wildblue 7 #1 December 9, 2004 It’s time to stop beating yourself up and move on – she’s just an uppity bitch. Maybe your heart’s been broken because the woman you loved dumped you, or maybe you’re in a painful, unrewarding relationship right now – she’s probably just an uppity bitch and you don’t deserve that. When you don’t call when you’re supposed to, do you get your head ripped off? Are you expected to stop at a pay phone and pay $4.00 for a 30 second call if your cell phone really isn’t working? If you get caught in a meeting at work, you should excuse yourself? Maybe you should have set an alarm so you didn’t lose track of time. If she wasn’t such an uppity bitch, she might actually be concerned and she could call you to make sure everything was ok. Guys, did she get pissed off when you went out and got trashed with the guys? It’s not your fault she can’t comprehend the fact that you want to go blow off some steam sometimes. And hey, it’s ok when she gets shit-faced with her friends… oh, but she’s drinking wine so it’s ok. What an uppity bitch. Getting bent out of shape when you don’t share all of your feelings is a sure sign of an uppity bitch. She expects you to have a handle on and know how to express all of your emotions. She can, because she’s better than everyone else. You don’t need her, move on! I understand it can be intimidating to pursue a female you’re interested in. You might be shy, have a slight fear of rejection, or maybe some other uppity bitch has destroyed your self-confidence. I’m here to tell you “that’s ok!” You’re ok. It’s not right to expect you to make the first move on every girl you see. If they just sit back and don’t make a move, they’re either just not into you or an uppity bitch. In either case, you don’t want them anyway! It’s not you, it’s her! Uppity bitches expect to be the only thing in your world. If “Hey, I’d like to go out tonight but I’ve got a ton of stuff I need to get done” really sets her boiling, maybe she’s just an uppity bitch. If she says “Oh, that sucks…. Is there anything I can help with?” or “Ok, well when’s a good time for you then?” – she’s decidedly not an uppity bitch. Is she overly emotional? Semi-psychotic? Don’t waste the macho on that uppity bitch! Get out now! Move on, have fun! You’ll eventually find a nice girl, you just have to get away from the uppity bitch you’re with! it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #2 December 9, 2004 Dude, a PM to phillykev would've been the proper thing here... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #3 December 9, 2004 QuoteDude, a PM to phillykev would've been the proper thing here... That one would have been titled "She's just a psychotic bitch" it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #4 December 9, 2004 LMAO...that is hysterical. Been in the Women's Forum I see. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhreeZone 20 #5 December 9, 2004 Hmmm... this applies to a few people I know. Yesterday is history And tomorrow is a mystery Parachutemanuals.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #6 December 9, 2004 hahahahahahha. did someone rub you the wrong way this morning?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #7 December 9, 2004 I think it pertains to a thread over in the womens forum, heh ive been awake all night so i've read everything on this website "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #8 December 9, 2004 Quotehahahahahahha. did someone rub you the wrong way this morning?? He got rubbed by wrongway? Where can i sign up for some of that? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanduh 0 #9 December 9, 2004 Wowa. Good morning to you too!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #10 December 9, 2004 QuoteLMAO...that is hysterical. Been in the Women's Forum I see. In the women's forum, hearing it on the news and from other people... it's getting ridiculous. Painting common relationship problems with broad strokes just doesn't work. It over simplifies and trivializes human emotions and reactions.it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #11 December 9, 2004 QuoteQuotehahahahahahha. did someone rub you the wrong way this morning?? He got rubbed by wrongway? Where can i sign up for some of that? Hey! You better watch it lady!!!!! Don't make me get all "uppity bitch" on you!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhreeZone 20 #12 December 9, 2004 Would you get all uppty bitch on Seth? I think he needs that in his life Yesterday is history And tomorrow is a mystery Parachutemanuals.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #13 December 9, 2004 There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #14 December 9, 2004 QuoteWould you get all uppty bitch on Seth? I think he needs that in his life What seeth needs is a little holiday cheer. The best way to get this is to send me money so i can by myself some xmas presents. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #15 December 9, 2004 QuoteWhat seeth needs is a little holiday cheer. If he's not digging my holiday cheer, then he really is a Scrooge! What he said is true, though. Really, there are shy guys who will not pursue you. Really, there are guys who are busy. Really, sometimes people's phones are on vibrate, and they forgot to turn it back on (sorry, WB! ) Now, if the guy says, "You are an idiot, and you smell bad," then, he's just not that into you!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #16 December 9, 2004 I agree we try to categorize people and their reactions into a convenient box when in reality you can't do that because each person will react in a different way given the same circumstances. That said if a guy is interested in me he might as well come out and say it otherwise he will always be a friend and that is all. I figure I'm not real good at relationships and I know it and I'll tell anyone that. You have to smack me in the face with your feelings before I'll admit to mine. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #17 December 9, 2004 QuoteWould you get all uppty bitch on Seth? I think he needs that in his life Sounds like Seth needs a hug and a bubble bath. Any local volunteers? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #18 December 9, 2004 QuoteThat said if a guy is interested in me he might as well come out and say it Actually, I'm generally the one to come out and say it first....There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #19 December 9, 2004 QuoteThat said if a guy is interested in me he might as well come out and say it -------------------------------------------------------------- Actually, I'm generally the one to come out and say it first.... Me too. I don't believe in wasting time and wondering if he likes me. I'll just ask the guy out. If he says no, at least i tried and i don't have to wonder. Women that agozine for months wondering if a guy likes her or not, well WTF?? You've just wasted 2 months of your life. Didn't i have a thread a while back that said "Just Kiss Him!!" ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #20 December 9, 2004 QuoteWhat seeth needs is a little holiday cheer. Would you please call and sing me a Christmas Carol? QuoteReally, sometimes people's phones are on vibrate, and they forgot to turn it back on Then you must be an uppity bitch who is too good and too important to trouble yourself to be available to talk to the lowly person who called! QuoteThat said if a guy is interested in me he might as well come out and say it otherwise he will always be a friend and that is all. I figure I'm not real good at relationships and I know it and I'll tell anyone that. You have to smack me in the face with your feelings before I'll admit to mine. I love you. I've always loved you. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. What if the guy is the same way? Not good at admitting how he feels? You start it, be assertive, take a chance. What's the worst that can happen? We're all human, we all have problems and fears - it's how you deal with them and the extent that you let them control your life that matters. QuoteSounds like Seth needs a hug and a bubble bath. Any local volunteers? Now you're talking! Is WrongWay busy tonight? it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #21 December 9, 2004 QuoteQuoteThat said if a guy is interested in me he might as well come out and say it Actually, I'm generally the one to come out and say it first.... Most dating rules aren't about truth or what builds relationships, they are about power games. The "the guy asks first" rule is one example. The book The Rules is full of little tips to make relationships into a competitive game. Most of the book details a strategy for obtaining power by playing on the insecurities of men. It doesn't seem like the best way to treat someone that you theoretically care about. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #22 December 9, 2004 QuoteIs she overly emotional? Semi-psychotic? That should narrow the field... I just use the simplified test - Is she under 30? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #23 December 9, 2004 How about "just smack him on the ass" and see if he responds? Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #24 December 9, 2004 QuoteI just use the simplified test - Is she under 30? That does narrow it but over 30 doesn't necessarily mean she isn't. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #25 December 9, 2004 QuoteHow about "just smack him on the ass" and see if he responds? We really do need to hang out more!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
