Zenister 0 #26 December 9, 2004 QuotePersonally, I just buy gifts that I think are cool and that they'll like. If it's $200 or $20, it doesn't really matter. and that is the way to go IMO... anything else becomes a 'measuring game' like the friend you just mentioned....____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #27 December 9, 2004 QuoteI'd say $100-200. I generally go over that but I think that is a good price range. It of course depends on how much you actually like the person and you don't want to bankrupt yourself as well. You know.. I've seen people a lot happier with a 10 dollar gift that meant something, that a 200 dollar gift that was just a gift to "show off" that you're willing to spend that much money on someone. Make the gift have a meaning, it will be much more appreciated than an expensive gift. Just my 2cts (wow.. that was cheap eh? ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
craichead 0 #28 December 9, 2004 QuoteI think this year I'm going to buy my wife a new iron.... I'm sure she'll be thrilled! Yes, maybe it won't dislocate my shoulder like the cast iron skillet did when I whack you upside the head. _Pm__ "Scared of love, love and aeroplanes...falling out, I said takes no brains." -- Andy Partridge (XTC) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cajundude 0 #29 December 9, 2004 QuoteNo kidding...I typically spend that much on a first date. Guess I need to find easier women, like GFD I agree and do this as well. Maybe this is the reason I haven't finished my friggin' AFF classes. Hmmmm.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #30 December 9, 2004 QuoteYes, maybe it won't dislocate my shoulder like the cast iron skillet did when I whack you upside the head. Andy, if you really care about her and her well being, then maybe a tazer would be best.Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #31 December 9, 2004 QuoteI think this year I'm going to buy my wife a new iron.... I'm sure she'll be thrilled! _Am I'd suggest an investment in a casket, for youTunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #32 December 9, 2004 I spend way to much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #33 December 9, 2004 Money is so stupid. I'm giving WrongWay coal for Christmas... he's been a very very bad boy. No, in all seriousness... like others have said, putting a price tag on things takes away the specialness of the whole thing. Is "specialness" a word?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #34 December 9, 2004 Morgan and I are sticking to about $100 apeice. Mainly because we don't have a lot of money...if I had the money I'd definately spend a LOT more.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #35 December 9, 2004 This one time, all i wanted was a pink winter hat with a big pom pom on it. I still wear it all the time cause i love it. One of the bestest christmas gifts ever!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #36 December 10, 2004 It's the meaning of the gift, not the monetary value that counts. Unless you're buying for me, then money is no object Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #37 December 10, 2004 Quotemaybe a 'nice' video afterwards Now why was 'nice' in quotations? Things that make you go "Hmmmmmm....."---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IanHarrop 42 #38 December 10, 2004 QuoteQuotemaybe a 'nice' video afterwards Now why was 'nice' in quotations? Things that make you go "Hmmmmmm....." Makes one imagine that ladyskydiver is thinking of a camera and a tripod and bear rug in front of a fireplace.... "Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops, that's where you'll find me" Dorothy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
3pinhead 0 #39 December 10, 2004 I agree with girlfalldown: A card, a kiss and some quality time...maybe a nice dinner out...that should be enough. It's not about the money, it's the thought (cliche, I know - but true). If that isn't good enough for him, you might want to think about why you're with him in the first place. Then again, look where it got me... _________________________________________ "Learn to be silent. Let your quiet mind listen and absorb." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NightJumper 0 #40 December 10, 2004 I don't think it really matters about the price rather than it is something that comes from the heart. That special something that catches your eye, that when you see it you know that it is the right thing for them. You know, like that black H2 that you want to get me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #41 December 10, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuotemaybe a 'nice' video afterwards Now why was 'nice' in quotations? Things that make you go "Hmmmmmm....." Makes one imagine that ladyskydiver is thinking of a camera and a tripod and bear rug in front of a fireplace.... Damn, hon...how'd you know? Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #42 December 10, 2004 QuoteQuotemaybe a 'nice' video afterwards Now why was 'nice' in quotations? Things that make you go "Hmmmmmm....." bwahahahaha Wouldn't you like to know? Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyingferret 0 #43 December 10, 2004 Pretty good point. My budget limits me...otherwise it would probalby be new gear or something. But despite being a cliche, it really is the thought that counts. And if you think about it, it will show.-- All the flaming and trolls of wreck dot with a pretty GUI. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoPush 0 #44 December 10, 2004 Last year I spent $800+ on Pearls and the relationship fizzled......damn that's a lot of jump tickets was the first thing that went through my head when we split. This year I'm going with a inexpensive getaway for the new girl friend for some one on one time. Plan a three day weekend with some cool things to do you planned your self. If you’re a guy you will get credit for the effort. Unfortunately Skymama, girls are great at planning getaways and rarely get the credit they deserve. Your safer going sentimental and inexpensive for the first Christmas. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #45 December 10, 2004 QuoteLast year I spent $800+ on Pearls and the relationship fizzled......damn that's a lot of jump tickets was the first thing that went through my head when we split. Yup, did that once before too, only it was diamond earrings I won't say how much i spent cause she posts here too. But i went for the more casual approach, things i know she wants/needs. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaGimp 0 #46 December 10, 2004 QuoteI've been having this discussion with a few friends and the answers are all over the board on what people usually spend on their SO at holiday time. This question is about people in a new committed relationship, not people who have been together for years. ok havent looked at this thread yet but gona offer my input...Andrea, you should know this by now, but its not the ammount that you spend on the gift, its the feeling behiend it. Im giving my family members framed photos that i have taken and have special meaning for christmas. Didnt cost me a whole bunch, but the meaning behiend it is what matters. I have been told by a girl i was once engaged to, the best gift she ever recieved, was on her birthday (a friday) her doorbell rang at 10pm, when she opend the door there i stood in my BDU's because i left work at lunch and started driving the 10 hours to get to OH to make it on her b-day. didnt even ave time to pick up any flowers, but it didnt matter, just that i was there. See what i mean, dont sweat over money, just get him what im sure you know he wants.....hes a guy, im sure hes droping hints."Professor of Pimpology"~~~Bolas Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unformed 0 #47 December 10, 2004 The price of the gift doesn't matter. Actually, I think a very expensive gift (strictly for the purpose of being expensive) could make things uncomfortable, because the SO would kind of think he/she has to do the same. Put feeling behind it. I would have no problem paying $200 to give someone a tandem; I would think twice about spending $80 on jewelry. They will remember the tandem for the rest of their life; the jewelry isn't going to mean much. If you've been together for a little while, a good romantic night out would be enough.This ad space for sale. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #48 December 10, 2004 I've bought some really nice, fairly expensive gifts for my soon-to-be-ex. Even though our relationship is kaput, I bought them for him because I wanted to at the time. I don't see the money as wasted because the gifts weren't investments in our future. They were given without the condition of what would come. I like thinking of and giving a person I care about the perfect gift....something meaningful that is from the heart...not intended to impress but to show thought and consideration. A gift I give is given based on today. linz Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoPush 0 #49 December 10, 2004 Great point Lindsey.......She needed some nice dress up jewelry and that was the real reason for the gift. When you give a gift....you give a gift! Couldn't help it though - I use jump tickets to value everything Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #50 December 10, 2004 yeah....Im with ya'. Just trying to sound altruistic or something....lol linz-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
