CSpenceFLY 1 #1 August 16, 2005 Just got the call that my father has passed away after a very short illness.The moral to this story,don't hide your feelings.Say whats on your mind.I never would have believed it if someone had told me a month ago that I would be burying my father this weekend.We never know from one day to the next what is around the next turn.For the most part I have said the things I have wanted to.Have you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #2 August 16, 2005 Sorry for your loss, Spence. And thank you for the reminder."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #3 August 16, 2005 Chris, I'm so sorry to hear about that. My thoughts are with you and your family. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumprunner 0 #4 August 16, 2005 QuoteJust got the call that my father has passed away after a very short illness.The moral to this story,don't hide your feelings.Say whats on your mind.I never would have believed it if someone had told me a month ago that I would be burying my father this weekend.We never know from one day to the next what is around the next turn.For the most part I have said the things I have wanted to.Have you? Yea I didnt feel too good when that happened to me, it pretty much freaked me out. I stayed depressed for a while bvt managed to get on with life. Nothing you can do about it, so you just move on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catfishhunter 2 #5 August 16, 2005 My Heart Felt Condolences to you. I lost my father to Cancer and didn't get to make the amends I wish I could today. I am sure he is proud of you. He will always be with you.. God Bless.. MAKE EVERY DAY COUNT Life is Short and we never know how long we are going to have. We must live life to the fullest EVERY DAY. Everything we do should have a greater purpose. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Everon 0 #6 August 16, 2005 My condolences to you. I lost my father to cancer when I was 18. He was on the school board, and his last wish was to hand me my diploma when I graduated. He missed by 3 months. I was in complete denial of his impending death, and couldn't bring myself to visit him in the hospital in his last days. I'm not sure I would have done anything differently now (being 40 years old). I sure miss him, though, as he was my best friend. I don't mean to sound callous in any way, but if a loved one passes away quickly, I would think it would be easier to deal with than to watch him slowly deteriorate. I still think about him today, and maybe I did hide my feelings. I loved him dearly, but never told him that as I grew up in a "not-so-close" family. I do remember all of the fun we had together, and those memories are priceless. That and the fact that I think he'd be proud of me makes it a lot easier to accept his death. Think of the positive, and that will help greatly! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #7 August 17, 2005 sorry to hear this, i can't even imagine what it would be like to loose a parent. ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monkycndo 0 #8 August 17, 2005 My condolences on the loss of your dad. Once all of us kids became adults, my dad made the choice to not be part of the family and we weren't really that close while he was around. It still stung finding out he passed suddenly. It was weird having to learn who he had become by going through his things to get his personal business in order. Since then, I have made an extra effort to keep in touch with the friends anf family who mean so much to me and let them know it. Thanks for the reminder.50 donations so far. Give it a try. You know you want to spank it Jump an Infinity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shmali 0 #9 August 17, 2005 Chris, Sorry to hear about the loss. Hopefully there was no or very little suffering. Best wishes this weekend to you and the family. Pineappe Death Juice, If you have to ask you'd rather not know! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #10 August 17, 2005 I'm so sorry to hear, Spence! Hugs, my friend.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #11 August 17, 2005 Chris, My heart's with you, my friend.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PsychoBob 0 #12 August 17, 2005 Sorry for your loss Spence. Hope that you and you family can find peace and comfort during this sad times. We'll keep you and your family in our prayers,"I'm not a gynecologist but I will take a look at it" RB #1295, Smokey Sister #1, HellFish #658, Dirty Sanchez #194, Muff Brothers #3834, POPS #9614, Orfun Foster-Parent?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #13 August 17, 2005 Chris, words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. You know the struggle I've been going through with my dad and I just happened to get off the phone with him a few seconds before I read your thread. I used to not tell my mom and dad that I loved them before I got off the phone, but now I make it a point to say it every single time for fear of never talking to them again. My news today was bittersweet because even though my mom's bill of health was cleared, my dad is going through his third round of chemo tomorrow. Going through all of this has really opened my eyes to the fact that I want someone to be able to share life's ups and downs with. Someone to help get me through the rough times. Surround yourself with those that love you, take comfort in the fact that you don't have to go through this alone. I love you Chris and I will always be here for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jceman 1 #14 August 17, 2005 Spence, you have my deepest sympathies. I've been there with both my folks and still miss them very much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ViperPilot 0 #15 August 17, 2005 Really sorry to hear about your dad Spence. My prayers are with you. Keep strong man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #16 August 17, 2005 Sorry to hear that spence. Hugs to you. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Knobee 0 #17 August 17, 2005 Sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers with you and your family. Those that have not jumped can not understand Those that have jumped can not explain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Evelyn 0 #18 August 17, 2005 So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are prayers are with you. Like you said, let others know how you feel since you never know how long you'll have them. Be comforted that you said the things you needed to say while you could. Hope others follow your example. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing ~ Helen Keller Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elizfowler 0 #19 August 17, 2005 Warmest condolences to you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #20 August 17, 2005 Spence, that is terrible news. I'm so sorry. I'm here for you if you need anything. And guess what.. its not too late to tell your dad anything you want.. and I would bet that he knew what was in your heart without you having to say it. If theres anything at all.. holler. Kitty loves you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alanab 0 #21 August 17, 2005 spence... im so sorry for your loss. my thoughts are all with you babe in this tough time. i love you and im here for you:) we all are! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #22 August 17, 2005 Oh Chris I am so sorry. If I can do anything to help PLEASE let me know. Hang in there and know I'll be thinking about you. Call me if you need to talk. HUGS -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpinfarmer 0 #23 August 17, 2005 Sorry to hear that man. I've had to deal with a lot of death in my family this year (some very suddenly) so I know how you are fealing now. Again very sorry and hang in there. It gets a little better every day. Trust me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #24 August 17, 2005 Like everyone else, I'm so sorry to read about your dad. Many hugs to you and your family.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
luckky 0 #25 August 17, 2005 chris soo sorry about your loss..Since i have been in this sport it has made me very aware of expressing feelings for the ones that you care about and love and i always try to convey my feelings..Have been slacking a bit lately,,so thanks for reminding me again..Love U spence u are a truley special guy..take care my friend __________________________________________________If there are no trials in life,how will u know what is really imprtortant liv2luv luv2liv,,,SUMMOOO 1 lucky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
