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Vallerina

How does sex get boring?

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i want to test your theory.... Lets first start by having sex 3 times a day, every day for 3 months. Then we'll take a break and evaluate.
Oh...did i mention that I was in the Sexual Olympics? I placed Gold in the 9-hour freestyle intercourse division !

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Hi Val, IMHO, not everybody goes thru that feeling, but some do. I think alot of people are right in saying that maybe it is time to move on, I mean geez, if your heart& soul aren't in it, What are you doing anyway? I also agree with maybe the two people involved need to re-open-up to each other and work things out. I have been married for 15 years. I have known my hubby for 17 years. We went thru so many stages of our relationship together. Now-a-days, I am the happiest I have ever been in our lives, and it is because we have grown together. It takes two to make things work together. If your friendship, and or anything that you share together is suffering neglect in some way, other elements suffer too. I guess that is the best way to say it. I hope that what I said helped.-Caress:)
I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being
right.

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I've heard people complain that their sex life is in a rut. I guess what I don't understand is how an orgasm can get boring. Even if you eat gourmet every night, well, it's still gourmet food! How can something good become routine? Obviously, I've never been married for 20 years. I can understand having sex less (especially if you have kids), but I can't see it becoming boring.

Please explain!



Resentments, I think. Little things, effectively uncommunicated, growing, festering, detracting from the good and loving parts of us. Over time, these things, I think, become obstacles to letting ourselves free to enjoy what once was shared.

Sigh. Yes, it's been a while. The memories are sweet, but it still been a while. :)
jen
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"O brave new world that has such people in it".

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