sunshine 2 #76 February 9, 2005 Quotesmartass Why yes i am!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #77 February 9, 2005 QuoteWomen don't have guy friends, they have guys who want to get in their pants. That can't be true. I have lots of guy friends that don't want in my pants. I'd have to be seriously vain to think they did. My friends rock though. Did I mention that? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #78 February 9, 2005 Quoteattraction means an animalistic desire to fuck like bunnies in heat. I always thought it was more like horny baboons. My bad. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #79 February 9, 2005 QuoteQuoteWomen don't have guy friends, they have guys who want to get in their pants. That can't be true. I have lots of guy friends that don't want in my pants. I'd have to be seriously vain to think they did. My friends rock though. Did I mention that? They may not WANT to ( in the sense that they'd be pushing for it ), but if you offered, I'd be willing to bet they wouldn't refuse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #80 February 9, 2005 QuoteIf a woman, even if they aren't a beauty queen said... "Hey want to go fuck?" I doubt there's many men who would say no. well, yeah, you're probably right. There aren't a whole lot of men that would say no. That's the kind of man I want; I don't need another jacka** guy who just wants to use me. The guy friends I do have now, actually respect me and genuinely care for me; irreplaceable kind of guys, really. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerd137 0 #81 February 10, 2005 I am THE expert on this subject! I've always had many women friends and have come across every possible scenario of this situation. (For reference, I'm a straight man.) Right now, even, I have a close friend I've known for several years and I've always been slightly attracted to her, and I think the feeling's mutual, but we've never talked about it or done anything "funky." We're actually going out drinking Friday night which is something we haven't done before...I won't be a bit surprised if I wake up in her bed Saturday morning! On the other hand, I've had friends I was attracted to but felt no urges to be intimate with, friends I just wasn't attracted to, friends who I was aching to be intimate with (physically, emotionally, or both), platonic friends with privileges....you name it, I've been there. Sadly, a couple of friends were lost due to attraction. Either they couldn't handle it when I said "No go" or flipped the fuck out when I confessed my attraction. You're playing with fire and have to be prepared to get burned! I sorta went off on my own tanget. Sorry! To answer your question: sometimes I look for more, sometimes I don't. Depends on the strength of the feelings and the relationship itself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #82 February 10, 2005 Ladder Theoryit's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #83 February 10, 2005 QuoteLadder Theory LOL BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA oh my Gut - it hurts - make it stop - Bwahahahahahahaaha Oh mannnn Ha - Ha Bwaahahahahahaha lol whew that was some funny shit.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerd137 0 #84 February 10, 2005 QuoteIf a woman, even if they aren't a beauty queen said... "Hey want to go fuck?" I doubt there's many men who would say no. Why is that such a bad thing? It doesn't mean the friendship is illegitimate. Now I realize I'm slightly on the liberal side of the sexual morality question, but I look at it as a fun activity that two people can enjoy together. Like, oh, I dunno, skydiving, er something. "Hey...wanna skydive together?" "Sure! That'd be swell!" -OR- "Hey...wanna have sex?" "Sure! That'd be swell!" Okay, so it's a little different, but that's still generally how I see it. (Of course, I'm way more discriminating about who'll I'll sleep with versus skydive with. ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #85 February 10, 2005 When did I say it was a bad thing? Just stating the obvious. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerd137 0 #86 February 10, 2005 QuoteWhen did I say it was a bad thing? Just stating the obvious. Oh. (Wait...are you sure you didn't mean to imply it was a bad thing? Or, at least, that you wished it wasn't the case?) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #87 February 10, 2005 QuoteI tend to befriend people if I'm attracted to them as a means of trying to make them interested in me. So THAT'S why you keep calling me, asking me if I want to hang out, etc. Oh, wait... Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
