turtlespeed 219 #26 December 28, 2004 QuoteQuoteAnd that's why you're one of the few upstanding people on these forums. I've met a ton of the men from dz.com. The vast majority of them are decent and I'm glad to call them my friends. Who have you actually met in person? The ones who are suspicious are the ones who hide personal attacks in carefully worded and carefully placed posts in the forums, the ones who stalk other members and the ones who spread rumors through pm's. Dang, just when I thought I was getting respectable. *Sigh* guess I'll have to work on that then.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #27 December 29, 2004 QuoteQuoteHe forgot to mention his wife is a divorce attorney... We both are. Seriously. Seeing our clients lets us better nip issues before they become problems. A married couple doing divorce law. Interesting, ain't it? Sounds like something the networks might want to get ahold of? Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #28 December 29, 2004 Quotethe ones who stalk other members Wait a minute... that's not allowed? I suppose I'm back to one hobby again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhreeZone 20 #29 December 29, 2004 Don't respect her... shes a beer guzzling teenager! Andrea, if I hit FL again we need to go drinking again, this time I'll drink more then 1 Yesterday is history And tomorrow is a mystery Parachutemanuals.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #30 December 29, 2004 Quotegood thing I only lived in Raleigh.. Well....that club was about half way to Raleigh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BoostedXT 0 #31 December 29, 2004 I am right with you there. When I say those wedding vows I mean every last word. Nothing on the lines of swinging would even cross my mind. I look forward to having 1 lady in my life.For long as you live and high you fly and smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry and all that you touch and all that you see is all your life will ever be. Pedro Offers you his Protection. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #32 December 29, 2004 Quoteall that you see is all your life will ever be. Wow.........that could either be REALLY good or REALLY REALLY bad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tunaplanet 0 #33 December 29, 2004 QuoteWow.........that could either be REALLY good or REALLY REALLY bad. LOL, no kidding. Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vstar2001 0 #34 December 29, 2004 we just reread our vows.... and no where does it say that enjoying sex for the fun of it is forbidden. We are faithful to each other, love and charish each other, till death do us part. We just find at times a good threesome/foursome is fun. Where is the cheating when we both are always involved??? No one would say we cheat on each other if we when to an amusement park with another friend would they??? thats just another form of fun.I just am................ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #35 December 29, 2004 QuoteDon't respect her... shes a beer guzzling teenager! Andrea, if I hit FL again we need to go drinking again, this time I'll drink more then 1 LMAO....I don't know, Phree. Can you handle 3 beers in one night? I don't want you to hurt yourself or anything! She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanduh 0 #36 December 29, 2004 I am not saying it is wrong. If it is mutual, then more power to the two of you!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 219 #37 December 29, 2004 QuoteI am not saying it is wrong. If it is mutual, then more power to the two of you!! Go see the movie Chasing Amy . . . nuff said.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Amanduh 0 #38 December 29, 2004 Oh I've seen it! Lesbians are cool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 219 #39 December 29, 2004 QuoteOh I've seen it! Lesbians are cool! LOL - I was speaking of the speech that is given to ben when he decides he should have sex with the both of them.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PhillyKev 0 #40 December 29, 2004 Are you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 219 #41 December 29, 2004 QuoteAre you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* No- They are definately HOT!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #42 December 29, 2004 QuoteIf two people agree and can both take the pressure that it can put on a relationship So, recognizing that this puts pressure on a relationship, you'd still say go for it. There are very few people who can handle that pressure, and the one way they figure out that they cannot is when they realize that they cannot handle it AFTER it's been done. Let's think of some pressures that some married couples may agree they can handle: 1) Excessive debt; 2) Living with mom and dad; 3) Alcohol and drug abuse; 4) Excessive work travel for one partner; 5) Having sex partners on the side; 6) Unemployment; 7) Mental disease; 8) Physical or mental abuse. Turns out that all of my clients fall into these categories. They could all handle the pressures - for a while. Sure, decide you can accept the added pressures and add some more. Sorry, sex isn't worth it... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pleifer 0 #43 December 29, 2004 QuoteQuoteHe forgot to mention his wife is a divorce attorney... We both are. Seriously. Seeing our clients lets us better nip issues before they become problems. A married couple doing divorce law. Interesting, ain't it? What I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites vstar2001 0 #44 December 29, 2004 other pressures you forgot about forgetting to have fun jumping out of a plane and knowing you have kids (what if something goes wrong) global warming the war in iraq the mortgage payment/rent payment the list goes on and on pressure is only a state of mind, and your preoccupation with it..... for some pressure makes them shine, for others they shrivel up and wither....married or notI just am................ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flyhi 24 #45 December 29, 2004 I would, except for all those Thank You notes. Who needs that pressure?Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Amanduh 0 #46 December 29, 2004 Helloooo Hellloooo..Why not scroll up and read the other posts I made? Just an idea.... (Hint: Something along the lines of not opening an envelope....) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WFFC 1 #47 December 29, 2004 QuoteWhat I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. John Grey wrote Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus shortly after divorcing his ex-wife (whose name escapes me) also an author of self help books.----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #48 December 29, 2004 I'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #49 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. I highly doubt that swinging constitutes the majority of your market. I think you'd find if people just bothered to communicate, respect one another and take responsibility for their actions that the divorce numbers would be lower. The reality is that most people IMO are incapable of this. Honesty in a variety of forms (including inward reflection) eludes them and hence there will always be this kind of divorce rate. After all, it's easier to quit than try and work through it or talk about things as they're developing. Off topic, I know, but it was worth commenting on. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ChasingBlueSky 0 #50 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. 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turtlespeed 219 #37 December 29, 2004 QuoteI am not saying it is wrong. If it is mutual, then more power to the two of you!! Go see the movie Chasing Amy . . . nuff said.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanduh 0 #38 December 29, 2004 Oh I've seen it! Lesbians are cool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 219 #39 December 29, 2004 QuoteOh I've seen it! Lesbians are cool! LOL - I was speaking of the speech that is given to ben when he decides he should have sex with the both of them.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PhillyKev 0 #40 December 29, 2004 Are you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 219 #41 December 29, 2004 QuoteAre you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* No- They are definately HOT!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #42 December 29, 2004 QuoteIf two people agree and can both take the pressure that it can put on a relationship So, recognizing that this puts pressure on a relationship, you'd still say go for it. There are very few people who can handle that pressure, and the one way they figure out that they cannot is when they realize that they cannot handle it AFTER it's been done. Let's think of some pressures that some married couples may agree they can handle: 1) Excessive debt; 2) Living with mom and dad; 3) Alcohol and drug abuse; 4) Excessive work travel for one partner; 5) Having sex partners on the side; 6) Unemployment; 7) Mental disease; 8) Physical or mental abuse. Turns out that all of my clients fall into these categories. They could all handle the pressures - for a while. Sure, decide you can accept the added pressures and add some more. Sorry, sex isn't worth it... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pleifer 0 #43 December 29, 2004 QuoteQuoteHe forgot to mention his wife is a divorce attorney... We both are. Seriously. Seeing our clients lets us better nip issues before they become problems. A married couple doing divorce law. Interesting, ain't it? What I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites vstar2001 0 #44 December 29, 2004 other pressures you forgot about forgetting to have fun jumping out of a plane and knowing you have kids (what if something goes wrong) global warming the war in iraq the mortgage payment/rent payment the list goes on and on pressure is only a state of mind, and your preoccupation with it..... for some pressure makes them shine, for others they shrivel up and wither....married or notI just am................ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flyhi 24 #45 December 29, 2004 I would, except for all those Thank You notes. Who needs that pressure?Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Amanduh 0 #46 December 29, 2004 Helloooo Hellloooo..Why not scroll up and read the other posts I made? Just an idea.... (Hint: Something along the lines of not opening an envelope....) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WFFC 1 #47 December 29, 2004 QuoteWhat I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. John Grey wrote Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus shortly after divorcing his ex-wife (whose name escapes me) also an author of self help books.----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #48 December 29, 2004 I'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ianmdrennan 2 #49 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. I highly doubt that swinging constitutes the majority of your market. I think you'd find if people just bothered to communicate, respect one another and take responsibility for their actions that the divorce numbers would be lower. The reality is that most people IMO are incapable of this. Honesty in a variety of forms (including inward reflection) eludes them and hence there will always be this kind of divorce rate. After all, it's easier to quit than try and work through it or talk about things as they're developing. Off topic, I know, but it was worth commenting on. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ChasingBlueSky 0 #50 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. With a 50% divorce rate for first time marriages and a 75% failure rate for second marriages I think you will be in business for a while._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
turtlespeed 219 #39 December 29, 2004 QuoteOh I've seen it! Lesbians are cool! LOL - I was speaking of the speech that is given to ben when he decides he should have sex with the both of them.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #40 December 29, 2004 Are you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 219 #41 December 29, 2004 QuoteAre you saying lesbians AREN'T cool? *smack* No- They are definately HOT!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #42 December 29, 2004 QuoteIf two people agree and can both take the pressure that it can put on a relationship So, recognizing that this puts pressure on a relationship, you'd still say go for it. There are very few people who can handle that pressure, and the one way they figure out that they cannot is when they realize that they cannot handle it AFTER it's been done. Let's think of some pressures that some married couples may agree they can handle: 1) Excessive debt; 2) Living with mom and dad; 3) Alcohol and drug abuse; 4) Excessive work travel for one partner; 5) Having sex partners on the side; 6) Unemployment; 7) Mental disease; 8) Physical or mental abuse. Turns out that all of my clients fall into these categories. They could all handle the pressures - for a while. Sure, decide you can accept the added pressures and add some more. Sorry, sex isn't worth it... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #43 December 29, 2004 QuoteQuoteHe forgot to mention his wife is a divorce attorney... We both are. Seriously. Seeing our clients lets us better nip issues before they become problems. A married couple doing divorce law. Interesting, ain't it? What I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vstar2001 0 #44 December 29, 2004 other pressures you forgot about forgetting to have fun jumping out of a plane and knowing you have kids (what if something goes wrong) global warming the war in iraq the mortgage payment/rent payment the list goes on and on pressure is only a state of mind, and your preoccupation with it..... for some pressure makes them shine, for others they shrivel up and wither....married or notI just am................ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyhi 24 #45 December 29, 2004 I would, except for all those Thank You notes. Who needs that pressure?Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanduh 0 #46 December 29, 2004 Helloooo Hellloooo..Why not scroll up and read the other posts I made? Just an idea.... (Hint: Something along the lines of not opening an envelope....) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WFFC 1 #47 December 29, 2004 QuoteWhat I find really amusing is how many marriage counselors that are divorced. John Grey wrote Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus shortly after divorcing his ex-wife (whose name escapes me) also an author of self help books.----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #48 December 29, 2004 I'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ianmdrennan 2 #49 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. I highly doubt that swinging constitutes the majority of your market. I think you'd find if people just bothered to communicate, respect one another and take responsibility for their actions that the divorce numbers would be lower. The reality is that most people IMO are incapable of this. Honesty in a variety of forms (including inward reflection) eludes them and hence there will always be this kind of divorce rate. After all, it's easier to quit than try and work through it or talk about things as they're developing. Off topic, I know, but it was worth commenting on. Blues, IanPerformance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #50 December 29, 2004 QuoteI'm looking up, and seeing it. It's just that I deal with this stuff every day at work, and would gladly see the divorce market dry up. With a 50% divorce rate for first time marriages and a 75% failure rate for second marriages I think you will be in business for a while._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
