RevJim 0 #26 October 11, 2004 Quotei couldn't agree more!! i hate being the "nice guy friend" to everyone ...EVERYONE! maybe i should beat up a few people....that'll show them all. Yea, that's exactly what you need to do. Wear the thong while doing it for full effect. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #27 October 11, 2004 hahaha possibly....POSSIBLY!!! but still, this nice guy stuff's getting me NO where, although there is that one girl at the bar but anyways... thong beatings it is. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #28 October 11, 2004 Hey Mr. Nice Guy...have an idea for ya...how about taking her for a ride in the ambulance, haulin ass with the lights and sounds..with the final destination being a cool concert! You need to use that kuhl ride to your advantage _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #29 October 11, 2004 Quotehahaha possibly....POSSIBLY!!! but still, this nice guy stuff's getting me NO where, although there is that one girl at the bar but anyways... thong beatings it is. As funny as that is, I gotta say I thought the 'nice guy shit' was getting me nowhere too. Then 13 years ago I met one that liked nice guys. 5 years later I married her, to the day. One week ago today we made it 13 years total, with the last 7 married. They are out there people, but they are not gonna find you.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #30 October 11, 2004 You can be nice. But what the attracts girls to the dicks in the fact that there confident. The guys, great girls fall in love with are the ones who are nice , but confident. You have to go for a girl, you have to win her. They want a guy who will fight for them. They want a guy who will support them. Toughen up. YOU CAN BE NICE AND TOUGH AT THE SAME TIME! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #31 October 11, 2004 QuoteThe guys, great girls fall in love with are the ones who are nice , but confident. You have to go for a girl, you have to win her. They want a guy who will fight for them. They want a guy who will support them. Toughen up. YOU CAN BE NICE AND TOUGH AT THE SAME TIME! True that. You can be too nice and be perceived as a doormat. I like nice guys, but they have to at least be able to stand up for themselves, against me or someone else. So many of the guys that I've met that complained that they always finish last do so because they're pushovers. Not all, mind you, but a lot of them fit into that category. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,544 #32 October 11, 2004 Quotealthough there is that one girl at the bar Hint: if you're looking for a girl who's into nice guys, a bar is probably not the best choice, unless you want one with bad judgement, too. Smart nice girls, who like nice guys, hang out in places where nice guys can be found -- church (yes), book clubs, charitable activities like Habitat days, Thanksgiving feed-the-hungry drives, things like that. Maybe political campaigns, calling. Go looking for people who like to help, and you're a litlte more likely to find nice people. It's kind of like moving to California, away from Puerto Rico, if you only like blondes. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #33 October 11, 2004 QuoteSmart nice girls, who like nice guys Hey! I hang out in bars sometimes!!! Granted, guys who try to hit on me in bars I don't really give the time of day.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scottbre 0 #34 October 11, 2004 There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a doormat. Doormats are there to be walked all over, so that's what happens to them, even if they are nice. "Your mother's full of stupidjuice!" My Art Project Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #35 October 11, 2004 QuoteSmart nice girls, who like nice guys, hang out in places where nice guys can be found -- church (yes), book clubs, charitable activities like Habitat days, Thanksgiving feed-the-hungry drives, things like that i agree with ya wendy... the gal i'm talking to now i met through 4-H.... granted it's been about 3 years since i had anything to do with it, the girls i did meet were "nice"... and the ratio of guy to gals was like 1:5 ........ to bad he's not in grade sachool or that's what i would sugest..... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lightningbugirl 0 #36 October 11, 2004 Would just like to say officially that I would love to meet a nice guy. (umm...not necessarily any of you all because heck, I've read your posts and many of you rarely seem actually nice....unless it's in exchange for potential sex, that's not nice! That's just 'trying to be nice' to get sex. Hello! Most women know the difference!) Now granted, these forums have a lot of men who are funny and smart and that goes a long way for entertainment value! Wish I could meet a truly nice guy that really was doing things honestly, considerately and straight from the heart-- it would be SUCH a turn on. Alas, you all would probably call him a wimp. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #37 October 11, 2004 yes i know! haha the bar is the worst place to pick up. but don't worry, i actually know this girl personally 9a good friend) so it's not like she's a bar slut. i just happen to go to the bar with her all the time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #38 October 11, 2004 Nice guys rock. Nice guys have no qualms about coming out and telling you how awesome you are even when they know they're not getting a piece. They'll put themselves and their emotions out there because they don't want to play stupid little games that confuse people. They're nice, so they have no need to be the one with the upper hand. They don't need to fight for it. I like that nice guys try to understand me and where I'm coming from. I like that nice guys know that hiding their penis somewhere isn't the most important thing in the world. I just don't understand why nice guys like me! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
champu 1 #39 October 11, 2004 I'm a nice guy, but I recognize that's not what causes me to finish last, as the saying goes. No, for me, finishing last stems from the fact that I can't read signals for my god damn life. I continue "being nice", and at some point I'm guessing they give up and assume I'm not interested in being anything but friends. I can recall at least one instance where over a year after the fact my roommate hears me exclaim out of nowhere from the next room, "Wait a Minute... FUCK!" "What happened?" he asks. I say, "Damn it, you remember Amy?" He says, "yeah." I say, "I think she wanted me." He says, "Shit, I could have told you that." ... "Well for the love of- ... You know I'm fucking dense, why didn't you say something!?!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jrgskyjump 0 #40 October 11, 2004 Hey man....a good friend once told me the following statement......"Nice guys finish right behind me"....what a great friend....and a true statement! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #41 October 11, 2004 QuoteI just don't understand why nice guys like me it's cuz you are evil... evil vailed in a fun package..........it's my dream some day to see you on speed. normally you are bounceing off the wall when i see ya, but on sped, damn i woullove to see that... the images i could guess would lastme a lifetime!!!!! ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fast 0 #42 October 11, 2004 QuoteI'm a nice guy, but I recognize that's not what causes me to finish last, as the saying goes. No, for me, finishing last stems from the fact that I can't read signals for my god damn life. I continue "being nice", and at some point I'm guessing they give up and assume I'm not interested in being anything but friends. I can recall at least one instance where over a year after the fact my roommate hears me exclaim out of nowhere from the next room, "Wait a Minute... FUCK!" "What happened?" he asks. I say, "Damn it, you remember Amy?" He says, "yeah." I say, "I think she wanted me." He says, "Shit, I could have told you that." ... "Well for the love of- ... You know I'm fucking dense, why didn't you say something!?!" Yeah I have basically the same problem. It fucking sucks. I could go on for days with reasons why but none of that really matters.~D Where troubles melt like lemon drops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me. Swooping is taking one last poke at the bear before escaping it's cave - davelepka Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jheadley 0 #43 October 12, 2004 You all should read up on the Ladder Theory. Everyone knows it's true, but nobody wants to admit to it. http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
