Darius11 12 #51 September 30, 2004 You need stop cheating with my pet HawkI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peregrinerose 0 #52 September 30, 2004 QuoteI don't understand the statement that you will regret the relationship for the rest of your life. Don't you see some merit in making a difference in his children's lives (assuming that you did). Yes, I did. I still see the older girl as her best friend lives down the street and she visits as much as she can. Both girls knew their dad was involved with me since at the time he was leaving his wife. Both wanted to call me mom. I wouldn't let them, I always tried to encourage respect for their own mother (even though I couldn't stand her). Both were dissappointed when their dad decided to stay put. The younger girl was only 7, and is very much like their mom. I wish I had more time to work with her. The older girl is 12 and has a good head on her shoulders. She's doing very well. I feel like if I wasn't involved with their dad, I would have had more time to work with the kids and could have made a far bigger difference than I did in the 2 years I knew them (1 with their dad) Jen Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #53 September 30, 2004 no im not, im positive she didnt, but it was always in the back of my mind that she was capable of it, once you know that its hard [for me] to trust someone. if i could go back id slap myself and tell myself to wise the fuck up. also frenchy, guess it just depends on the circumstances www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #54 September 30, 2004 QuoteDo you think the standard changes when the other party is not married, but living together with someone? Just curious. For the record, my answer was no, I wouldn't. Absolutely not. Married or not, cheating is just not right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #55 September 30, 2004 QuoteYou need stop cheating with my pet Hawk mines called bob whats yours? www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #56 September 30, 2004 QuoteOr even worse...when they dont tell you they are married... I hate people who cant end one relationship before starting another.....even if the relationship is fucked and has problems...end it, clean up...before bringing something else in. Interestingly, I dealt with that very situation, and it sucked. On another situation, the stretch marks indicated that she wasn't quite telling me everything... Now, if divorce has been filed for, then I do not have a problem with that. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gravitymaster 0 #57 September 30, 2004 Question to those who voted yes: Would your answer be the same if it was the spouse of your sibling? If so why? If no why not? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #58 September 30, 2004 I sure hope that this thread is not going to get "Jerry Springer" on us. Edited: Gravitymaster ~ That is actually an excellent way to look at things from a moral perspective. Do onto others... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #59 September 30, 2004 QuoteI sure hope that this thread is not going to get "Jerry Springer" on us. Well, it would then end up in the Speaker's Corner. That way, Kallend, Kev, PJ & Tuna could participate QuoteThat is actually an excellent way to look at things from a moral perspective. Do onto others... Very good point. Moral is a personal thing, not what people CLAIM moral is... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scottbre 0 #60 September 30, 2004 QuoteDo onto others... Right, isn't that what we're discussing? "Your mother's full of stupidjuice!" My Art Project Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #61 September 30, 2004 I'm sitting here listening to Beaver Nelson, and thinking about how the current song goes with this thread: QuoteExperiments in love performed by fools Experiments in love are mean and cruel Experiments in love are never fun When they're done to you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
malboy 0 #62 September 30, 2004 ***Experiments in love performed by fools yep i was a fool still am! just SLIGHTLY less of a fool i say you cant really learn a lesson unless you experience the mistake, not thatim saying everyone should go out there and fuck up as much as possible, tho i daresay if you survived youd probably be pretty wise www.ewancowie.com www.facebook.com/ewancowiephotography Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #63 September 30, 2004 When I see a girl, the first thing I do is look for a ring. Well it's maybe not the first thing I look at, but it's in the top 5. . If no ring, while talking I listen for the word "boyfriend" or try to sneak in the question. Just cause she has has a boyfriend or husband doesn't mean I won't talk or flirt with them, it just means I won't do anything with them.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #64 September 30, 2004 if they're living apart and have filed for divorce and its just not final yet, AND we're serious about each other, then yes. in any other circumstance, no. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #65 September 30, 2004 I voted yes. I told my wife before we got married, if Halle Berry or identical female triplets come my way.......... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #66 September 30, 2004 As long as they weren't married to me... yes. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #67 September 30, 2004 I find it funny that the first thing you look for is a ring. A ring is easliy removed. That said I actually wear my grandmother's wedding band on my ring finger of my left hand and no I'm not married. Divorced for 7 years. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #68 September 30, 2004 Quoteif they're living apart and have filed for divorce and its just not final yet, AND we're serious about each other, then yes. in any other circumstance, no. See...I've heard that excuse from someone. Then I've heard the divorced person say they need to sleep around first before they get into a relationship...with no regards to the feelings of the person they were currently with. Apparently that is some right of passage a divorced person needs, claims they need, or are really that selfish. Once again putting sex above the individual._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #69 September 30, 2004 QuoteI find it funny that the first thing you look for is a ring. A ring is easliy removed. I am married and I don't even have a wedding ring. So yeah, the lack of a ring doesn't tell you much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mardigrasbob 0 #70 September 30, 2004 When I was 20 or so my Dad kicked me in the ass (only time) so hard I couldn't breathe, then shouted "Boy that's a married woman, I've buried one son I am not going to bury another." I didn't understand. Many years later I was boinking some dude's ol' lady when the dude walks in my bedroom. I stared the green-eyed monster in the face. I suddenly understood my dad's statement. the world came crashing down, She lost her front teeth, swirting blood onto the ceiling. I came away uninjured, the house, plaster walls were not so lucky. So to answer your question; NO NEVER Jealousy is a M***erF***er! ------- Damn it was cold out there! The fire feels good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #71 September 30, 2004 Just the one I'm married to for the last 23 years. One of the best quotes on this subject I ever read was from a rather surprising source (or maybe not). Marilyn Chambers, the porn star wrote this little jewel,. "Fantasizing about sex outside of your marriage is lots of fun. But actually having sex outside your marriage isn't as much fun as you might think, and the damage it can do to your marriage may be irreparable". Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #72 September 30, 2004 QuoteMany years later I was boinking some dude's ol' lady when the dude walks in my bedroom. I stared the green-eyed monster in the face. I suddenly understood my dad's statement. the world came crashing down, She lost her front teeth, swirting blood onto the ceiling. I came away uninjured, the house, plaster walls were not so lucky. The posts sure to follow should definitely move us to the SC! "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,998 #73 September 30, 2004 Depends on whether they (and their spouse) is OK with it. If they are OK - then no problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #74 September 30, 2004 QuoteQuoteI find it funny that the first thing you look for is a ring. A ring is easliy removed. I am married and I don't even have a wedding ring. So yeah, the lack of a ring doesn't tell you much. Well, if they really want to hide it, how will you know?Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #75 September 30, 2004 QuoteDepends on whether they (and their spouse) is OK with it. If they are OK - then no problem. Would also depend on who gets to keep the DVD... Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
