boinky 0 #1 October 13, 2005 You're involved with that special person. Someone asks you what makes them a good boyfriend/girlfriend for you. What would you say? What [B]IS it that makes them perfect for you?Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meux 0 #2 October 13, 2005 My SO is a great teacher, she teaches me all the things I'm not. She is patient and like my dog, she loves me despite all my shortcomings. Single words to describe that? Non-Judgemental? Accepting? Humble? Wise? Fantastic all night lover,,, oops, that's not one word Good Luck, Mo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #3 October 13, 2005 It's someone that loves you just how you are and has no plans or even wants to change you. They just want to be part of your life. If you also feel the same way.........it makes for a perfect relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #4 October 13, 2005 I think I've learned so much over the last couple of years about human nature. A good SO needs to be able to handle it when you aren't perfect. Or break your leg. Seriously though, unconditional love and complete trust in you without wanting to change who you are. It would be nice to find a man who truly has those qualities. I would expect him to want me to have them too. Is it possible that in my old age I am actually looking for someone who understands the true meaning of committment? That's what makes a good SO, that being said... when I am initially attracted to someone I think sense of humor and easy nature comes first. I want someone who is happy and comfortable in their own skin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #5 October 13, 2005 Who is this woman???? How unfair , jeesh dont your know your girlfriend reads these forems ??? okay to answer the question... a good SO for me is someones whose strengths overcome my weakness, who isnt afraid to share their weakness with me. Someone who is honest, someone who wont mis-place the trust I have in them. Mutual respect. Great sex. Just like in any relationship, acceptence is vital. Accept the person through the hard times. I dont want to be put on a pedistal, I am not perfect and I dont want to be. When you can laugh and find the odd things cute (like sleep talking and pouting ....) that is a sign one is loved. When everything is scarey and confusing but your S.O. is by your side trying to take the pain away, when no matter what, both people look to each other and accept the person without plans on how to change them. Best friends make great S.O.sSudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #7 October 13, 2005 Cooks, cleans, goes dutch out to dinner, big knockers and can pack my canopy. Love is in the air, I tell you."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #8 October 13, 2005 Quote big knockers Damn, so close... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #9 October 13, 2005 Quote...without wanting to change who you are.... So I'm left to be the one to say it, eh? Old adage: Men marry hoping she won't change, women marry hoping he will. Like Billy says..so sue me. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #10 October 13, 2005 Quote Skydiving. Nymphomania."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #11 October 13, 2005 Patience. Lots and lots of patience. Mind you thats not the only thing, but it sure does make the hard times easier to deal with, and the good times even better. that said. the patience to put up with my skydiving and good times shenanagins!Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
littlestranger 0 #12 October 13, 2005 no drama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #13 October 13, 2005 Cooks, cleans, buys me dinner, pays for my jumps, a big package and a rigger's ticket so he can pack both my canopies. Oh, and my dog has to like him too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #14 October 13, 2005 Someone who loves you DESPITE who, what, AND how you are. Someone who can make you laugh thru the tears, helps too. Someone who has your back. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashtanga 0 #15 October 13, 2005 When I was in Jr. High, all I wanted was a girl with big breasts. In high school, I dated a girl with big breasts, but there was no passion. So I decided I needed a passionate girl. In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency, she cried all the time. So I decided I needed a girl with some stability. I found a very stable girl, but she was boring. She never got excited about anything. So I decided I needed a girl with some excitement. I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She was without direction. So I decided to find a girl with some ambition. After college, I found an ambitious girl and loved her. She was so ambitious, she left me and took everything I owned. Now all I want is a girl with big breasts!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shall555 0 #16 October 13, 2005 Quote What [B]IS it that makes them perfect for you? Takes my tuxedo to the cleaners (if I ever buy a tuxedo) Almost no long, mournful trumpet solos before 8 AM Cooks a mean boiled-bacon souffle Owns a Pitts S2-B shall Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike111 0 #17 October 13, 2005 Ditto. Very good description. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #18 October 13, 2005 Sounds like we wound up marrying the same girl....My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #19 October 13, 2005 Having them as your best friend. I know it sounds cheesy but it’s true. We knew each other for 4 years before we got romantically involved. She knows who I am the good shit and the bad shit no fronts. I know who she is and we trust each other not bullshit trust but real trust. We would never do any thing that would harm the other. Plus she can drinks beers better then anyone i have ever seenI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveStMarys 0 #20 October 13, 2005 My husband was my best friend, helped me deal with an asshole boyfriend and waited on the side lines until I came to my senses (about a year and a half), when asked why he didn't hit on me he stated, "You were another mans girl. I waited to the time was right and you were available." Aaaaah a knight if ever there was one. Though had I known sooner that he was interested, I would have left my BF ass sooner! LOL! BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #21 October 13, 2005 See? That's why we should never regret past (non-abusive) relationships -even with assholes and cold heartless bitches. They teach us about ourselves and the type of person we want to end up with. Thanks ex-boyfriends. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #22 October 13, 2005 QuoteThanks ex-boyfriends. Can I be your future ex-boyfriend? "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #23 October 13, 2005 QuoteDamn, so close... Actually, perky is preferable."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #24 October 13, 2005 QuoteQuoteThanks ex-boyfriends. Can I be your future ex-boyfriend? Sure, barring me keeping current boyfriend. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #25 October 13, 2005 I think I have someone just for you"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
