money....she is still going to school and limited in jobs by that. She feels bad that she isn't "contributing". I tell her she shouldn't, she's cont. by going to school....but she talked to a friend of her's and decided, if I was okay with it, she'd start stripping a few nights a week to make some money. Which she (and I) thinks will help tremendously. I know she is getting into it for the right reasons...and she has a good head on her shoulders...so I know she'll be just fine. She isn't stupid, nor am I. She'll find a good club...not on of the "bump and grind" clubs everyone seems to be talking about. I also know that we are both committed to the relationship. I'm not worried about her "fulfilling" other guys fantasies and what not. She'll look at it the right way...it's a job....it's paying bills and helping us save money. Which she is anal about money anyway....don't think she'll go blowing it. In fact, I'll probably have to force her to do anything else with it but put it away!! Okay, this is getting long, so I'll wrap it up. Just thought I'd go into a little more detail since this has turned into a discussion....which is fine with me. I'm enjoying this thread quite a bit. I like seeing both sides. Thanks for the ladies that had/have had some experience....I appreciate you guys. Lets see where this goes...... Best of luck to you. In my short 5 months of stripping, I saw some women start with the 'right' reasons but I didn't see any who stayed with it more than a year that weren't significantly damaged. Mostly, it's power ... frequently girls diddled by daddy (or father left in divorce) or another male figure who are stuck in a cycle of dangling sex in a neverending dance to recapture daddy's love while experiencing the control they never had when younger. This is inevitably followed by resentment (hatred) of the men they seek the love and acceptance from. Views of men in general become more solidified as chumps or marks to be used and despised while continuing to dangle sex to get the love they want and need. The more they don't get what they need, the more they resent men and the more they use them. From the attention seeking, it becomes a matter of money comes to represent the love. This behavior is not exclusive to strippers. We have all seen it in 'real' life and even on internet chat boards. Some women spend their lives in this dance. The strippers I knew fell into two overlapping categories. Those whose personal relationships were with women and those who used men for money with the money being the substitute for love and the mark of personal value. Conversations in the dressing room centered around how much they had taken men for and what a despicable chump he was. The look of pride on their faces was ...intense. I'm sure there might be well adjusted strippers with good relationships, I just haven't met them.----------------------- "O brave new world that has such people in it". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
