kelel01 1 #26 November 4, 2005 That's something I will never get over . . . nor understand. The idea of needing visual stimulation is completely foreign to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #27 November 4, 2005 QuoteThat's something I will never get over . . . nor understand. The idea of needing visual stimulation is completely foreign to me. So how are you stimulated if not visually? JD usually works for me?! *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #28 November 4, 2005 Physically. That's it. I don't even need to be turned on. Does that mean I have some sort of deep-seated (seeded?) Christian guilt or something? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinker 0 #29 November 4, 2005 QuoteThat's something I will never get over . . . nor understand. The idea of needing visual stimulation is completely foreign to me. of COURSE it's foreign to you! you're a woman! most women don't get off that way. and while some DO enjoy visial stimulation, they are the exception. Women's brains/psyches/sexualities are different. but you can read yourself off. and feel (emote) yourself off. Most men find that just as foreign. -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #30 November 4, 2005 QuotePhysically. That's it. I don't even need to be turned on. Does that mean I have some sort of deep-seated (seeded?) Christian guilt or something? I don't think so! Was raised catholic...although I do feel a little guilty sometimes but, I get over it quickly*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcneill79 0 #31 November 4, 2005 QuoteQuoteThat's something I will never get over . . . nor understand. The idea of needing visual stimulation is completely foreign to me. of COURSE it's foreign to you! you're a woman! most women don't get off that way. and while some DO enjoy visial stimulation, they are the exception. Women's brains/psyches/sexualities are different. but you can read yourself off. and feel (emote) yourself off. Most men find that just as foreign.I definitely like visual stimulation, a good sex story works too when I'm in the right mood. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #32 November 4, 2005 You seriously don't get it??? I mean really. Guys are always visually stimulated. That is why we are always staring at your boobs or ass. That is why guys like girlie magazines, posters, music videos, workout shows..... As a rule, guys are more into watching porn, going to stripclubs, etc. If you walk down the street, almost every guy will turn his head to take a look. Tell me you understand why a guy would like visual stimulation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinker 0 #33 November 4, 2005 >I definitely like visual stimulation, a good sex story works too when I'm in the right mood. are you talking about WATCHING a good sex story or READING a good sex story? If it's reading, then that doesn't apply... that goes to imagination, which, while related to "visual" stimulation, isn't exactly the same... -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #34 November 4, 2005 QuotePhysically. That's it. Really??? I can't be turned on physically (usually) unless I am turned on mentally... which could involve visual stimulation or reading a story or just fantasizing, but it's definitely a mental thing for me... And to answer the original question... My left hand is not very useful for anything. I tried to force myself to learn to write left-handed when I was a kid, but it never worked very well... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcneill79 0 #35 November 4, 2005 Quote>I definitely like visual stimulation, a good sex story works too when I'm in the right mood. are you talking about WATCHING a good sex story or READING a good sex story? If it's reading, then that doesn't apply... that goes to imagination, which, while related to "visual" stimulation, isn't exactly the same...Both... I usually prefer to WATCH, but when in the right mood READING is good too. Watching with someone really gets me going. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinker 0 #36 November 4, 2005 QuoteQuote>I definitely like visual stimulation, a good sex story works too when I'm in the right mood. are you talking about WATCHING a good sex story or READING a good sex story? If it's reading, then that doesn't apply... that goes to imagination, which, while related to "visual" stimulation, isn't exactly the same...Both... I usually prefer to WATCH, but when in the right mood READING is good too. Watching with someone really gets me going. In the immortal words of Sudsy, have I told you lately.... that I LOVE YOU? -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #37 November 4, 2005 QuoteBoth... I usually prefer to WATCH, but when in the right mood READING is good too. Have someone read it to you; maybe in the tub..."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #38 November 4, 2005 QuoteThat's something I will never get over . . . nor understand. The idea of needing visual stimulation is completely foreign to me. geeze kelly how many times did I get caught staring at your boobs? makes sense dont it!? Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #39 November 4, 2005 It makes sense. But I can't relate. VERY rarely am I turned on by something I see . . . and slightly more often by thoughts. But for me, it really takes ACTION most of the time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #40 November 4, 2005 QuoteIt makes sense. But I can't relate. VERY rarely am I turned on by something I see . . . and slightly more often by thoughts. But for me, it really takes ACTION most of the time. Ok so how do you know you want ACTION? or do you just randomly have sex when someone starts workin ya over? count me confused! Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #41 November 4, 2005 Ok, lemme clarify. Sometimes I want it, but it must just be a hormonal surge. I don't use visual stimulation or imagery to get myself in the mood - nor does it help, really. I'm not saying I never want it without it being started, but seeing or imagining things doesn't make me want it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #42 November 4, 2005 QuoteOk, lemme clarify. Sometimes I want it, but it must just be a hormonal surge. I don't use visual stimulation or imagery to get myself in the mood - nor does it help, really. I'm not saying I never want it without it being started, but seeing or imagining things doesn't make me want it. Youre a freak kelly. an abomination of nature. and from what I remember, Wife#1 and Wife#2 used to have a big ole time watchin those guys on the home repair shows! Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #43 November 4, 2005 NO! The real question is why you dancing by yourself?? You smell??? Oh I get it, you can't dance, BUT, you think you can!! hehehehehehehe BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #44 November 4, 2005 Yeah, but I never picture them while getting off in whatever manner. I guess there is one thing that gets me - talking about it. But not like here on the forums . . . talking about it in real life. So maybe there's a bit of imagery at play there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #45 November 4, 2005 QuoteYeah, but I never picture them while getting off in whatever manner. I guess there is one thing that gets me - talking about it. But not like here on the forums . . . talking about it in real life. So maybe there's a bit of imagery at play there. see what DZ.com can do for you ! it opens sexual doors! Youve learned something today kel! Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #46 November 4, 2005 Yeah, I just normally don't dissect my sexual psyche. But I still say looking at porn does nothing for me. But I also don't find it offensive . . . so you can put it on in the background. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #47 November 4, 2005 QuoteNO! The real question is why you dancing by yourself?? You smell??? Oh I get it, you can't dance, BUT, you think you can!! hehehehehehehe Oh yeah right, I am sure that everytime you have ever had the urge to dance, you have always had a partner. Get real. And besides that, if anyone says they don't occasionally like to dance by themselves, then they are lying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #48 November 4, 2005 True I do dance by myself, I was just counting the pole as my partner. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #49 November 4, 2005 QuoteTrue I do dance by myself, I was just counting the pole as my partner. Bobbi The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #50 November 4, 2005 QuoteQuoteTrue I do dance by myself, I was just counting the pole as my partner. Bobbi If you get a chance to, watch the Faith and Hope sitcom tonight. They take a stripperobic class and even install a stripper pole in the bedroom... should be a hoot! "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
