sunshine 2 #26 September 23, 2004 QuoteI made a vow that I would NEVER EVER sleep with any of my friends, the cost of a good friendship isnt worth it. -------------------------------------------------------- If have yet to find anything worth loosing a friendship over I your that hard up for a nookie, that you would jepodise a friendship, you have some serious issues to deal with I've successfully had no strings attached sex with a friend. We talked about it before hand, that neither of us liked the other as anything more than a friend. We had some damn awesome sex and that was it. End of story. We're still friends. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #27 September 23, 2004 QuoteNever been into the whole fuck buddy thing. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, just not my thing. Ditto! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crzjp20 0 #28 September 23, 2004 i had a girl friend for abouta year or so, we never really did anything till one nigth after we broke up, like 6 months after, anyways, she shows up and basically in a nut shell sad lets go. After we... well... she was like ok i just had to know. now every now and then we "run into" each other, its odd, but hell im not complaining-------------------------------------------------- Fear is not a confession of weakness, it is an oportunity for courage. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bendywendy 0 #29 September 23, 2004 hmmm... fuck buddies usually aren't ex's (in my opinon) they are usually never wases. The ones I have/had are usually really good friends (and still are) that either have or had privilages. Sometimes it was just a matter of there started to be sexual tension with a close friend and we decided to just get it over with so we can get on with being friends. exes are whole 'nother ball game. If they stir up shit they weren't really fuck buddies they were someone with an agenda pretending the buddy thing was all cool because they thought once you were with them awhile you'd fall madly in love and blah, blah, blah.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EricaH 0 #30 September 23, 2004 Wendy's got it down right!! I had a fuck buddie for one whole year of college. We both'd had horrid break-ups the year before & wanted nothing to do w/ any relationship anytime soon. After chatting @ the first party of the year we went to his room - every party after that ended in a private one in his room. Funny part is; I never actually met his roomie other than a glance while skirtting out the door in the AM. Then 2 years later was dating this guy, he's like "you don't remember me do you? I was so-in-sos roomie" imagine my embaressment - I broke up with him shortly after that. Fuck buddies can come in any form from anywhere. It all depends on the 2 people involved. It is easier if there wasn't a previous romantic attachment, but break-ups can be amiacable too. Personally, I like sex w/ an ex - he already knows all the right places. That typically is only a one or 2 time thing though. Fuck buddie kinda emplies an ongoing rondevu. And not all exes are right for the job. ps. i know i can't spell. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #31 September 23, 2004 QuoteIf they stir up shit they weren't really fuck buddies they were someone with an agenda So true Wendy, which is why I generally don't do sex with ex's! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #32 September 23, 2004 find a buddy who'll fuck me and i'll do it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #33 September 23, 2004 Poor Adam...Do you need a pimp? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
craichead 0 #34 September 23, 2004 Oh, that's so great of you, Adam! I've got this buddy who's a bit of a drama queen, but he's not TOO flaming. I'll tell him you're available! _Pm__ "Scared of love, love and aeroplanes...falling out, I said takes no brains." -- Andy Partridge (XTC) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #35 September 23, 2004 QuoteOh, that's so great of you, Adam! I've got this buddy who's a bit of a drama queen, but he's not TOO flaming. I'll tell him you're available! _Pm i'm not gay. hahah BUT go ahead and spread the word. I'm sure i can hook him up with someone down here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
craichead 0 #37 September 23, 2004 Quotei'm not gay. Yeah, I know...but, you DID say, Quotefind a buddy who'll fuck me and i'll do it. I think my buddy really likes straight boys, too... _Pm__ "Scared of love, love and aeroplanes...falling out, I said takes no brains." -- Andy Partridge (XTC) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #38 September 23, 2004 okay okay find me a FEMALE between the ages 19 and 40 and i'll do it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #39 September 23, 2004 Quotei'm not gay. "but my tubby friend here, he LOVES the cock." "c'mon lunchbox" ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stumpy 284 #40 September 23, 2004 Quote"but my tubby friend here, he LOVES the cock." "c'mon lunchbox" Whats that from?? - is it old School?Never try to eat more than you can lift Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #41 September 23, 2004 QuoteQuote"but my tubby friend here, he LOVES the cock." "c'mon lunchbox" Whats that from?? - is it old School? jay and silent bob strikes back are you saying you like the cock JP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #42 September 23, 2004 Never done "Fuck Buddies" with an Ex. Usually....If I'm done with an ex...I'm DONE! Now....I have had many a fuck buddy in my time. Just chicks that I thought were cool but didn't necessarily want to have a "relationship" with. More often than not though.....they get attached. Like the last one....I don't call her for a few weeks and I guess she got pissed off. Sorry........I was out of town for a week.....then I was sick as a dog for another week. Then I was working my ass off. Oh well........I'll find another shiny thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PrairieDoug 0 #43 September 23, 2004 I think the poll results would be more interesting with a male/female breakout. I pretty much assume most guys are OK with some form of the FB concept. My intuition is that more women would not be comfortable with it, but my track record as far as knowing what women think is not so good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #44 September 23, 2004 QuoteI think the poll results would be more interesting with a male/female breakout. I pretty much assume most guys are OK with some form of the FB concept. My intuition is that more women would not be comfortable with it, but my track record as far as knowing what women think is not so good. I don't know man, check out THIS thread Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #45 September 23, 2004 QuoteI don't know man, check out THIS thread Yeah........but look who started it. I'm not sure this is really representative. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jib 0 #46 September 23, 2004 Quotei'm not gay. Are you quoting Mr. Garrison again?? -------------------------------------------------- the depth of his depravity sickens me. -- Jerry Falwell, People v. Larry Flynt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #47 September 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteI don't know man, check out THIS thread Yeah........but look who started it. I'm not sure this is really representative. Yup, thus the at the end. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #48 September 23, 2004 Been there, done that. Then I made love for the first time. Simply fucking no longer did it for me, and I found to be worse than not getting any. So I quit with that game. Worked out well, too. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unstable 9 #49 September 23, 2004 QuoteUGHHHH!!! I left my ex's for a reason. I'd had enough then! Agreed. I don't know about you all, but my girlfriend/wife are all I need.=========Shaun ========== Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #50 September 23, 2004 QuoteHow about friends with benefits (retarded term by the way), would that be considered a fuck buddy? I suppose it would...just a matter of sounding more PC. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites