lovelife22 0 #1 March 25, 2005 Your SO asks if you have ever "faked an orgasm", do you tell him the truth or lie and say "NEVER"? Men, what would YOU rather hear? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
superman0710 0 #2 March 25, 2005 i'd rather hear a "hell no" besides, i can feel my girl contracting when she orgasms, so she can't lie Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #3 March 25, 2005 Whatever you do.........don't admit it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #4 March 25, 2005 Um.....no, bad idea!!!*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #5 March 25, 2005 QuoteMen, what would YOU rather hear? I just want to have this conversation with you one morning. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites TypicalFish 0 #6 March 25, 2005 Actually, the proper response is: "I sometimes had to until you came along"..."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #7 March 25, 2005 QuoteMen, what would YOU rather hear? The truth. Lie to me about stuff and I can't trust you - simple. My wife and I have a 100% honest relationship - it's not always pleasant, but I don't ever wonder if she's lying to me and visa versa. If you can lie about the little things then you'll lie about the big things IMO. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lovelife22 0 #8 March 25, 2005 QuoteActually, the proper response is: "I sometimes had to until you came along"... Ah, VERY clever! Thank you!! Now saying "yes, I have..." is that some sort of knock on the mans ego? I mean, we can fake it, and contract our muscles as if we ARE truly having an orgasm...(not that I am a "regular faker", this was a topic of discussion last night and wanted a male opinion) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #9 March 25, 2005 If you don't have happy moments, eventually you will get tired of it and it will end the relationship. It may not happen all the time, but it's gotta happen some of the time. It is better to tell the truth and provide a little coaching... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lovelife22 0 #10 March 25, 2005 QuoteIf you don't have happy moments, eventually you will get tired of it and it will end the relationship. It may not happen all the time, but it's gotta happen some of the time. It is better to tell the truth and provide a little coaching... I 100% AGREE!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkiD_PL8 0 #11 March 25, 2005 Yes, tell him. I will man up and speak from experience. The first girl I slept with I actually dated for quite awhile and we kinda learned together and she would tell me what she liked and didn't. It worked, I learned a lot. She put in her time perfecting it with me and ejoyed the fruits of her labor long after we broke up, so I suggest going that route. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #12 March 25, 2005 QuoteThe truth. Ian........you are a lucky guy though. I can't tell you how much bitching I have heard from other women about your wife's ease of having an orgasm. They are downright jealous I tell you. The serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DJL 235 #13 March 25, 2005 Quote ------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Men, what would YOU rather hear? ------------------------------------------------------------ The truth. Lie to me about stuff and I can't trust you - simple. My wife and I have a 100% honest relationship - it's not always pleasant, but I don't ever wonder if she's lying to me and visa versa. If you can lie about the little things then you'll lie about the big things IMO. Blues, Ian Uh, so if your wife fakes an orgasm "Oh, yes...yes...yes, I'm having an orgasm! You're so...OH!!!" ("O" face).... I'll let you finish the thought. Or does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "?"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Deuce 1 #14 March 25, 2005 QuoteI mean, we can fake it, and contract our muscles as if we ARE truly having an orgasm That's not faking. That's being a good lover. Just like a guy isn't "faking" when he doesn't just grab the headboard and charge home. Women can be on the freeway and just not find the off ramp. Guys know that. Helping us find the offramp is a generous thing. After we make every effort to get you off, or you decide you ain't going. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #15 March 25, 2005 QuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. I'll say it again...Lie about the little things, you'll lie about the bigger stuff too eventually. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #16 March 25, 2005 QuoteIan........you are a lucky guy though. Tell me about it I couldn't ask for more and every day I'm thankful we met. QuoteThe serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! There ya go.Performance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites masterrig 1 #17 March 25, 2005 I have but, never told! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkiD_PL8 0 #18 March 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. Blues, Ian Well said, and I fully agree. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flyangel2 2 #19 March 25, 2005 OMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby!May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skydivexxl 0 #20 March 25, 2005 You're slutty! Blog Clicky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #21 March 25, 2005 I'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobsled92 0 #22 March 25, 2005 I never told my wife that I faked it (can't believe I got away with it really) People don't want to hear that: They didn't satisfy you_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Deuce 1 #23 March 25, 2005 QuoteOMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby! Yes. You are a genius. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #24 March 25, 2005 At Sebastian, there was a lot of chicas running around. So, to differentiate, people were referrring to her as "Ian's Katie". I told her that and she said that it was great with her and that you'd been together for quite a while. It isn't just one thing that makes women happy, but it's easy to spot the happy ones. Rock on, bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #25 March 25, 2005 QuoteI'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? I fake it ever so often. "HEY...HEY... I said no teeth..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. 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TypicalFish 0 #6 March 25, 2005 Actually, the proper response is: "I sometimes had to until you came along"..."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ianmdrennan 2 #7 March 25, 2005 QuoteMen, what would YOU rather hear? The truth. Lie to me about stuff and I can't trust you - simple. My wife and I have a 100% honest relationship - it's not always pleasant, but I don't ever wonder if she's lying to me and visa versa. If you can lie about the little things then you'll lie about the big things IMO. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovelife22 0 #8 March 25, 2005 QuoteActually, the proper response is: "I sometimes had to until you came along"... Ah, VERY clever! Thank you!! Now saying "yes, I have..." is that some sort of knock on the mans ego? I mean, we can fake it, and contract our muscles as if we ARE truly having an orgasm...(not that I am a "regular faker", this was a topic of discussion last night and wanted a male opinion) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #9 March 25, 2005 If you don't have happy moments, eventually you will get tired of it and it will end the relationship. It may not happen all the time, but it's gotta happen some of the time. It is better to tell the truth and provide a little coaching... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lovelife22 0 #10 March 25, 2005 QuoteIf you don't have happy moments, eventually you will get tired of it and it will end the relationship. It may not happen all the time, but it's gotta happen some of the time. It is better to tell the truth and provide a little coaching... I 100% AGREE!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkiD_PL8 0 #11 March 25, 2005 Yes, tell him. I will man up and speak from experience. The first girl I slept with I actually dated for quite awhile and we kinda learned together and she would tell me what she liked and didn't. It worked, I learned a lot. She put in her time perfecting it with me and ejoyed the fruits of her labor long after we broke up, so I suggest going that route. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #12 March 25, 2005 QuoteThe truth. Ian........you are a lucky guy though. I can't tell you how much bitching I have heard from other women about your wife's ease of having an orgasm. They are downright jealous I tell you. The serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DJL 235 #13 March 25, 2005 Quote ------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Men, what would YOU rather hear? ------------------------------------------------------------ The truth. Lie to me about stuff and I can't trust you - simple. My wife and I have a 100% honest relationship - it's not always pleasant, but I don't ever wonder if she's lying to me and visa versa. If you can lie about the little things then you'll lie about the big things IMO. Blues, Ian Uh, so if your wife fakes an orgasm "Oh, yes...yes...yes, I'm having an orgasm! You're so...OH!!!" ("O" face).... I'll let you finish the thought. Or does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "?"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Deuce 1 #14 March 25, 2005 QuoteI mean, we can fake it, and contract our muscles as if we ARE truly having an orgasm That's not faking. That's being a good lover. Just like a guy isn't "faking" when he doesn't just grab the headboard and charge home. Women can be on the freeway and just not find the off ramp. Guys know that. Helping us find the offramp is a generous thing. After we make every effort to get you off, or you decide you ain't going. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #15 March 25, 2005 QuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. I'll say it again...Lie about the little things, you'll lie about the bigger stuff too eventually. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #16 March 25, 2005 QuoteIan........you are a lucky guy though. Tell me about it I couldn't ask for more and every day I'm thankful we met. QuoteThe serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! There ya go.Performance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites masterrig 1 #17 March 25, 2005 I have but, never told! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkiD_PL8 0 #18 March 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. Blues, Ian Well said, and I fully agree. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flyangel2 2 #19 March 25, 2005 OMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby!May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skydivexxl 0 #20 March 25, 2005 You're slutty! Blog Clicky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #21 March 25, 2005 I'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobsled92 0 #22 March 25, 2005 I never told my wife that I faked it (can't believe I got away with it really) People don't want to hear that: They didn't satisfy you_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Deuce 1 #23 March 25, 2005 QuoteOMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby! Yes. You are a genius. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #24 March 25, 2005 At Sebastian, there was a lot of chicas running around. So, to differentiate, people were referrring to her as "Ian's Katie". I told her that and she said that it was great with her and that you'd been together for quite a while. It isn't just one thing that makes women happy, but it's easy to spot the happy ones. Rock on, bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #25 March 25, 2005 QuoteI'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? I fake it ever so often. "HEY...HEY... I said no teeth..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
lovelife22 0 #10 March 25, 2005 QuoteIf you don't have happy moments, eventually you will get tired of it and it will end the relationship. It may not happen all the time, but it's gotta happen some of the time. It is better to tell the truth and provide a little coaching... I 100% AGREE!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkiD_PL8 0 #11 March 25, 2005 Yes, tell him. I will man up and speak from experience. The first girl I slept with I actually dated for quite awhile and we kinda learned together and she would tell me what she liked and didn't. It worked, I learned a lot. She put in her time perfecting it with me and ejoyed the fruits of her labor long after we broke up, so I suggest going that route. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #12 March 25, 2005 QuoteThe truth. Ian........you are a lucky guy though. I can't tell you how much bitching I have heard from other women about your wife's ease of having an orgasm. They are downright jealous I tell you. The serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #13 March 25, 2005 Quote ------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Men, what would YOU rather hear? ------------------------------------------------------------ The truth. Lie to me about stuff and I can't trust you - simple. My wife and I have a 100% honest relationship - it's not always pleasant, but I don't ever wonder if she's lying to me and visa versa. If you can lie about the little things then you'll lie about the big things IMO. Blues, Ian Uh, so if your wife fakes an orgasm "Oh, yes...yes...yes, I'm having an orgasm! You're so...OH!!!" ("O" face).... I'll let you finish the thought. Or does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "?"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #14 March 25, 2005 QuoteI mean, we can fake it, and contract our muscles as if we ARE truly having an orgasm That's not faking. That's being a good lover. Just like a guy isn't "faking" when he doesn't just grab the headboard and charge home. Women can be on the freeway and just not find the off ramp. Guys know that. Helping us find the offramp is a generous thing. After we make every effort to get you off, or you decide you ain't going. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ianmdrennan 2 #15 March 25, 2005 QuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. I'll say it again...Lie about the little things, you'll lie about the bigger stuff too eventually. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ianmdrennan 2 #16 March 25, 2005 QuoteIan........you are a lucky guy though. Tell me about it I couldn't ask for more and every day I'm thankful we met. QuoteThe serious answer to your problem.........Don't fake it.......if he isn't doing something right......TELL HIM. There is no manual to a woman's body and every one is differen't. Some are pretty easy for me.......Other's.....I have been kinda lost. So help the guy out! There ya go.Performance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #17 March 25, 2005 I have but, never told! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkiD_PL8 0 #18 March 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteOr does she say, "Honey, I'm not getting it this time, just letting you know - so that we can maintain an honest relationship - that I'm just putting on an act, 'Oh, yes...yes!!!' "? If she's not into it - she tells me. We stop and do it another night. It doesnt' happen often but it has happened. Live your life as you will, but I'll take brutal honesty every single time. Believe it or not there's a liberating freedom in it all and you'll never get caught in a web. Blues, Ian Well said, and I fully agree. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #19 March 25, 2005 OMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby!May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivexxl 0 #20 March 25, 2005 You're slutty! Blog Clicky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #21 March 25, 2005 I'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #22 March 25, 2005 I never told my wife that I faked it (can't believe I got away with it really) People don't want to hear that: They didn't satisfy you_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #23 March 25, 2005 QuoteOMG that is the best reply. Take her for a ride baby! Yes. You are a genius. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #24 March 25, 2005 At Sebastian, there was a lot of chicas running around. So, to differentiate, people were referrring to her as "Ian's Katie". I told her that and she said that it was great with her and that you'd been together for quite a while. It isn't just one thing that makes women happy, but it's easy to spot the happy ones. Rock on, bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #25 March 25, 2005 QuoteI'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? I fake it ever so often. "HEY...HEY... I said no teeth..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
happythoughts 0 #24 March 25, 2005 At Sebastian, there was a lot of chicas running around. So, to differentiate, people were referrring to her as "Ian's Katie". I told her that and she said that it was great with her and that you'd been together for quite a while. It isn't just one thing that makes women happy, but it's easy to spot the happy ones. Rock on, bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #25 March 25, 2005 QuoteI'd tell the truth. I don't fake it. Why reward a job NOT well done? I fake it ever so often. "HEY...HEY... I said no teeth..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
