girlygirl 0 #1 March 15, 2005 Serious too. What quality do you want to develop in your personality? For instance, I know I push people away when they get close to me. It's unfair but it cuts risk and fear of being stifled and boredom. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #2 March 15, 2005 QuoteIt's unfair but it cuts risk and fear of being stifled and boredom. Fear of boredom by having people close? How so? "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #3 March 15, 2005 QuoteWhat quality do you want to develop in your personality? Hmmm...........I need to stop being so damn shy. Or.....let me rephrase......I need to find a happy medium. I'm either 100% obnoxious or too quiet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #4 March 15, 2005 QuoteI know I push people away when they get close to me. Have we met? That happens a lot to me. "Hey! Quit breathing on my neck, you're making my hair frizz!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #5 March 15, 2005 Don't analyze her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #6 March 15, 2005 QuoteDon't analyze her. I'm only curious. Mostly because I've heard this before. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #7 March 15, 2005 what would you like to work on Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #8 March 15, 2005 I'm trying to refine my flirting skills.That should cover a lot of discrepancies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #9 March 15, 2005 I'm going to quit being so nice to people, yeah that means YOU!! "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #10 March 15, 2005 LOL- refine? I wouldn't worry if I was you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #11 March 15, 2005 Well my skills haven't worked with you yet ...or have they ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #12 March 15, 2005 Quote Well my skills haven't worked with you yet ...or have they ? If she isn't calling the cops you aren't trying hard enough. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #13 March 15, 2005 QuoteQuote Well my skills haven't worked with you yet ...or have they ? If she isn't calling the cops you aren't trying hard enough. It's not that! Maybe I am just a little burnt out. They have worked as far as me wanting to just make a lot of good friends and friends with you. I think what I will work on is making me happy with my job and current living situation and just focus on that and my job for awhile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #14 March 15, 2005 That's it .i'm calling the cops... She won't leave me alone. Edit : Sorry about the high jack, Leaving this thread in 1 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #15 March 15, 2005 Bad joke cocheese. Very bad joke. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #16 March 15, 2005 I'm working on calming my Celtic blood and finding moderation to cultivate stronger friendshipships. (Ifeel you have to BE a friend to have a friend this builds trust)_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #17 March 15, 2005 QuoteI'm working on calming my Celtic blood and finding moderation to cultivate stronger friendshipships. (Ifeel you have to BE a friend to have a friend this builds trust) But, I have found, more often than not, you CAN be a great, true friend, and still not have many friends. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #18 March 15, 2005 QuoteQuoteI'm working on calming my Celtic blood and finding moderation to cultivate stronger friendshipships. (Ifeel you have to BE a friend to have a friend this builds trust) But, I have found, more often than not, you CAN be a great, true friend, and still not have many friends. QUALITY of friends is more important than "quanity"._______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lightningbugirl 0 #19 March 15, 2005 Quality is indeed truly hard to find. People just say one thing and mean another. ALL THE TIME!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #20 March 15, 2005 Quoteyou CAN be a great, true friend, and still not have many friends. I have MANY aquaintences.........only a few friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #21 March 15, 2005 Well, I don't want to over analyze it but find truth in people a rare thing. Why take the risk even. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #22 March 15, 2005 QuoteI think what I will work on is making me happy with my job and current living situation and just focus on that and my job for awhile. Ditto. Right now, it's all about ME damnit! I'm working hard on my career, getting back into really good shape, learning a new language, and just being the best person I can. This weekend I let it all go and got shit faced! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #23 March 15, 2005 Quotefind truth in people a rare thing. I agree with you QuoteWhy take the risk even. I don't agree with your statement. I, myself, will take my chance at getting hurt. The alternative (missing on what could be a life changing relationship) is worth the risk. I'll take it anyday. But it's just my opinion... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #24 March 15, 2005 I wouldn't say it is all about me, though there wouldn't be anything wrong with that. I do agree with the above girl and think true friends are hard to find. They are rare. People are generally just fakes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #25 March 15, 2005 QuoteQuoteyou CAN be a great, true friend, and still not have many friends. I have MANY aquaintences.........only a few friends. I'm everyone's (ok, almost) friend. I have precious few friends though. I can count those I consider my closest friends on one hand, and good friends in general on two. My quality is quite high. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
