jkwon 0 #1 October 12, 2004 This is my situation. The ex still likes me but she's dating someone else. I still like the ex but need to get over her. I hooked up with her best friend and now we have to decide whether to drop things or give it a try. So is it kosher or not? --joe--joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #2 October 12, 2004 No ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #3 October 12, 2004 Dude, use your "head" and follow your feelings __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #4 October 12, 2004 QuoteNo Amen sister Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #5 October 12, 2004 QuoteNoQuoteAmen sister That's drama waiting to explode That is the understatement of the year She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hookitt 1 #6 October 12, 2004 QuoteThe ex still likes me ...... I still like the ex hmmmm.....My grammar sometimes resembles that of magnetic refrigerator poetry... Ghetto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #7 October 12, 2004 I would never date an ex's best friend... I had a best friend date and marry one of my ex's but it was like him. He had gone behind me a few times and picked up the chix I dumped. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #8 October 12, 2004 I got engaged to an ex's best friend... Didn't work out in the end. The fact that she was best friends with the ex had nothing to do with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Derekbox 0 #9 October 12, 2004 Date no - but tap it like its hot - ohhhhh yea daddy likes Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoadRash 0 #10 October 12, 2004 QuoteQuoteNo Amen sister You can say that again...... Might not be worth the risk......Just from what I have seen...usually ends in a messy situation...REALLY messy situation...... ~R+R...~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Fly the friendly skies...^_^...})ii({...^_~... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #11 October 12, 2004 I think the real question is why is your ex's best friend willing to date you?"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #12 October 12, 2004 QuoteDate no - but tap it like its hot - ohhhhh yea daddy likes ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #13 October 12, 2004 QuoteI would never date an ex's best friend... I had a best friend date and marry one of my ex's but it was like him. He had gone behind me a few times and picked up the chix I dumped. Maybe he liked sloppy seconds _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuperKat 0 #14 October 12, 2004 Dude, the only reason why I would say no is because you said the key word there, "best friend". How long of an ex are we talking about? Years, mos or weeks? Your ex is going to think that you're dating her best friend to make her jealous and what not. Then, it will cause problems for your ex and her best friend because her best friend is obviously not her best friend because she never told your ex about the feelings she has for you. Then, eventually your ex will reveal way too much negative info about you to her best friend to spite you. And you both have feeling for eachother still? Too much drama man. Someone's gonna get hurt real badly and/or your new relationship may not last as long as you may want it to. There are tons of other fish in the sea, I say go elsewhere. What's the most you ever lost in a coin toss, Friendo? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuperKat 0 #15 October 12, 2004 QuoteMaybe he liked sloppy secondsDude, get real. Every girl you date is going to be sloppy seconds for you or even sloppy 3rd, 4th and 5ths. You want pure and untouched snow, go watch "JACKASS" the movie right before he makes the piss snowcone. What's the most you ever lost in a coin toss, Friendo? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #16 October 12, 2004 Nice question. It can cause a lot of friction between the ex and the friend, but it they are good enough friends, they'll get through it. How do I know? Simple, I married my Ex's best friend. They are still best friends, and I'm still married. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #17 October 12, 2004 QuoteQuoteMaybe he liked sloppy secondsDude, get real. Every girl you date is going to be sloppy seconds for you or even sloppy 3rd, 4th and 5ths. You want pure and untouched snow, go watch "JACKASS" the movie right before he makes the piss snowcone. Really?!? My post was only replying to slappie's best friend that picked up his "seconds" as far as jkwon you dig someone go for 'em _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #18 October 12, 2004 Best friend??? No. I think that would be completely disrespectful to all parties. And, it would be full of drama. Not no, but hell no. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jkwon 0 #19 October 12, 2004 You've got some good points there. We broke up a couple times...the last time being in january of this year. I think I might be siding with everyone on this one. It's just opening up a whole bunch of crappy doors if I follow through with this. --joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveelis 0 #20 October 12, 2004 we need to talk !!!!!!!!!!!! , I can't let you do that________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #21 October 12, 2004 No, you'll be a jerk when you ruin your chances w/ ex forever and tear apart their trust and friendship in each other. My best friend hooked up w/ my other best friends ex. Now neither of them like or trust each other, can't stand to be around each other and I end up really uncomfortable around both of them. It sucks, your actions will effect a lot more than just you. The repercussions will go on and on and on... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #22 October 12, 2004 QuoteThis is my situation. The ex still likes me but she's dating someone else. I still like the ex but need to get over her. I hooked up with her best friend and now we have to decide whether to drop things or give it a try. So is it kosher or not? --joe I want video recorded aftermath.... and all the hook-up scenes... , she can't really stop you from doing what your gonna do... but if you still like her, don't get your hopes up of stuff working itself out if your going to "date" her best-friend. You'll be lucky if she even talks to you again... unless your game is tight. "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
complexity 0 #23 October 12, 2004 No -- it will just create drama and bad feelings. Plus why on earth is her BEST FRIEND hooking up with her BEST FRIEND's ex? There are certain unwritten rules in womens' worlds.. and that is you don't date your friend's ex -- at a minimum until there is nothing between the two. But more likely never unless you two are meant to be together forever and just can't live without the other. there are plenty of other women in this world so don't go creating drama is my recommendation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #24 October 12, 2004 Whew, sure glad I didn't follow that advise 12 years ago (I was wrong before.....5 years dating and 7 married = 12, not 13, LOL). I might be stuck in a crappy relationship chock full of drama! It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #25 October 12, 2004 Quite frankly, I also think the old adage holds true; if you have to ask if it's a good idea, it's probably not..."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
