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and she said "sure, when", and I said "uh, next week", and she said "great, looking forward to it". Holy fuckin crap, WTF have I been waitin for, that was easy as hell once I dialed her freekin number.

Damn, Im high as a friggin kite:)
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....and she's probably thinking "about time" :)that makes me miss the dating pool a little bit!!! well anyway, good for you and have fun!
Heidi



OR... she's thinking, "OMG, I think I just let him think I'm more interested that way than I am! How do I let him down?!" [:/]

But for your sake, I hope not.

But how often is that the case... TOO fucking often!

-Jeffrey
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"With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

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OR... she's thinking, "OMG, I think I just let him think I'm more interested that way than I am! How do I let him down?!" [:/]

But for your sake, I hope not.

But how often is that the case... TOO fucking often!

-Jeffrey


Good gosh, man...is that the way you think when you ask a woman out? They're just getting together for the first time....why would she be thinking of how to let him down? If things click, good, if not then he has a new friend. I don't see anything wrong with that. One never knows unless one tries. If you never take a chance then you might miss out on something good. Why shoot him down when he hasn't even gone out with her yet?:S That kind of thinking just makes me sad.[:/]
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Dude, no worries

Congrats, getting the nerve to ask her out is half the battle;), I know:ph34r: Make it past the first couple of dates, and you'll look back and wonder why you were so nervous...:)


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I used to work with the chick. "IT" is there, always was. If I just wanted "IT", I'd call her up and say "Hey, ya wanna fuck". :S I aint no kid no more, I hope thats not what its all about these days:| I asked her out on a date because I want to take her out on a date. No need to call bullshit here because sure, hopefully, but hell, that aint the whole deal.

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Well, she's a girl, and girls are scary



And if they are mothers, they have eyes in the back of their heads. Don't forget that one either. :P
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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I used to work with the chick. "IT" is there, always was. If I just wanted "IT", I'd call her up and say "Hey, ya wanna fuck". :S I aint no kid no more, I hope thats not what its all about these days:| I asked her out on a date because I want to take her out on a date. No need to call bullshit here because sure, hopefully, but hell, that aint the whole deal.

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Good! you won't have to deal with those stupid ice breakers. Don't worry about what Jeffrey said--read his sig. line. Just go, have fun and don't forget your confidence :$ Do you know what you're going to do? Don't be ready to say "I dunno whadda you wanna do?" when you're out... I hateee that... it always prompts me to throw out something undoable in texas ("LET's go snow skiing!"):P
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I used to work with the chick. "IT" is there, always was. If I just wanted "IT", I'd call her up and say "Hey, ya wanna fuck". :S I aint no kid no more, I hope thats not what its all about these days:| I asked her out on a date because I want to take her out on a date. No need to call bullshit here because sure, hopefully, but hell, that aint the whole deal.

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Well, she's a girl, and girls are scary



And if they are mothers, they have eyes in the back of their heads. Don't forget that one either. :P



you didn't see me taking that picture of your butt.............:o:P:D:D:D
I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver
My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin

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Good gosh, man...is that the way you think when you ask a woman out? They're just getting together for the first time....why would she be thinking of how to let him down? If things click, good, if not then he has a new friend. I don't see anything wrong with that. One never knows unless one tries. If you never take a chance then you might miss out on something good. Why shoot him down when he hasn't even gone out with her yet?:S That kind of thinking just makes me sad.[:/]



You're sad? Try being a good, quality guy but never meeting the right girl, and when you think you see one, lacking the confidence to approach, or lacking ideas about how to approach. Sure, I can make conversation, like anyone else, but how to get romance happening? How to get someone "interested"? How to determine if she is?

I know that the philosophy/approach of some is to just go for it and if they meet with failure, fine, try again with someone else later. That's either in you or it's not. Oh, I'm great for being open and honest and stuff, once I'm at that point with a girl. I love being that way, but first I have to reach a certain point in a relationship with a girl, and that's the tough part -- getting it all started! Some of us are cursed with this feeling that before we go and try to make something happen with a girl, we want some sort of confidence or assurance that we're going to be received the way we are hoping to be. Getting past the need for that is the difficult part.

-Jeffrey
-Jeffrey
"With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

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I used to work with the chick. "IT" is there, always was. If I just wanted "IT", I'd call her up and say "Hey, ya wanna fuck". :S I aint no kid no more, I hope thats not what its all about these days:| I asked her out on a date because I want to take her out on a date. No need to call bullshit here because sure, hopefully, but hell, that aint the whole deal.

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I'm confused. What's this about me calling bullshit? I didn't do that!

Um, this is a girl you used to have casual sex with? Shit, if that was the case, what is the big difficulty with asking for a DATE?!

Scratch what I said about lacking confidence to ask a girl out, if the background of the circumstances is that I've already had SEX with her before, and could just call her up and say, "Hey, wanna fuck?" At that point, I wouldn't have a moment's hesitation asking her for something as easy as a date! The hard part's DONE already: you know she's into you at LEAST looks-wise...

-Jeffrey
-Jeffrey
"With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

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Don't worry about what Jeffrey said--read his sig. line.



I don't get it, Heidi. Are you saying that my sig line indicates there's something wrong or undesirable about me?

It's just a Rush song lyric... and it does a pretty decent job describing me, actually. Sheez! I didn't know I was to be judged so harshly just for putting up a sig line. Are you this hard on everyone?

-Jeffrey
-Jeffrey
"With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

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Don't worry about what Jeffrey said--read his sig. line.



I don't get it, Heidi. Are you saying that my sig line indicates there's something wrong or undesirable about me?


-Jeffrey


YES

You're an angry person, who hopefully sees the irony in his nickname:P;);)

Firstly STOP worrying, just ask soneone out and see where it takes you, LOOKING for the "Right one" is doomed to fail.
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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how to get romance happening? How to get someone "interested"? How to determine if she is?<... and snip!>


hey Jeffrey,
I think that's exactly what we were trying to get across... just ask them out! Find stuff you have in common (or don't have in common)... but just have fun with it. Not having things in common is sometimes more interesting because your stories don't sound so similar and it sparks an interest.detecting if she's interested might not be easy... but picking up on disinterest should be... i guess it just depends

If the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off!

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if they are mothers, they have eyes in the back of their heads. Don't forget that one either.


and ears and memory as an elephantB|
he he hope your doing great Andrea:P
anyway mothers tends to cook the best meals and give the best sex:Pthey already have a looong time of experiance of that:ph34r::D

Stay safe
Stefan Faber

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"Hey, wanna fuck?"
hehehehe I dooooooont think he was serious when he called her asking that. tone of voice is a funny thing:)Anxieties run high before a date and your post fit your sig line to a t... not that there's anything wrong with that. Sorry if I offended you.. I didn't mean to!
And no, I'm not harsh on people (I've never heard that from anyone until now).. see ya!
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you didn't see me taking that picture of your butt.............


she probaly had hair in front of her eyes;)



Andrea get her hair done before coming to the dropzone? NEVER!!!:D:D:P:P
I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver
My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin

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