ECVZZ 0 #1 September 23, 2004 I've had good and bad experiences with them. Some get attached...some stir up shit in your life, and some are just plain fun!!! What's your opinion, and why? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #2 September 23, 2004 Every time i'm back in texas I make the round with my ex's , no strings just good times "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #3 September 23, 2004 QuoteP.S. I'm not a pig i'm upfront and they all know what the nights about :) You're just an upfront pig... KIDDING!!! Just kidding...I jest...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #4 September 23, 2004 UGHHHH!!! I left my ex's for a reason. I'd had enough then! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #5 September 23, 2004 Never been into the whole fuck buddy thing. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, just not my thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #6 September 23, 2004 S'ok...not everyone is. That's the reason for the poll. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #7 September 23, 2004 PS...What are you indignant about??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #8 September 23, 2004 Just because me and a certain lady couldnt make a successful couple does not mean we can't have a good roll in the hay when I'm in town. Seriously your already comfortable with each other and if its just for good ole fun I see no harm......but then again oink oink "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #9 September 23, 2004 In that case Nathan, I totally agree. Been there, done that once or twice. Long as it's a mutual understanding it keeps the headgames at a minimum, and the fun at a maximum! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #10 September 23, 2004 I don't have a problem with them. You don't really have to talk after you do it or cuddle afterwards, you don't have to feel guilty if you don't call the next day....oh wait a minute that's a blow-up doll or a vibrator.... Nevermind! Actually as long as it's good clean fun, I don't see anything wrong with it."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #11 September 23, 2004 QuotePS...What are you indignant about??? lol, I made that name so long ago. I was going through some tough times and I was just angry when I made the name, and I'm just too lazy to start over with a new one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacefuljeffrey 0 #12 September 23, 2004 I prefer there to be at least some friendship there. I answered the "with a close friend" one. I've had fun with fuck buddiettes. ("fuck buddy" sounds kinda homosexual, I think.) -Jeffrey-Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #13 September 23, 2004 It all depends on the individual. I've never had one, but I'm not completely closed off to it either. As long as we're both on the EXACT same page with it I guess???? Then again, if I get to the point with someone where I'd actually sleep with them, that means I'm pretty into them , which doesn't quite make them a "fuck buddy" does it? or DOES it? Guess it depends on their frame of mind as well huh How about friends with benefits (retarded term by the way), would that be considered a fuck buddy? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #14 September 23, 2004 Hey buddy wanna catch up when I'm in floridaYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #15 September 23, 2004 Seriously......this really boggles me ... because ex's are ex's for a reason .. If I went around screwing my ex's after the relationship was over, then they wouldn't have thought it was over (some anyway) ... And why did they become ex's in the first place? They weren't my only options out there to have a fun time, so why would I want to confuse them or play with them like that? Not that they all would think that... but the chance of it happening was not worth my while If I had other options out there. I could play with fire with real fuck buddies... not with ex's. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nael 0 #16 September 23, 2004 I've done this a few times, and I just wanted to point out to some people that 'friends with benefits' arent always ex's. Actually, I've never gone back to an ex like that. I met one guy about 3 weeks after i'd had my heart absolutely broken by a boyfriend, this guy was only going to be around for 4 months - perfect. I have found that a lot of the time feelings get involved and mess things up, but that's the risk you take. You just have to decide if it's worth it.www.TerminalSports.com.auAustralia's largest skydive gear store Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #17 September 23, 2004 QuoteHey buddy wanna catch up when I'm in florida ROFLMAO!! *Diva sings* "My buddy, my buddy....wherever I go, he goes""It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #18 September 23, 2004 I've had more than my share. It usually starts out innocent enough, but when I demonstrate how good I am.... Well, they don't wanna let go. That gets kinda awkward, so I pretty much stopped having them.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shunkka 0 #19 September 23, 2004 it`s ok but not with EX`s where love was (sorry for my silly english) without feelings is ok... if both can accept it i had very good and very bad experience with this kind of "ralation" so who the hell knows... ------------------------- "jump, have fun, pull" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zulu 0 #20 September 23, 2004 I've never experience "friends with benifits" as someone put it. Simply because there are too many feelings involved. Even if both people agree to have nothing more attached other than the act itself, eventually feelings will grow from them. I know it sounds strange comming from a guy, but allow me to explain. I volunteered for an assignment that lasted 11 1/2 months in the middle of no where. I kept in touch with my best friend the entire time I was gone. On her 23 birthday I returned and took her out to dinner with a bunch of her family and friends. I never had any intentions to sleep with her EVER. She was my best friend. Long story short we sleep together 2 days later and dated for 4 months. It definately took our relationship to a new level. We never discussed where it would take us and unbeknown to me she wanted to just remain friends. I was fine with it because I always believe its the womans choice never the guys. Suddenly one day she calls me over to go to dinner told me she wanted to completely brake it off. No friendship, no calls, nada. It hurt but I respect her wishes. I volunteered for another assignment and left 3 days later. I've never heard from her. Till this day there is not a day that goes by that she does'nt cross my mind. I miss her deeply because we have known each other for years. I made a vow that I would NEVER EVER sleep with any of my friends, the cost of a good friendship isnt worth it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #21 September 23, 2004 Very wise words. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goose491 0 #22 September 23, 2004 QuoteVery wise words. t No they aren't! Zulu you fool! ... Call her. My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #23 September 23, 2004 Quote I made a vow that I would NEVER EVER sleep with any of my friends, the cost of a good friendship isnt worth it. If have yet to find anything worth loosing a friendship overI your that hard up for a nookie, that you would jepodise a friendship, you have some serious issues to deal with.You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuperKat 0 #24 September 23, 2004 Someone always ends up falling for the other. Then, it ends bitterly. I learned the key thing is not to hang out with them before or after the deed. Don't let 'em sleep over and vice versa. And keep phone conversations to a minimum. I know this sounds impossible cuz we're all human but that's my recipe for a successful long term fuck buddy relationship. What's the most you ever lost in a coin toss, Friendo? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #25 September 23, 2004 QuoteI don't have a problem with them. You don't really have to talk after you do it or cuddle afterwards, you don't have to feel guilty if you don't call the next day....oh wait a minute that's a blow-up doll or a vibrator.... Nevermind! Or a box of Kleenex __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
