Squeak 17 #26 October 1, 2004 Quote Looking at the results so far, it feels really good to see that the vast majority of people (or at least from the sample polled here..) still value relationship... rock on! Umm where's it say that?You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unstable 9 #27 October 1, 2004 Quote------------------------------------------------------------------------In Reply To ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Looking at the results so far, it feels really good to see that the vast majority of people (or at least from the sample polled here..) still value relationship... rock on! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Umm where's it say that? It was inferred since the vast majority of those polled voted to Divorce their partner automatically - I just came to the logical conclusion that it meant that those polled still felt that Infidelity was inappropriate....=========Shaun ========== Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #28 October 1, 2004 squeak, your avatar makes me wanna sing! "HERE I COME TO SAVE THE DAY!!!!" _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tweak 0 #29 October 1, 2004 Not to hijack... but the comedian??? Talking about the sig... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
D22369 0 #30 October 1, 2004 I had it done to me, Got sent home from work one day about 15 yrs ago, sick with the flu, walked in my front door and looked down the hallway (mobile home) and this guy was plowing her in MY bed....... turned around walked out went to my mothers and went to sleep till later that night, went home and threw her out..... wasnt worth killing either of them or myself over... I can laugh about it now, but it was really hard to learn to trust again after that....... RoyThey say I suffer from insanity.... But I actually enjoy it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jkwon 0 #31 October 1, 2004 I guess you are talking about if you're married...But I have a no tolerance policy for cheating. Especially after 4 of my past girlfriends cheated on me. :) No LUCK i tell you. Or maybe I just know how to choose them. :)--joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #32 October 1, 2004 She would cease to be significant..... ASAP - It's all about trust and respect IMHO Blue Ones (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #33 October 1, 2004 Lay a new patio. Be adventurous in your choice of aggregate. er... well ok - not that extreme, but they don't deserve to be with you any longer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #34 October 1, 2004 QuoteI can see differences in response depending on if I was married to the girl or not. Cheat=She gone. I don't care what the reasons are, what the relationship is, I would cutaway in an instant. Married, dating, whatever. No excuses._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #35 October 1, 2004 Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. The t-shirt has long been gone - She cheated on me, (Probably mich more than once-) tried to forgive and never really forgot. Separated in 95, divorced in 96. I was a wreck, totally demolished. I just didn't know how to handle it. The pain seems unbearable at first, then you finally get used to it, then it goes away. Then you rediscover yourself. Takes longer for some that others. I was a basket case until I finally walked into the courtroom for the last time. The judge was a woman, she looked me in the eye and smiled and wished me good luck. Remarried five years ago. Sharon is a wonderful woman but for some reason it doesn't feel quite as special as the first marriage did. Guess nothings quite the same after that first trip. Neither of us get upset if the other "looks at the menu" once in a while. I get to go to titty bars every so often. I can rev it and tear it up all I want out on the street, as long as I park it in the garage at night. If it happened now? Probably wouldn't bother me anywhere near as much. Although I don't look forward to it, I cutaway once and survived, I'm not as afraid of doing of doing it again if I have to. I like how my reserve flies. The biggest comfort I have now, is I know I have a great group of very good people (mostly skydivers!) to support me the second time around, that I didn't have before. Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #36 October 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuoteHmmm...I'm thinkin' about a wood chipper and a bottle of wine! Just make sure you freeze the body fully before you introduce Mr. Wood Chipper. You want the chipper to make a sharp cracking sound, not a squishy/mushy sound while chewing through the body. And if you're really lucky, your wood chipper will be cursed, and instead of blood, flesh and bone, their net worth in MONEY will come out the other side! (Yes, big "Friday the 13th: the Series" fan here!) -Jeffrey With my luck their net worth would be zero. But I would be able to take a piece of him with me wherever I go."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peregrinerose 0 #37 October 1, 2004 QuoteSharon is a wonderful woman but for some reason it doesn't feel quite as special as the first marriage did. Guess nothings quite the same after that first trip. Neither of us get upset if the other "looks at the menu" once in a while. I get to go to titty bars every so often. I can rev it and tear it up all I want out on the street, as long as I park it in the garage at night. The toughest thing after divorce is learning to trust again. I had the practice marriage too. My husband now was for the early part of our relationship very hurt that I didn't totally give him my heart, didn't totally trust him. He was right, I was really short changing us. It took time and healing, but he now has my trust completely and this marriage is more special and close and true than my first one. I was on the other end, was with a married guy. After that, if Chad cheated, he'd be out the door. The good part is that I know hell would freeze over before he'd hurt me in any way. He's the most loving and attentive and kind man I've ever met. Jen Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #38 October 1, 2004 Been there twice, once while married, one it was a girlfriend. I wanted to try and reconcile with the wife but wasn't given the opportunity, so when it happened with the girlfriend I kept her around while I tried to forgive her. I realized after a few months that infidelity is just something I can't get past, so I dumped her. I hope to never find myself in that position again, but if I do, the day I find out will be the last day of the relationship. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 221 #39 October 1, 2004 Fool me once - shame on you - fool me twice - shame on me. CTFAI'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #40 October 1, 2004 I voted for counseling because I have kids...but if it was just a married couple with no kids...divorce with a capital 'D'!!!!! ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #41 October 1, 2004 instant cutaway. a relationship is built on trust. take away the trust, there's no relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Spatula 0 #42 October 1, 2004 I'd bounce her ass to the frickin curb! That shit's ridiculous. Scum sucking bastards! If you consider cheating then you should not be in that relationship, period. I was cheated on once and it sucked bad! So her ass is divorced---plain and simple---no inbetween. Life to short to deal with bullshit.... Sorry, one of those topics that fires me up. Can't stand it when people cheat on there significant others. it's crap.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
