windcatcher 0 #1 June 13, 2005 Ya know, a relationship where there is no: bickering badmouthing withholding nagging etc, etc? I can't imagine being in a relationship, with someone who was selfish and argued with me all the time. I really don't understand why people stay in relationships that aren't fun. I have never been in a relationship with a man, where we both didn't enjoy each other completely and we never argued or bickered or anything. I love my ex boyfriends to this day Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #2 June 13, 2005 are you single now ?? scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #3 June 13, 2005 sureI think Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MochaSkyChick 0 #4 June 13, 2005 QuoteI love my ex boyfriends to this day Why did you break-up? PMS #62 Zarza R[red Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
namgrunt 0 #5 June 13, 2005 yes with my wife married 656 years ,or seams like it she is also my best friend,and shoots good hint hint ..59 YEARS,OVERWEIGHT,BALDIND,X-GRUNT LAST MIL. JUMP VIET-NAM(QUAN-TRI) www.dzmemories.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BRYANGOESBOOM 0 #6 June 13, 2005 I have only had one GOOD relationship it has its ups and downs nothing is perfect Not only will you look better, feel better, and fuck better; you'll have significantly increased your life expectancy. --Douva Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #7 June 13, 2005 QuotesureI think ok, will PM you before someone says we need to get a room oh and teh sweat on the packjob thread is ... hottttttscissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skydivercop 0 #8 June 13, 2005 So why are you single then? My luck is so bad, I actually had a girlfriend break up with me because I agree to disagree. Well, at least that is what she said! AJ aka Sonic A-Hole Sonic Beef #93 "Thaaaaaat's Right!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #9 June 13, 2005 QuoteYa know, a relationship where there is no: bickering badmouthing withholding nagging etc, etc? I can't imagine being in a relationship, with someone who was selfish and argued with me all the time. I really don't understand why people stay in relationships that aren't fun. I have never been in a relationship with a man, where we both didn't enjoy each other completely and we never argued or bickered or anything. I love my ex boyfriends to this day Do one night stands count? "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #10 June 13, 2005 I was wondering the same thing, and then . . . I realized that I'm not happy in a relationship unless I'm challenged, to a certain degree. The ones where there was little to no turmoil are the ones that faded VERY QUICKLY - no passion was involved. I can't truly fall for someone unless they challenge me. And being the fiery little thing that I am, that's gonna lead to problems - fighting, bickering, etc. But I love them. Like a line I heard once on a movie: "He doesn't care enough to argue with you." If I back down from you, it either means a) you're right (not likely ) or b) you don't mean enough to me for me to argue with. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites windcatcher 0 #11 June 13, 2005 Why did we break up? Simply because we just weren't made for each other. I would never be able to date the type of man I couldn't see myself having a future with, that's why my relationships have always been great I suppose. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Darius11 12 #12 June 13, 2005 Will it depends there is a few reasons why some people have bad relationships. Some times you just get involved with someone who is an ass or has baggage, There are also people who see relationships as a natural progression dating, long-term relationship, moving in, marriage. That can also be a problem if you both don’t agree. Some people always need things to move and just can’t chill and enjoy the moment. The only relation ship I have ever been in that really sucked ass was with this chick that was not a decent human being(I am sure she feels the same about me). We were together for 2.5 years. I broke up with her 5 times. I was not mature enough to stand my ground and stay broken up at that time. I would always take her back. Every one changes and grows.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites windcatcher 0 #13 June 13, 2005 I'm single because I want to be Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Skydivercop 0 #14 June 13, 2005 QuoteI'm single because I want to be I'm single because I'm an a-hole! LOLAJ aka Sonic A-Hole Sonic Beef #93 "Thaaaaaat's Right!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites YahooLV 0 #15 June 13, 2005 hmmmm, sounds like my post in the ladies section.http://www.curtisglennphotography.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites windcatcher 0 #16 June 13, 2005 yes, that's where I got the idea for this post. I just don't understand how people can end their relationships on such a bad note, unless there is cheating involved or something. Hasn't anybody else broken up happy? There isn't anything wrong with knowing people aren't right for you, and instead staying happily single Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Salsa_John 0 #17 June 13, 2005 Yes, twice, Once in college for 2 years. Then we graduated and lost touch. and Once about 12 years ago. She met someone and broke things off. they did not work out. she is now married to another guy with two kids. We still hang out now and then. She is a best friend. "You did what?!?!" MUFF #3722, TDSM #72, Orfun #26, Nachos Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jumpchikk 0 #18 June 13, 2005 I've had good and bad relationships. The ones I had in high school were fun and packed with a lot of good times. My marriage ended badly, but there was no turning back on that one and don't ever want to see him again. I can maintain frienships with my exes... some I choose to, some I choose not to. I truly believe that your SO should be your best friend. It should be the first person you want to tell anything to. Your cuddle bunny, your gossip partner, your track mate, your go to guy/girl with any problem in the world... The person that knows you inside and out. I thought I had that a couple of times, but after awhile I just knew that it wasn't meant to be and that's okay because it just opens up the opportunity for the people that are right for each of us. Until that happens, I'm not going to sweat it. The most important thing I do in this life is not to waste my "in the meantime" moments... I will never have that time back again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #19 June 13, 2005 ***Like a line I heard once on a movie: "He doesn't care enough to argue with you." If I back down from you, it either means a) you're right (not likely ) or b) you don't mean enough to me for me to argue with. What about "c) your arguments are always so idiotic that I don't want to waste my time countering them"? That's my occasional rationale at work and in Speaker's Corner. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #11 June 13, 2005 Why did we break up? Simply because we just weren't made for each other. I would never be able to date the type of man I couldn't see myself having a future with, that's why my relationships have always been great I suppose. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #12 June 13, 2005 Will it depends there is a few reasons why some people have bad relationships. Some times you just get involved with someone who is an ass or has baggage, There are also people who see relationships as a natural progression dating, long-term relationship, moving in, marriage. That can also be a problem if you both don’t agree. Some people always need things to move and just can’t chill and enjoy the moment. The only relation ship I have ever been in that really sucked ass was with this chick that was not a decent human being(I am sure she feels the same about me). We were together for 2.5 years. I broke up with her 5 times. I was not mature enough to stand my ground and stay broken up at that time. I would always take her back. Every one changes and grows.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #13 June 13, 2005 I'm single because I want to be Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skydivercop 0 #14 June 13, 2005 QuoteI'm single because I want to be I'm single because I'm an a-hole! LOLAJ aka Sonic A-Hole Sonic Beef #93 "Thaaaaaat's Right!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YahooLV 0 #15 June 13, 2005 hmmmm, sounds like my post in the ladies section.http://www.curtisglennphotography.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #16 June 13, 2005 yes, that's where I got the idea for this post. I just don't understand how people can end their relationships on such a bad note, unless there is cheating involved or something. Hasn't anybody else broken up happy? There isn't anything wrong with knowing people aren't right for you, and instead staying happily single Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salsa_John 0 #17 June 13, 2005 Yes, twice, Once in college for 2 years. Then we graduated and lost touch. and Once about 12 years ago. She met someone and broke things off. they did not work out. she is now married to another guy with two kids. We still hang out now and then. She is a best friend. "You did what?!?!" MUFF #3722, TDSM #72, Orfun #26, Nachos Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #18 June 13, 2005 I've had good and bad relationships. The ones I had in high school were fun and packed with a lot of good times. My marriage ended badly, but there was no turning back on that one and don't ever want to see him again. I can maintain frienships with my exes... some I choose to, some I choose not to. I truly believe that your SO should be your best friend. It should be the first person you want to tell anything to. Your cuddle bunny, your gossip partner, your track mate, your go to guy/girl with any problem in the world... The person that knows you inside and out. I thought I had that a couple of times, but after awhile I just knew that it wasn't meant to be and that's okay because it just opens up the opportunity for the people that are right for each of us. Until that happens, I'm not going to sweat it. The most important thing I do in this life is not to waste my "in the meantime" moments... I will never have that time back again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #19 June 13, 2005 ***Like a line I heard once on a movie: "He doesn't care enough to argue with you." If I back down from you, it either means a) you're right (not likely ) or b) you don't mean enough to me for me to argue with. What about "c) your arguments are always so idiotic that I don't want to waste my time countering them"? That's my occasional rationale at work and in Speaker's Corner. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #20 June 13, 2005 That's a good one, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gjhdiver 0 #21 June 13, 2005 Quote I have never been in a relationship with a man, where we both didn't enjoy each other completely and we never argued or bickered or anything. I love my ex boyfriends to this day So why'd you break up then ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #22 June 13, 2005 QuoteI can't imagine being in a relationship, with someone who was selfish and argued with me all the time. Me either. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jeiber 0 #23 June 13, 2005 QuoteDo one night stands count? Ahhh, the 'deep and meaningful overnight relationship'! Hmmm, seems to fit the criteria: no bickering, badmouthing, withholding, nagging, etc., and it's always fun! Well, there goes any chance of me getting a date from any girl on here! JeffShhh... you hear that sound? That's the sound of nobody caring! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #24 June 13, 2005 QuoteQuoteDo one night stands count? Ahhh, the 'deep and meaningful overnight relationship'! Hmmm, seems to fit the criteria: no bickering, badmouthing, withholding, nagging, etc., and it's always fun! Well, there goes any chance of me getting a date from any girl on here! _________________________________ ... or, there's the 'week-end wedding'! A 12-pack and a motel room! Chuck Jeff Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #25 June 13, 2005 C'mon . . . for a whole weekend, you need at least a case! 6 beers per person, per day. Or if you're kinky, 4 beers per person, per day. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
