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lovelife22

To tell or not to tell?

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Hmm, if I were you, I would tell him the truth. A sexual experience should be enjoyable for both parties. How are you gonna ever enjoy an amazing, frequent sex life, if you can't trust each other and be open and honest?
IMHO you would be doing him a disservice by lying to him--a REAL man should get pleasure from giving you pleasure, and you should both be learning what each other likes and needs in order for that to happen;)


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I'd rather hear the truth.....and if you faked it, I'd ask you to never do it again. Personally, I'd rather not get the girl off and know that I didn't, than to not and think I did.

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I never understood this. :S

Lying about that is cheating yourself - did you have a good time? Chances are you didn't have the best time possible if you had to fake it - so why tell him you did? That makes him think everything was fantastic and the two of you just have to keep doing what you're doing.

A relationship can't grow/change/get-better without honest feedback. Unless of course you want to continue to have lousy sex B|

In my opinion lousy sex is worse than no sex. I would hate to leave a bedroom romp frustrated and unsatisfied, cause at the point I probably would have had more fun by myself :D

The only time I've ever done it was when I knew that the guy was not someone I'd sleep with again and didn't want to hurt his feelings :|

Jen
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"The moment of clouds and rain" should not be faked...

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Just like ladies have control of their muscles, men have control of theirs... if the guy is wearing a condom, there won't be any physical evidence, unless you're looking for it before he takes off the condom.
Mike
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I think I would notice. :|



That's what the guys all say, too!
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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