boinky 0 #26 November 10, 2004 Quotewell tell us your secret, and we can reply more thoroughly... I'm happy to see that honesty seems to be the best policy in this group. After having discussions about "safety words" and seeing the costumes for Halloween, I'm thrilled to see that we're not all going straight to hell (can I say that?). Do you really think I'd post a question with a secret I didn't want told? Come on now...I was born at night, but not last night. How long would THAT secret stay a secret? Unfortunately, I am too honest for my own good. I believe in telling the truth up front and giving people the opportunity to make their own educated decisions, based on all of the facts. If they chose to go away, at least I still have my pride and somewhat dysfunctional standards intact. Getting attached to someone under false pretenses can hurt the liar just as much as the other party. Sometimes even more so, as you obviously have some affection for them, or you wouldn't be stressing out over it in the first place. OK...enough of morality and goodness. How about those "safe words?" NinaNina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #27 November 10, 2004 QuoteCome on now...I was born at night, but not last night. Yeah people... Cabeza Del Equipo Rodriguez is now 18 days old. Give her some credit. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #28 November 10, 2004 QuoteI'm happy to see that honesty seems to be the best policy in this group. I'm a bit disturbed by the high percentage of people who said it's better to seek forgiveness. Unfortunately, I'm not surprised though; my experience has been that dishonesty in relationships seems to be an accpepted thing in our society (for some strange reason). Kinda funny in a world that pretends to be so concerned with "morals". Oh well... QuoteHow about those "safe words?" As I've said before... Safe words are for sissies! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #29 November 10, 2004 Quote Do you really think I'd post a question with a secret I didn't want told? Come on now...I was born at night, but not last night. How long would THAT secret stay a secret? well it would at least stay within the skydivers world scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boinky 0 #30 November 10, 2004 Quotewell it would at least stay within the skydivers world [BLUE] WOW!!! You mean there's a world outside of skydiving? [/BLUE] I know for a fact that skydivers are some of the worst offenders about not being able to keep secrets. Never tell them anything you don't want to come back and bite you on the butt when you least expect it!Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbbub78 0 #31 November 10, 2004 depends on the secret, if it were that one was still married or something, i'd probably get it out in the open in the first place, otherwise... ask forgiveness, a wise person once said while i was visiting a new dropzone 'go ahead, jump naked, you don't need to ask if there are rules about it. That way, you didn't know ahead of time, and you can always ask for forgiveness!! crw skies,"Women fake orgasms - men fake whole relationships" – Sharon Stone "The world is my dropzone" (wise crewdog quote) "The light dims, until full darkness pierces into the world."-KDM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #32 November 10, 2004 Ask permission. Trust is an extremely sensitive thing. And "permission" isn't necessarily the correct word either. Being open and honest is a very key feature in a relationship, and I'd rather have someone talk to me and tell me something that I may not like to hear, then hide it, lie about it, and then later say "I'm sorry." At that point in time, "I'm sorry" isn't going to cut it.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
