rbrcokflichk 0 #26 October 15, 2004 Wait Wait Wait.....you're not old enough to date someone 12.5 yrs younger....are you??? I'm so confused!!! My rule was always no more than 20 years older, but I broke that one once. Usually I try to keep withing 10-15 years...younger I think the youngest was only 3 or 4 years younger. Didn't really enjoy it at the time since I was also young...now, it could be loads of fun!!! I'd rather have an awkward morning than a boring night!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #27 October 15, 2004 14 yrs older 4 years younger I found little, if no difference in maturity, intelligence, and stamina between these two. I've settled down with the perfect man now. He's 5 yrs older. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #28 October 15, 2004 7 yrs older when I was 17.. 11 yrs older when I was 22.. but theres not much difference in maturity between a woman in her early 20's and a man in his early 30's. At least not that man. Lately I've been dating close to my own age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RastaRicanAir 0 #29 October 15, 2004 QuoteWhen I was 18 (years ago) I dated a guy who was 50 years older. He was a widower, really nice guy, but he was more of a friend. When it got to the point in the relationship where he wanted to have sex I just couldn't deal with it. Have you ever seen a 70 year old guy nekkid....ewwwwww .. If I'd been a 70 year old woman that would have been different, but as I said I was 18 at the time. Now he probably wouldn't look so bad Disqualified: Doesn't count if there's no sex. That's not dating, it's collecting benefits. For the record, my record is Under by 16 Yrs, Over by 3 or 4. Both VERY recent. It's hard to find available undamaged women over 30 in a college town. The new ones are just falling off the trees. Of course most of them are shallow, giggling idiots, but I've stumbled across a few who were worth talking to ...y'know ....afterwards.OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #30 October 15, 2004 QuoteWait Wait Wait.....you're not old enough to date someone 12.5 yrs younger....are you??? I'm so confused!!! You're sweet! Unfortunately...yep...I'm old enough...actually if I wanted to go all the way down to "legal" (i.e. 18), I could do up to a 17 (soon to be 18) year difference. hmmm.....nah...just don't need to do training any more. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #31 October 15, 2004 I've gone 19 years younger and 8 older. Age is just a thing sorta like hair color. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites monkey1031 0 #32 October 15, 2004 When I was 19, I worked in a small Mom & Pop camping store... My Mgr. walks in one day, same as usual, with one exception. A cooler full of beer. I settle in behind the counter, and being that it was 9:00 a.m., grabbed a beer and started drinking. A few hours later it dawned on me that there may be some special occasion. I asked the boss man why we were drinking before noon on a Wednesday, and with a straight face, he said, "If I follow in my fathers footsteps, my wife will be born today." He was 34... His father had married a woman 1/2 his age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #33 October 15, 2004 Nothing wrong with half your age. 38 when dating the 19 y/o so what? -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkymonkeyONE 4 #34 October 15, 2004 I am 41 and Katie won't be 29 until next month. you do the math. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #35 October 15, 2004 I've dated one woman who was 12 years older than me (she was 30, I was 18), and one who was 10 years younger than me (31 versus 21). Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #36 October 15, 2004 Quote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #37 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Girlfalldown 0 #38 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave Yeah. What a perv huh? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #39 October 15, 2004 Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #40 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! I was 44, they were both 18. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Girlfalldown 0 #41 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? Yeeeeup! We were in Loooove! I think I was actually 15 and for the record I didn't look or act like I was 15. I was buying cigarettes and getting into bars then. I may have lied to him a little in the beginning about my age too. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #42 October 15, 2004 10 years difference. 23 and 33 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #43 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! Well, 33 is an awesome age for me to be!! I feel better & more alive than I ever have before. I have never really dated anyone less than 3-4 yrs. younger than me but up to 14 years older. Wouldn't have a problem w/ a younger guy if he had what I looked for, age doesn't matter to me as long I can connect & have fun with the guy. He has to be real, intelligent & not restrictive. That's hard enough to find in a person w/o bothering to look at age to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #44 October 15, 2004 His name wasn't "Ron Johnson "was it ? I'll give a dollar to anyone who picks that movie. "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkymonkeyONE 4 #45 October 15, 2004 Fast times at Ridgemont High Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hungarianchick 0 #46 October 15, 2004 It's funny, now that I think of it, I never really dated (or had sex with) guys that were older than me. They were all at least a few months younger, the youngest was 8 years my junior. My current squeeze is two years younger. Hmmm.. "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #47 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah. What a perv huh? Definitely. I've done 10-12 year age differences in both directions, but not when either of us was a minor (much less still going through puberty!) and not for any kind of long term deal. Even now at 35, I'm guessing the differences that come with a 12 year age gap would be troublesome to any kind of ongoing relationship. It's sad to think that guy was not only a perv, but must have related to you somewhat well in order to maintain a relationship for that long. I thought the only people who could relate to 14 year old girls were other 14 year old girls! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wingnut 0 #48 October 15, 2004 Quote He was 25, i'm 31 wow sunny finally told everyone how old she really is.... i can't belive it...... as for me i've gone down 5 years and up 5..... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites BGill 0 #49 October 16, 2004 Quotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #50 October 16, 2004 QuoteQuotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... They were most exceptional, brilliant young women. One on a full vocal scholarship to University of Miami and the determined to be a doctor. I've lost touch with Tara. She finished college, finished medical school and moved on. Leigh and I have remained friends over the years and talk every few days. She's happily married and the mother of a beautiful little boy. At a time when life seemed full of death and darkness, they helped me realize there is, indeed, much beauty in the world. I doubt I would do it again. It was a lot of work, a ton of responsibility ...and a lot of fun. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
chaoskitty 0 #28 October 15, 2004 7 yrs older when I was 17.. 11 yrs older when I was 22.. but theres not much difference in maturity between a woman in her early 20's and a man in his early 30's. At least not that man. Lately I've been dating close to my own age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #29 October 15, 2004 QuoteWhen I was 18 (years ago) I dated a guy who was 50 years older. He was a widower, really nice guy, but he was more of a friend. When it got to the point in the relationship where he wanted to have sex I just couldn't deal with it. Have you ever seen a 70 year old guy nekkid....ewwwwww .. If I'd been a 70 year old woman that would have been different, but as I said I was 18 at the time. Now he probably wouldn't look so bad Disqualified: Doesn't count if there's no sex. That's not dating, it's collecting benefits. For the record, my record is Under by 16 Yrs, Over by 3 or 4. Both VERY recent. It's hard to find available undamaged women over 30 in a college town. The new ones are just falling off the trees. Of course most of them are shallow, giggling idiots, but I've stumbled across a few who were worth talking to ...y'know ....afterwards.OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #30 October 15, 2004 QuoteWait Wait Wait.....you're not old enough to date someone 12.5 yrs younger....are you??? I'm so confused!!! You're sweet! Unfortunately...yep...I'm old enough...actually if I wanted to go all the way down to "legal" (i.e. 18), I could do up to a 17 (soon to be 18) year difference. hmmm.....nah...just don't need to do training any more. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #31 October 15, 2004 I've gone 19 years younger and 8 older. Age is just a thing sorta like hair color. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monkey1031 0 #32 October 15, 2004 When I was 19, I worked in a small Mom & Pop camping store... My Mgr. walks in one day, same as usual, with one exception. A cooler full of beer. I settle in behind the counter, and being that it was 9:00 a.m., grabbed a beer and started drinking. A few hours later it dawned on me that there may be some special occasion. I asked the boss man why we were drinking before noon on a Wednesday, and with a straight face, he said, "If I follow in my fathers footsteps, my wife will be born today." He was 34... His father had married a woman 1/2 his age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #33 October 15, 2004 Nothing wrong with half your age. 38 when dating the 19 y/o so what? -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkymonkeyONE 4 #34 October 15, 2004 I am 41 and Katie won't be 29 until next month. you do the math. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #35 October 15, 2004 I've dated one woman who was 12 years older than me (she was 30, I was 18), and one who was 10 years younger than me (31 versus 21). Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #36 October 15, 2004 Quote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #37 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Girlfalldown 0 #38 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave Yeah. What a perv huh? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #39 October 15, 2004 Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #40 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! I was 44, they were both 18. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Girlfalldown 0 #41 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? Yeeeeup! We were in Loooove! I think I was actually 15 and for the record I didn't look or act like I was 15. I was buying cigarettes and getting into bars then. I may have lied to him a little in the beginning about my age too. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #42 October 15, 2004 10 years difference. 23 and 33 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #43 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! Well, 33 is an awesome age for me to be!! I feel better & more alive than I ever have before. I have never really dated anyone less than 3-4 yrs. younger than me but up to 14 years older. Wouldn't have a problem w/ a younger guy if he had what I looked for, age doesn't matter to me as long I can connect & have fun with the guy. He has to be real, intelligent & not restrictive. That's hard enough to find in a person w/o bothering to look at age to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #44 October 15, 2004 His name wasn't "Ron Johnson "was it ? I'll give a dollar to anyone who picks that movie. "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkymonkeyONE 4 #45 October 15, 2004 Fast times at Ridgemont High Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hungarianchick 0 #46 October 15, 2004 It's funny, now that I think of it, I never really dated (or had sex with) guys that were older than me. They were all at least a few months younger, the youngest was 8 years my junior. My current squeeze is two years younger. Hmmm.. "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #47 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah. What a perv huh? Definitely. I've done 10-12 year age differences in both directions, but not when either of us was a minor (much less still going through puberty!) and not for any kind of long term deal. Even now at 35, I'm guessing the differences that come with a 12 year age gap would be troublesome to any kind of ongoing relationship. It's sad to think that guy was not only a perv, but must have related to you somewhat well in order to maintain a relationship for that long. I thought the only people who could relate to 14 year old girls were other 14 year old girls! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wingnut 0 #48 October 15, 2004 Quote He was 25, i'm 31 wow sunny finally told everyone how old she really is.... i can't belive it...... as for me i've gone down 5 years and up 5..... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites BGill 0 #49 October 16, 2004 Quotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #50 October 16, 2004 QuoteQuotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... They were most exceptional, brilliant young women. One on a full vocal scholarship to University of Miami and the determined to be a doctor. I've lost touch with Tara. She finished college, finished medical school and moved on. Leigh and I have remained friends over the years and talk every few days. She's happily married and the mother of a beautiful little boy. At a time when life seemed full of death and darkness, they helped me realize there is, indeed, much beauty in the world. I doubt I would do it again. It was a lot of work, a ton of responsibility ...and a lot of fun. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. 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livendive 8 #37 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #38 October 15, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuote12 years older for me. Ended up dating him off and on for 10 years and then living with him for the last 4 of those. I finally wized up and moved out when I was 24. He was a good guy deep down inside and I couldn't see why all my friends called him an asshole til I took a step back. I'm confused by the math here, how old were you and how old was he when you two started dating ? I was surprized by the math, but not confused by it. If she dated him for 10 years and moved out at 24, she must have started dating him at age 14. If he was 12 years older than her, he was 26 when they started dating. Blues, Dave Yeah. What a perv huh? -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #39 October 15, 2004 Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #40 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! I was 44, they were both 18. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Girlfalldown 0 #41 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? Yeeeeup! We were in Loooove! I think I was actually 15 and for the record I didn't look or act like I was 15. I was buying cigarettes and getting into bars then. I may have lied to him a little in the beginning about my age too. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #42 October 15, 2004 10 years difference. 23 and 33 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #43 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! Well, 33 is an awesome age for me to be!! I feel better & more alive than I ever have before. I have never really dated anyone less than 3-4 yrs. younger than me but up to 14 years older. Wouldn't have a problem w/ a younger guy if he had what I looked for, age doesn't matter to me as long I can connect & have fun with the guy. He has to be real, intelligent & not restrictive. That's hard enough to find in a person w/o bothering to look at age to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #44 October 15, 2004 His name wasn't "Ron Johnson "was it ? I'll give a dollar to anyone who picks that movie. "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkymonkeyONE 4 #45 October 15, 2004 Fast times at Ridgemont High Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hungarianchick 0 #46 October 15, 2004 It's funny, now that I think of it, I never really dated (or had sex with) guys that were older than me. They were all at least a few months younger, the youngest was 8 years my junior. My current squeeze is two years younger. Hmmm.. "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #47 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah. What a perv huh? Definitely. I've done 10-12 year age differences in both directions, but not when either of us was a minor (much less still going through puberty!) and not for any kind of long term deal. Even now at 35, I'm guessing the differences that come with a 12 year age gap would be troublesome to any kind of ongoing relationship. It's sad to think that guy was not only a perv, but must have related to you somewhat well in order to maintain a relationship for that long. I thought the only people who could relate to 14 year old girls were other 14 year old girls! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wingnut 0 #48 October 15, 2004 Quote He was 25, i'm 31 wow sunny finally told everyone how old she really is.... i can't belive it...... as for me i've gone down 5 years and up 5..... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites BGill 0 #49 October 16, 2004 Quotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #50 October 16, 2004 QuoteQuotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... They were most exceptional, brilliant young women. One on a full vocal scholarship to University of Miami and the determined to be a doctor. I've lost touch with Tara. She finished college, finished medical school and moved on. Leigh and I have remained friends over the years and talk every few days. She's happily married and the mother of a beautiful little boy. At a time when life seemed full of death and darkness, they helped me realize there is, indeed, much beauty in the world. I doubt I would do it again. It was a lot of work, a ton of responsibility ...and a lot of fun. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
Girlfalldown 0 #41 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah well thats what threw me for a loop when I figured it out ? What 26 year old dates a 14 year old, thats just illegal not to mention creepy. I'm guessing this was in the U.S. ? Yeeeeup! We were in Loooove! I think I was actually 15 and for the record I didn't look or act like I was 15. I was buying cigarettes and getting into bars then. I may have lied to him a little in the beginning about my age too. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #42 October 15, 2004 10 years difference. 23 and 33 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #43 October 15, 2004 QuoteSo after a nice convo we had in the pub the other night, it got me wondering what the biggest age gap difference you've had with a partner? Older? Younger? Let's hear the stories! Personally, I've gone 13 years older (she's 33 and I'm 20). So come on, let's hear them. Everyone's got their moments, and I think putting that out there either lost me respect from people or possibly gained some. Oh well, you gotta take some for the team for Bonfire entertainment purposes! Well, 33 is an awesome age for me to be!! I feel better & more alive than I ever have before. I have never really dated anyone less than 3-4 yrs. younger than me but up to 14 years older. Wouldn't have a problem w/ a younger guy if he had what I looked for, age doesn't matter to me as long I can connect & have fun with the guy. He has to be real, intelligent & not restrictive. That's hard enough to find in a person w/o bothering to look at age to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #44 October 15, 2004 His name wasn't "Ron Johnson "was it ? I'll give a dollar to anyone who picks that movie. "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkymonkeyONE 4 #45 October 15, 2004 Fast times at Ridgemont High Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hungarianchick 0 #46 October 15, 2004 It's funny, now that I think of it, I never really dated (or had sex with) guys that were older than me. They were all at least a few months younger, the youngest was 8 years my junior. My current squeeze is two years younger. Hmmm.. "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #47 October 15, 2004 Quote Yeah. What a perv huh? Definitely. I've done 10-12 year age differences in both directions, but not when either of us was a minor (much less still going through puberty!) and not for any kind of long term deal. Even now at 35, I'm guessing the differences that come with a 12 year age gap would be troublesome to any kind of ongoing relationship. It's sad to think that guy was not only a perv, but must have related to you somewhat well in order to maintain a relationship for that long. I thought the only people who could relate to 14 year old girls were other 14 year old girls! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #48 October 15, 2004 Quote He was 25, i'm 31 wow sunny finally told everyone how old she really is.... i can't belive it...... as for me i've gone down 5 years and up 5..... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BGill 0 #49 October 16, 2004 Quotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #50 October 16, 2004 QuoteQuotethey were both 18. both? i envy you.... They were most exceptional, brilliant young women. One on a full vocal scholarship to University of Miami and the determined to be a doctor. I've lost touch with Tara. She finished college, finished medical school and moved on. Leigh and I have remained friends over the years and talk every few days. She's happily married and the mother of a beautiful little boy. At a time when life seemed full of death and darkness, they helped me realize there is, indeed, much beauty in the world. I doubt I would do it again. It was a lot of work, a ton of responsibility ...and a lot of fun. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
