daniel_owen_uk 0 #26 June 21, 2005 Some good tips here, be open and honest........ISN'T ONE OF THEM :P Best way out of it would be to fake your own death :D Either that or just tell her you don't want to date her anymore, its probably gonna be easier than you think.__________________ BOOM Headshot Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peej 0 #27 June 21, 2005 QuoteIts called communication. That's honestly the best way. I did the long distance thing with a girl in Australia for a couple months once. As time went by we fell out of love and eventually i had to make the call. When i did it turned out that she felt the same way but was waiting for me to say it. Women, go figure. but communication and honesty is def the way! Advertisio Rodriguez / Sky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #28 June 21, 2005 QuoteCommunication and honesty is def the way! Sir............please turn in your guy card to security and exit the premises IMMEDIATELY! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peej 0 #29 June 21, 2005 QuoteQuoteCommunication and honesty is def the way! Sir............please turn in your guy card to security and exit the premises IMMEDIATELY! Aw, not again dammit! Advertisio Rodriguez / Sky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,515 #30 June 21, 2005 Quoteplease turn in your guy card to security and exit the premises IMMEDIATELY! Just remember there are hordes of women waiting on the other side of the exit doorWendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peej 0 #31 June 21, 2005 QuoteQuoteplease turn in your guy card to security and exit the premises IMMEDIATELY! Just remember there are hordes of women waiting on the other side of the exit doorWendy W. *Bows graciously* Thank you Wendy Advertisio Rodriguez / Sky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snowwhite 0 #32 June 21, 2005 QuoteQuoteplease turn in your guy card to security and exit the premises IMMEDIATELY! Just remember there are hordes of women waiting on the other side of the exit doorWendy W. And all of those guys on the INSIDE keep asking why they can't get dates..GeezskydiveTaylorville.org freefallbeth@yahoo.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #33 June 21, 2005 QuoteBe open and honest. If you are feeling funny about it, she is probably feeling it too! Don't sleep with her mom, sister, best friend, and don't say anything you don't mean, like I will come see you, or you can come see me, or we were good together. She will take you seriously. bad karma, end it well. This is good advice... I wish more people would be like that... ScottLivin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #34 June 21, 2005 Quote...Her best friend will do the trick if her Mom or Sister aren't receptive to the idea. I can personally vouch for the "best friend trick". It WORKS! After that, you won't have to do or say anything...she will handle all of the "communication" for you. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #35 June 21, 2005 Here is a website that my nephew runs that might help you outMay your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salsa_John 0 #36 June 21, 2005 I would be honest with her. Give her a couple of reasons, one being the distance but don't say it is anyone's fault. Definately do not burn any bridges. 2 years is a good amount of time to spend with someone. I dated a girl for about a year then she broke up with me. 15 years later, we are still great friends. We go to lunch and hang out with her kids. She is my best friend. "You did what?!?!" MUFF #3722, TDSM #72, Orfun #26, Nachos Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #37 June 21, 2005 QuoteIf she is still in Japan just don't call or write. She'll catch on after a week or two.That is the worst thing you could possibly do. How painful as she wonders wth is going on. Trust me, talk to her and end it if that's what you want. The fade away approach is for a coward and shows no respect for any connection you might have had. If you end it she will move on more quickly and have no hard feelings. If you let it go on without explanation she will hate you and be bitter and with good reason. Faders suck. If you end it clean then you can stay friends at least. Besides, what if you like her again someday? She might consider you again if you play fair now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tcnelson 1 #38 June 21, 2005 i just gotta say...this thread has for sure shown one of the general differences between men and women. tell her you came up positive for gonoherpesyphilaids."Don't talk to me like that assface...I don't work for you yet." - Fletch NBFT, Deseoso Rodriguez RB#1329 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #39 June 21, 2005 Your advice should come with the warning, "How not to treat a woman." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #40 June 21, 2005 Quote Here is a website that my nephew runs that might help you out Damn. That's cold. That's like something-a-woman-would-come-up-with cold. Just marry her. It'll give you a 56% shot at gettting out.OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tcnelson 1 #41 June 21, 2005 on second thought...that could backfire if word got out. "Don't talk to me like that assface...I don't work for you yet." - Fletch NBFT, Deseoso Rodriguez RB#1329 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #42 June 21, 2005 I know I won't ever forget it. Ew. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flifree 0 #43 June 21, 2005 be nice about it and you won't have any guilt. i recently cut a woman loose that ended up being a psycho. i did it right, but she still went looney on my ass. however, i don't feel bad b/c i was honest and did it softly. there is no good way to do it from her end, but that's life and relationships....fragile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #44 June 21, 2005 QuoteBest way out of it would be to fake your own death :D To Swedishcelt ~ Seriously, some of these are such ludicrous answers. I think that the men are half-joking! QuoteEither that or just tell her you don't want to date her anymore, its probably gonna be easier than you think. See? That is his real answer. I agree with the people who say to just be upfront with the other person about the break-up. "Fading away" or making up some insane story to get out of the relationship is completely ridiculous and lacking in class or dignity. There is no need to go to the trouble of lying when the truth is often much more effective. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plowdirt 0 #45 June 21, 2005 all these posts are fine and dandy, but who are you trying to kid. This chick is sitting around prolly getting guys to take her out left and right, and she's thinking the same thing. how am I gonna dump this freak. Be realistic 18 months of DATING how many other people were both of you dating. think about it. who's got the power these days, trust me she's using it. You end it like this: We never had a commited relationship, I mean we were just dating, right. And were so far away now ,I think it's time to move onn. We should date other people. ofcourse we'll remain friends. listen I gotta go my dates here to pick me up bubye.(jk) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tcnelson 1 #46 June 21, 2005 QuoteI think that the men are half-joking! "Don't talk to me like that assface...I don't work for you yet." - Fletch NBFT, Deseoso Rodriguez RB#1329 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #47 June 21, 2005 QuoteJust remember there are hordes of women waiting on the other side of the exit door Salivating wishing they could get in. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #48 June 21, 2005 <> With style and sensitivity and with a huge... huge portion of BACKBONE. (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
