Girlfalldown 0 #1 July 28, 2005 I'm just curious, how long did you wait before you said "it"? How long after you were feeling it did you actually say it or did you just blurt it out the first time you felt it? Also, was it returned to you? Or vice versa? Did you say it first? Did the other person say it first? How did that make you feel? I'm doing survey. No Clay, I'm not talking Red or Yellow. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #2 July 28, 2005 QuoteI'm just curious, how long did you wait before you said "it"? How long after you were feeling it did you actually say it or did you just blurt it out the first time you felt it? Also, was it returned to you? Or vice versa? Did you say it first? Did the other person say it first? How did that make you feel? I'm doing survey. No Clay, I'm not talking Red or Yellow. __________________________________ Get lost? Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #3 July 28, 2005 Quote Get lost? No. I have no problem telling guys to get lost. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #4 July 28, 2005 QuoteQuote Get lost? No. I have no problem telling guys to get lost. _____________________________ Are you talkin' about the 'L' word??Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #5 July 28, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuote Get lost? No. I have no problem telling guys to get lost. _____________________________ Are you talkin' about the 'L' word??Chuck Yes but I can't say it. I hardly know you. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outlawphx 1 #6 July 28, 2005 With my wife... I'm just curious, how long did you wait before you said "it"? A few months How long after you were feeling it did you actually say it or did you just blurt it out the first time you felt it? A couple weeks Also, was it returned to you? obviously Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #7 July 28, 2005 I tried to put a time limit on that.................but you just can't. When you feel it you say it. You just have to be able to tell the difference between "I just came inside and it felt so good I want to say it" and the real thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #8 July 28, 2005 QuoteQuote Get lost? No. I have no problem telling guys to get lost. And I have no problem telling asshole supervisors at work to go fuck themself... "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #9 July 28, 2005 QuoteI tried to put a time limit on that.................but you just can't. When you feel it you say it. You just have to be able to tell the difference between "I just came inside and it felt so good I want to say it" and the real thing. Sex is definately NOT the time to say it. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #10 July 28, 2005 Quotehow long did you wait before you said "it"? I think I probably said "it" sometime before age 2. That's generally one of the first words a person learns. QuoteHow long after you were feeling it did you actually say it or did you just blurt it out the first time you felt it? Well, since I was unable to talk at the time I was feeling the "it" I would eventually refer to, I definitely didn't just blurt "it" out at the time that I first felt it. I'd say there was probably a good 1-1/2 year stretch between when I first felt the the thing that I would eventually refer to as "it". QuoteAlso, was it returned to you? Or vice versa? Depends on who wanted "it". If I wanted "it" it was probably returned to me. If I had "it" (like, for example, a rogue cookie or a Fisher Price car) I'd either return "it", hide "it" or go running off with "it" depending on the situation. QuoteDid you say it first? No, I think I said "Ma ma" first. QuoteDid the other person say it first? I don't know, you'll have to ask them. QuoteHow did that make you feel? I'm sure I felt quite a sense of accomplishment at adding yet another new word to my vocabulary. On an unrelated note, apparently when I was first learning to talk I would pronounce "tr" as "f". So everytime we went by a fire station my parents would point to one of the fire trucks as ask me what that was. Glad to know I was cheap entertainment in even my early years. - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #11 July 28, 2005 When my wife and I had been dating awhile, we were out to dinner one night and we said it at the same time... no lead-up... nothin'. We just said it. We've been pretty much 'connected' like that since. It's pretty cool. Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #12 July 28, 2005 Isn't it the kind of things that comes out naturally? WTF do I know anyway... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #13 July 28, 2005 QuoteWhen my wife and I had been dating awhile, we were out to dinner one night and we said it at the same time... no lead-up... nothin'. We just said it. We've been pretty much 'connected' like that since. It's pretty cool. Chuck That's really cool. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #14 July 28, 2005 Ted, you have way too much time on your hands. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashtanga 0 #15 July 28, 2005 I told my ex when she went down on me the first time. I love any woman that goes down on me. I might not be "in love" with them but I definetly love them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #16 July 28, 2005 QuoteQuoteWhen my wife and I had been dating awhile, we were out to dinner one night and we said it at the same time... no lead-up... nothin'. We just said it. We've been pretty much 'connected' like that since. It's pretty cool. Chuck That's really cool. _______________________________________ Thank you. It gets to the point of 'weird', at times. It's like we know what the other is thinking. She'll ask me what I'd like for supper and I'll tell her and she'll respond with; "I've been thinking of that all afternoon!" Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #17 July 28, 2005 I say "it" all the time, without even thinking about it. (See, I just said "it" again and I wasn't even trying to.) I think other people say "it" quite a bit as well, but I don't really pay any attention. I even call my cat "it" when I'm talking to him, but that's some weird Silence of the Lambs thing that I've got going on... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #18 July 28, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteWhen my wife and I had been dating awhile, we were out to dinner one night and we said it at the same time... no lead-up... nothin'. We just said it. We've been pretty much 'connected' like that since. It's pretty cool. Chuck That's really cool. _______________________________________ Thank you. It gets to the point of 'weird', at times. It's like we know what the other is thinking. She'll ask me what I'd like for supper and I'll tell her and she'll respond with; "I've been thinking of that all afternoon!" Chuck Well well well! Doesn't this sound familiar! uh oh. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflygoddess 0 #19 July 28, 2005 lets see...I meet Todd when I was totaly wasted and he was too...I think all I did was walk up to him and kiss him and then I said "I love ya lets get married" and well here we are married and have a baby and a house, but I think the actual real first time was over Christmas about 2 months later and he said it first and I dried and said I did too....then we were preggy and then we bought a house and then we got married just this past 4th of July, so we did everything backwards any ways....but I do love him more than life itself...hell we both stopped jumping together so we can take care of our family first...don't worry we are going to be back at it soon enough....well not as soon as I thought since Derek is going to have yet another surgery, but hopefully by this time next year I will say... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jraf 0 #20 July 28, 2005 its easy...'Lick Me'jraf Me Jungleman! Me have large Babalui. Muff #3275 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflygoddess 0 #21 July 28, 2005 are ya refering to my tattoo? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #22 July 28, 2005 It's..... Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shawndiver 0 #23 July 28, 2005 I think Monty Pythons Knights of Ni had issues with saying "it": ARTHUR: Cut down a tree with a herring? It can't be done. KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! Aaaugh! HEAD KNIGHT: Don't say that word. ARTHUR: What word? HEAD KNIGHT: I cannot tell, suffice to say is one of the words the Knights of Ni cannot hear. ARTHUR: How can we not say the word if you don't tell us what it is? KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! Aaaugh! ARTHUR: What, `is'? HEAD KNIGHT: No, not `is' -- we couldn't get vary far in life not saying `is'. BEDEVERE: My liege, it's Sir Robin! MINSTREL (singing): Packing it in and packing it up And sneaking away and buggering up And chickening out and pissing about Yes, bravely he is throwing in the sponge ARTHUR: Oh, Robin! ROBIN: My liege! It's good to see you! KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! HEAD KNIGHT: He said the word! ARTHUR: Surely you've not given up your quest for the Holy Grail? MINSTREL (singing): He is sneaking away and buggering up-- ROBIN: Shut up! No, no no-- far from it. HEAD KNIGHT: He said the word again! ROBIN: I was looking for it. KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! ROBIN: Uh, here, here in this forest. ARTHUR: No, it is far from-- KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! HEAD KNIGHT: Aaaaugh! Stop saying the word! ARTHUR: Oh, stop it! KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh! HEAD KNIGHT: Oh! He said it again! ARTHUR: Patsy! HEAD KNIGHT: Aaugh! I said it! I said it! Ooh! I said it again! That's three its! KNIGHTS: Aaaaugh!_________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #24 July 28, 2005 QuoteI say "it" all the time, without even thinking about it. Me, too, when I've been drinking, and to my friends, and everyone who makes me laugh, and my Oma, and Mutti..... But, to someone I was "in" it with, I was the first to say so, after about 2 months and he did NOT say it back. We're still together 5 years laterPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #25 July 28, 2005 If you make it an 'IT' then it's just no more damn fun anyways and who cares. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites