Paige 0 #26 September 24, 2004 QuoteAnd I tried to break it off, but good god this woman couldn't take a hint. Women don't get hints. If you ever seen Sex and the City or Skymama's post, you'll know what I'm talking about. Just say, "I'm really not that interested." Women just like men do not take subtle hints well. But for the record, you are an ass. Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #27 September 24, 2004 This seems fair because women get men to buy stuff all the time. I suggest that you continue to trade sex for credit card use. Get some new clothes and a nice weekend somewhere. Don't worry about it, she obviously has no self-esteem and the only time she feels good is when she is with you. You are the only bright spot in her life. Think of it as a helping her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #28 September 24, 2004 What's her # My 4 year is coming up soon All BS aside. Who cares as long as your not playing her and you are honest with her. But if your promising her something or leading her to believe something thats not true thats not cool.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunman 0 #29 September 24, 2004 No, you're not an asshole, just human. After all, an AAD can save your life. An instinct for self-preservation does not make you an asshole. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlindBrick 0 #30 September 24, 2004 Quote Well, if you feel that way about her, don't respect her, and acknowledge that you are essentially using her, and don't mind stringing her along hoping that she's going to get what she wants from you (god knows what that is), Ok, I guess I was feeling guilty for being rude. OTOH, I've repeatedly told her that 1. I hate long phone conversations. Generally, if it can't be said over the phone to me in under ten minutes, you need to find some other form of communication. And 2. From the very start I have always told her that this could never be more than a sexual friendship. Even now, that we are hanging around more, I've made it clear that I do not want anything serious. -Blind"If you end up in an alligator's jaws, naked, you probably did something to deserve it." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #31 September 24, 2004 poor girl, she's got no clue... but think, it's not like women don't use men for situations exactly like this. I'm all for it... prob just cause I got used b4. It's wrong but your gonna do whatever you want with it anyway... and technically she could be the reason you wake up every morning... if you go through with it. . for us male 'suckers' who've been used. think about it. and this only makes you a asshole to HER. a hero to others... "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #32 September 24, 2004 QuoteEven now, that we are hanging around more, I've made it clear that I do not want anything serious. If she is hanging out at your house, have her bring a pizza and some beer with her. She'd probably appreciate a dinner at your place. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlindBrick 0 #33 September 24, 2004 QuoteAll BS aside. Who cares as long as your not playing her and you are honest with her. But if your promising her something or leading her to believe something thats not true thats not cool. I've always tried ot be up front with her. Recently I've made ot very clear that I finish up in December and will then move back home to be closer to my son. I alos pointed out that I was giving up an Ivy League grad school to be closer to my son, and she knows that until my son came along, that that getting into that school was the most important thing in my life. Iam hoping that gives her a sense of perspective and makes her realize that I am serious about not being in a serious relationship. -Blind"If you end up in an alligator's jaws, naked, you probably did something to deserve it." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #34 September 24, 2004 Ok, I guess I was feeling guilty for being rude. OTOH, I've repeatedly told her that 1. I hate long phone conversations. Generally, if it can't be said over the phone to me in under ten minutes, you need to find some other form of communication. And 2. From the very start I have always told her that this could never be more than a sexual friendship. Even now, that we are hanging around more, I've made it clear that I do not want anything serious.Quote Hey BB Unless your a offical muff brother your not a skydiving ass-hole. What PJ said yes but a asshole nope. If your having a problem communicating with the women, Try a line from the movie "Looking for Mr Goodbar" Dude says to women while driving her home from a one night stand. "Sorry i don't talk to someone after I've fucked them". The women got the message she jumped out of the car! Hollywood? R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites christoofar 0 #35 September 24, 2004 QuoteQuoteAll BS aside. Who cares as long as your not playing her and you are honest with her. But if your promising her something or leading her to believe something thats not true thats not cool. I've always tried ot be up front with her. Recently I've made ot very clear that I finish up in December and will then move back home to be closer to my son. I alos pointed out that I was giving up an Ivy League grad school to be closer to my son, and she knows that until my son came along, that that getting into that school was the most important thing in my life. Iam hoping that gives her a sense of perspective and makes her realize that I am serious about not being in a serious relationship. -Blind Even if you spelled out the rules up front, she's overlooking all that and the words coming out of your mouth are just "blah blah blah." She thinks she can change you. Better to just end it now. Sounds like you're just gonna break her heart even more if you keep this up. ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PhillyKev 0 #36 September 24, 2004 No, you're not an asshole, but you may be a woman. You're utilizing their tactics anyway Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #37 September 24, 2004 QuoteNo, you're not an asshole, but you may be a woman. You're utilizing their tactics anyway Dayummmm! Perhaps we need to have the "that's different" talk. When guys accept money and gifts for sex with someone they don't care about, it's wrong. When guys dismiss the other partys content in a conversation as unimportant, it's wrong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites gravityizsexy 0 #38 September 24, 2004 LOL! "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites diablopilot 2 #39 September 24, 2004 Thought I'd just contrubute a little bit of nothing to this thread: QuoteAsshole [Spoken] Folks, I'd like to sing a song about the American Dream. About me. About you. The way our American hearts beat down in the bottom of our chests. About the special feeling we get in the cockles of our hearts, maybe below the cockles, maybe in the sub-cockle area. Maybe in the liver. Maybe in the kidneys. Maybe even in the colon, we don't know. I'm just a regular Joe with a regular job I'm your average white suburbanite slob I like football and porno and books about war I've got an average house with a nic hardwood floor My wife and my job, my kids and my car My feet on my table, and a cuban cigar But sometimes that just ain't enough to keep a man like me interested (Oh no) No Way (Uh-uh) No, I've gotta go out and have fun At someone else's expense (Oh yeah) Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah I drive really slow in the ultrafast lane While people behind me are going insane I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, such an asshole) I use public toilets and piss on the seat I walk around in the summertime saying, "How about this heat?" I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) Sometimes I park in handicapped spaces While handicapped people make handicapped faces I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's a real fucking asshole) Maybe I shouldn't be singing this song Ranting and raving and carrying on Maybe they're right when they tell me I'm wrong Naaaah! I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) [Spoken] You know what I'm gonna do? I'm gonna get myself a 1967 Cadillac El Dorado convertible, hot pink with whaleskin hub caps and all leather cow interior and big brown baby seal eyes for headlights, yeah! And I'm gonna drive around in that baby at 115mph getting one mile per gallon, sucking down quarter pounder cheese burgers from McDonald's in the old-fashioned non-biodegradable styrofoam containers and when I'm done sucking down those grease ball burgers, I'm gonna wipe my mouth with the American flag and then I'm gonna toss the styrofoam container right out the side and there ain't a God damned thing anybody can do about it. YOu know why? Because we got the bombs, that's why. [Spoken] Two words. Nuclear fucking weapons, okay?! Russia, Germany, Romania - they can have all the Democracy they want. They can have a big democracy cake-walk right through the middle of Tiananmen square and it won't make a lick of difference because we've got the bombs, okay?! John Wayne's not dead - he's frozen. And as soon as we find the cure for cancer we're gonna thaw out the duke and he's gonna be pretty pissed off. You know why? Have you ever taken a cold shower? Well multiple that by 15-million times, that's how pissed off the Duke's gonna be. I'm gonna get the Duke and John Cassavetes... (Hey) and Lee Marvin (Hey) and Sam Pekinpah (Hey) And a case of Whiskey and drive down to Texas... (Hey, you know you really are an asshole) Why don't you just shut-up and sing the song pal! I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) A-S-S-H-O-L-E Everybody! A-S-S-H-O-L-E [Barking] Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Fung achng tum a fung tum a fling chum Oooh Oooh [Spoken] I'm an asshole and proud of it! ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites TypicalFish 0 #40 September 24, 2004 I guess for me, it's like the old saying "If you have to ask, you can't afford it"... If you have to ask if you are being an asshole , you probably are. (Strictly situational, not saying anything about your character)"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites stimpy 0 #41 September 24, 2004 Hey Paige, that photo is, as the Americans say "kick-ass" ! I'm a Brit, so would probably say something like: "a very nice picture" if i was sober !! hey, i'm sure the guy's an asshole ! if he's gotta ask these questions ... ? hey, live long, sleep late, and look after those you care about ... blues, s-------------------------------------------------- if you jump & drink beer - i'll talk to you ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites christoofar 0 #42 September 24, 2004 QuoteI guess for me, it's like the old saying "If you have to ask, you can't afford it"... If you have to ask if you are being an asshole , you probably are. (Strictly situational, not saying anything about your character) hear hear! ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hungarianchick 0 #43 September 24, 2004 QuoteNo, you're not an asshole, just human. After all, an AAD can save your life. An instinct for self-preservation does not make you an asshole. *** WTF? This thread is not an argument for or against AADs but rather using somebody with obviously little or no self esteem for money or other selfish means. If you can't afford it don't buy it! Oh, and by the way, BlindBrick, you ARE an asshole! "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites feuergnom 28 #44 September 24, 2004 i don't think you are an asshole - me thinks you are a p***y. why? cause real assholes do what they want to do anyway. they don't look around for a confirmation of their "assholism" The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites feuergnom 28 #45 September 24, 2004 is that by F.Z.?The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites tbrown 26 #46 September 24, 2004 I just hope she excercises her 10 day rights to cancel the transaction. Maybe then she'll think twice about giving out her CC numbers. Asshole is only the first of a very long alphabetical list of the things you are. Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites diablopilot 2 #47 September 24, 2004 Dennis Leary.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites feuergnom 28 #48 September 24, 2004 never heard of... still learning new stuff from dz-com The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites BlindBrick 0 #49 September 24, 2004 QuoteIf you can't afford it don't buy it! Well I will be able to afford it in about three weeks when the rest of my finanical aid is disbursed. That's why this is a loan. I know some would say just wait until three weeks, but I plan to have done 20-30 jumps by then so I'd rather not gamble for that many jumps. I don't need an AAD to jump, but given that I'm now a dad, I'd rather hedge my bets. And again, I hear the obvious reply of "Well then don't jump", but the thing is that I need to jump to be able to cope with being a thousand miles away from my son. These past fews weeks I've been keeping myself going by listening to my son on the phone and knowing that the various components for my rig were on their way to me. I honestly don't know if I could go another three weeks without jumping. -Blind"If you end up in an alligator's jaws, naked, you probably did something to deserve it." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Paige 0 #50 September 24, 2004 Quotehey, live long, sleep late, and look after those you care about ... blues, s No matter what language you say it in, Thanks! Could not agree more with your statement above. Even harder that looking after those you care about, is letting those that care about you look after you. What part of Britian are you from? 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christoofar 0 #35 September 24, 2004 QuoteQuoteAll BS aside. Who cares as long as your not playing her and you are honest with her. But if your promising her something or leading her to believe something thats not true thats not cool. I've always tried ot be up front with her. Recently I've made ot very clear that I finish up in December and will then move back home to be closer to my son. I alos pointed out that I was giving up an Ivy League grad school to be closer to my son, and she knows that until my son came along, that that getting into that school was the most important thing in my life. Iam hoping that gives her a sense of perspective and makes her realize that I am serious about not being in a serious relationship. -Blind Even if you spelled out the rules up front, she's overlooking all that and the words coming out of your mouth are just "blah blah blah." She thinks she can change you. Better to just end it now. Sounds like you're just gonna break her heart even more if you keep this up. ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #36 September 24, 2004 No, you're not an asshole, but you may be a woman. You're utilizing their tactics anyway Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #37 September 24, 2004 QuoteNo, you're not an asshole, but you may be a woman. You're utilizing their tactics anyway Dayummmm! Perhaps we need to have the "that's different" talk. When guys accept money and gifts for sex with someone they don't care about, it's wrong. When guys dismiss the other partys content in a conversation as unimportant, it's wrong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #38 September 24, 2004 LOL! "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #39 September 24, 2004 Thought I'd just contrubute a little bit of nothing to this thread: QuoteAsshole [Spoken] Folks, I'd like to sing a song about the American Dream. About me. About you. The way our American hearts beat down in the bottom of our chests. About the special feeling we get in the cockles of our hearts, maybe below the cockles, maybe in the sub-cockle area. Maybe in the liver. Maybe in the kidneys. Maybe even in the colon, we don't know. I'm just a regular Joe with a regular job I'm your average white suburbanite slob I like football and porno and books about war I've got an average house with a nic hardwood floor My wife and my job, my kids and my car My feet on my table, and a cuban cigar But sometimes that just ain't enough to keep a man like me interested (Oh no) No Way (Uh-uh) No, I've gotta go out and have fun At someone else's expense (Oh yeah) Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah I drive really slow in the ultrafast lane While people behind me are going insane I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, such an asshole) I use public toilets and piss on the seat I walk around in the summertime saying, "How about this heat?" I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) Sometimes I park in handicapped spaces While handicapped people make handicapped faces I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's a real fucking asshole) Maybe I shouldn't be singing this song Ranting and raving and carrying on Maybe they're right when they tell me I'm wrong Naaaah! I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) [Spoken] You know what I'm gonna do? I'm gonna get myself a 1967 Cadillac El Dorado convertible, hot pink with whaleskin hub caps and all leather cow interior and big brown baby seal eyes for headlights, yeah! And I'm gonna drive around in that baby at 115mph getting one mile per gallon, sucking down quarter pounder cheese burgers from McDonald's in the old-fashioned non-biodegradable styrofoam containers and when I'm done sucking down those grease ball burgers, I'm gonna wipe my mouth with the American flag and then I'm gonna toss the styrofoam container right out the side and there ain't a God damned thing anybody can do about it. YOu know why? Because we got the bombs, that's why. [Spoken] Two words. Nuclear fucking weapons, okay?! Russia, Germany, Romania - they can have all the Democracy they want. They can have a big democracy cake-walk right through the middle of Tiananmen square and it won't make a lick of difference because we've got the bombs, okay?! John Wayne's not dead - he's frozen. And as soon as we find the cure for cancer we're gonna thaw out the duke and he's gonna be pretty pissed off. You know why? Have you ever taken a cold shower? Well multiple that by 15-million times, that's how pissed off the Duke's gonna be. I'm gonna get the Duke and John Cassavetes... (Hey) and Lee Marvin (Hey) and Sam Pekinpah (Hey) And a case of Whiskey and drive down to Texas... (Hey, you know you really are an asshole) Why don't you just shut-up and sing the song pal! I'm an asshole (He's an asshole, what an asshole) I'm an asshole (He's the world's biggest asshole) A-S-S-H-O-L-E Everybody! A-S-S-H-O-L-E [Barking] Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Arf Fung achng tum a fung tum a fling chum Oooh Oooh [Spoken] I'm an asshole and proud of it! ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #40 September 24, 2004 I guess for me, it's like the old saying "If you have to ask, you can't afford it"... If you have to ask if you are being an asshole , you probably are. (Strictly situational, not saying anything about your character)"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stimpy 0 #41 September 24, 2004 Hey Paige, that photo is, as the Americans say "kick-ass" ! I'm a Brit, so would probably say something like: "a very nice picture" if i was sober !! hey, i'm sure the guy's an asshole ! if he's gotta ask these questions ... ? hey, live long, sleep late, and look after those you care about ... blues, s-------------------------------------------------- if you jump & drink beer - i'll talk to you ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #42 September 24, 2004 QuoteI guess for me, it's like the old saying "If you have to ask, you can't afford it"... If you have to ask if you are being an asshole , you probably are. (Strictly situational, not saying anything about your character) hear hear! ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hungarianchick 0 #43 September 24, 2004 QuoteNo, you're not an asshole, just human. After all, an AAD can save your life. An instinct for self-preservation does not make you an asshole. *** WTF? This thread is not an argument for or against AADs but rather using somebody with obviously little or no self esteem for money or other selfish means. If you can't afford it don't buy it! Oh, and by the way, BlindBrick, you ARE an asshole! "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feuergnom 28 #44 September 24, 2004 i don't think you are an asshole - me thinks you are a p***y. why? cause real assholes do what they want to do anyway. they don't look around for a confirmation of their "assholism" The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feuergnom 28 #45 September 24, 2004 is that by F.Z.?The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #46 September 24, 2004 I just hope she excercises her 10 day rights to cancel the transaction. Maybe then she'll think twice about giving out her CC numbers. Asshole is only the first of a very long alphabetical list of the things you are. Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #47 September 24, 2004 Dennis Leary.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feuergnom 28 #48 September 24, 2004 never heard of... still learning new stuff from dz-com The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle dudeist skydiver # 666 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlindBrick 0 #49 September 24, 2004 QuoteIf you can't afford it don't buy it! Well I will be able to afford it in about three weeks when the rest of my finanical aid is disbursed. That's why this is a loan. I know some would say just wait until three weeks, but I plan to have done 20-30 jumps by then so I'd rather not gamble for that many jumps. I don't need an AAD to jump, but given that I'm now a dad, I'd rather hedge my bets. And again, I hear the obvious reply of "Well then don't jump", but the thing is that I need to jump to be able to cope with being a thousand miles away from my son. These past fews weeks I've been keeping myself going by listening to my son on the phone and knowing that the various components for my rig were on their way to me. I honestly don't know if I could go another three weeks without jumping. -Blind"If you end up in an alligator's jaws, naked, you probably did something to deserve it." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #50 September 24, 2004 Quotehey, live long, sleep late, and look after those you care about ... blues, s No matter what language you say it in, Thanks! Could not agree more with your statement above. Even harder that looking after those you care about, is letting those that care about you look after you. What part of Britian are you from? I agree if you have to ask the ? you already know the answer.Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
