Tinkerbelle 5 #26 June 5, 2004 >Why couldn't you turn a whore into a housewife? They might be so sick of strange men having their way with them, they might be so thrilled to have just one guy to depend on who would treat them well that they could potentially be the most loyal, thankful, appreciative, faithful housewives you could imagine. While someone who had not had so much experience with variety my still be interested and fascinated by other men, and thus even more likely to cheat just to flirt with the unknown that the whore had already experienced and was sick of by then. TinkRehab is for quitters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SublimeBreeze 0 #27 June 5, 2004 QuoteI've been cheated on a few times in my day, and I'll tell you........it sucks. The act of cheating says a lot of things. It says your partner isn't enough for you. It says you've lost interest in them (or never had it). It says you have the ability to lie openly and repeatedly to the one you're with. It says that you are completely oblivious and insincere about any feelings you've shared with your SO. It says that you are selfish and arrogant to think that it's okay to do such a thing. People say actions speak louder than words. I'd rather have my girl come to me and tell me that I'm a piece of shit and I should never speak to her again than to have her cheat on me. Do I believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater"? Not necessarily, people can change, but one thing is for certain: You can't turn a whore into a housewife. Preach it Brutha! I have had my last two serious girlfriend cheat on me... back to back.. talk about mistrust.. I was starting to think it was something I did. I know it wasn't but it sure felt that way. Sean Sean In Thailand Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #28 June 5, 2004 Hi Vallerina Isn't their a long standing tradition in some countries for husbands to have both a wife and mistress? Not saying it's right, but if all parties know and agree to this long term relationship is it still considered cheating? I don't visit the womens forum (might get scared and feel like a voyeur) or speakers corner sos. R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tinkerbelle 5 #29 June 6, 2004 Since I am sure one of the cridics would be very interested to know, the banana slug is the school mascot of my college alma mater. They prevail and thrive up here in the dank, dark, redwook forest of the Santa Cruz Mountains where I live! TinkerbelleRehab is for quitters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #30 June 7, 2004 Quote Which bothered you more, the having sex with someone else or the lying about it? I dunno. I think it was more the fact that it was more than one guy, more than one occasion, (3 guys in 3 weeks) and she told me the night it would have been 3 years we were dating. But hey, everything happens for a reason. I was way better off out of that relationship, and look what I have now. It's a good feeling to have someone you know you can trust. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seekfun 0 #31 June 7, 2004 Quote You can't turn a whore into a housewife. Who wants a housewife anyway? Give me someone who's fun, interesting, playful, and happy. I'll iron my own damn clothes. TTFN, topher "...there is a there out there..." - Tom Robbins Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #32 June 7, 2004 QuoteQuote You can't turn a whore into a housewife. Who wants a housewife anyway? Give me someone who's fun, interesting, playful, and happy. I'll iron my own damn clothes. TTFN, topher hahahhahahha. if wrongway wanted a "housewife".... hahahahhahah... he certainly wouldn't be with the girl he's with now. ask him what color his "badger" shirt is now... the one that "used to be" white. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #33 June 7, 2004 Hahaha, yeah, I haven't seen it, but I heard it turned VERY pink after a horrible laundry accident. Funny how she always swore she was gonna get rid of that shirt somehow. BTW, no I don't want a houseife whatsoever, "You can't turn a whore into a housewife" is just a saying, dorks!! Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #34 June 7, 2004 I cheat all the time - The only way we can manage to launch a Phalanx without funneling it is cheating a grip with the point and OC - - Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kjarv 0 #35 June 7, 2004 If ya ain't cheatin' ya ain't tryin! -kjarv Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #37 April 6, 2005 What a weird bump!!!! I still cheat at "I Never."There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #38 April 6, 2005 Quote What a weird bump!!! It was COMPLETELY random I'm sure! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #40 April 6, 2005 QuoteQuote What a weird bump!!! It was COMPLETELY random I'm sure! hahaha.... for whatever reason, i just started thinking about this. rather than start a fresh post, i thought i would bump this one. there are so many insightful comments on this one already. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #41 April 6, 2005 I'm ALWAYS out of the loop! Wait...did I cheat on someone yesterday or something.... There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #42 April 6, 2005 QuoteWait...did I cheat on someone yesterday or something.... Yes.........and I'm crushed. You brazen hussey you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #43 April 6, 2005 After a long and drawn out bad period (for both involved), I cheated on my wife. Who was at fault for the situation we were in is neither here nor there (truth be told, I am not even sure she was faithful to me), at the end of the day I was still the one who was weak and made a choice. It truly ruined my life. I am just now in the process of getting it all back together (no, we are not back together) and trying to undo what little of the damage I can. After 2 years. And God only knows how long it will take for her to forgive me, if ever (yes, even though we are not together, her feelings still matter to me). NEVER, EVER again. Nothing is worth the way it makes you feel for betraying someone, no matter how bad things are between you. Pass whatever judgement you may, I am just being honest. Edit for spelling."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #44 April 6, 2005 I will never cheat on any man I am with. I could never do that him Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest #45 April 6, 2005 QuoteQuoteWait...did I cheat on someone yesterday or something.... Yes.........and I'm crushed. You brazen hussy you! hehehe mh ."The mouse does not know life until it is in the mouth of the cat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #46 April 6, 2005 Hey man, no judgement here, that's not my (or anyone's) job. Sounds like you reaped the consequences all on your own. We're all human, we're all weak one way or another. You learned, and that's the best thing that can come out of a mistake you can't take back... you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #47 April 6, 2005 People who cheat disgust me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #48 April 6, 2005 Ditto. I've never cheated, and I've never understood people that do. When I'm with someone, it's because I want to be, and I'd rather be with that person than anywhere else. When you start wanting someone other than your partner, it might be time to take a hint and re-evaluate your current relationship. I see no point whatsoever to cheating. If you want to be with someone else, do it, but end the other relationship first (unless you have an open relationship, which is different and plays by its own rules). You need to observe the boundaries that you've set within your relationship. To fail to do so shows a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrunkMonkey 0 #49 April 6, 2005 Would those who decry cheating count stupid High School shit/oversexed College lifestyle-type cheating also? People do mature... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #50 April 6, 2005 While I agree with you on every point below "Ditto", and would never ever cheat on my man, I don't agree with y'all's "People who cheat disgust me" sentiment. Everyone is imperfect. Everyone screws up. Everyone is weak in some way. To judge like that would be hypocritical IMHO, unless you never ever screw up or hurt someone in a selfish way. Also, unless you're in the relationship, you don't know exactly what happened. To say "I'd never..." is totally cool for you (and I agree), but everyone's got their own faults. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
