moodyskydiver 0 #1 September 13, 2004 Who do you go to when something is bothering you or you're upset and need to talk? A family member? a friend? or.....? *sigh* "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoadRash 0 #2 September 13, 2004 I used to go to my mom... But as of late I only talked to my best friend...... Now, I have been venting to some AWESOME people out there...you know who you are...Thank you...! ~R+R...And if you don't know who you are...Then I will call you and tell you!~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Fly the friendly skies...^_^...})ii({...^_~... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #3 September 13, 2004 My pillow __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #4 September 13, 2004 hmm...I used to always go to one person...unfortunately that person doesn't seem to want to listen much anymore Whenever I try to vent to her she finds some way to turn it around so she's suddenly talking about herself..... i really enjoy going to my boyfriend....he's one of my best friends and understands me in ways not many others do. He's always there to listen and no matter what, even if i dont solve the problem he always makes me feel better....he has this calming effect about him which i absolutely love...even though hes 600 miles away, he can make me feel like he's right by my side... My parents are great for certian things too...Im lucky that I am particularly close to them both.... There's also one other person who i go to who's just amazing to talk to. I can vent to him in ims for hours and he always listens and offers advice...hes helped me feel so much better on numerous occasions *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #5 September 13, 2004 the sun the moon and the stars... it has the same effect and no one else has to deal with it..... if i need advice? friends and family...____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #6 September 13, 2004 QuoteMy pillow she said "vent to" not "have sex with"My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #7 September 13, 2004 Depends on the situation. Mostly my brother, but often a friend, as well. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #8 September 13, 2004 Ya know who's a great person to vent to? You! haha, Amber, you're a great person to talk to whenever I need to vent...dont think I can even count the # of times you have been there for me! *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyThomas 0 #9 September 13, 2004 um....a nearby bartender. or friends. Or someone nice on AIM or just post some stupid and/or belligerent shit in the bonfire forum. edit: removed the artwork comment Thomas Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #10 September 13, 2004 The Air-conditioner or - I reply to the "Dear Sunshine" Thread. Actually everyone - noone is safe from the whining and bitching.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #11 September 13, 2004 It depends on the situation I need to vent about .... but it is always one of two close friends._______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #12 September 13, 2004 I vent to people who vent to me... we have 'venting' relationship and we know that we both are willing to listen to the ranting... it's kinda nice!! ..Usually a good friend... or sometimes not... Why? Something on your mind? Send me a 'venting' PM... I'll listen!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites adamjenner 0 #13 September 13, 2004 i never vent i probably should. i'm so overdue for a vent it would takes hours to get it all out. but in the rare case that i do vent it's to friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RevJim 0 #14 September 13, 2004 Quotei never vent yup, what he said.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jumper03 0 #15 September 13, 2004 QuoteQuotei never vent yup, what he said. I tried that for 30 years and got into a world of hurt. Let it out...and let it go! Jump ---------------Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RevJim 0 #16 September 13, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuotei never vent yup, what he said. I tried that for 30 years and got into a world of hurt. Let it out...and let it go! I would, but there's a reason I don't vent. I really don't have anything to vent about. It's actually nice being me. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RkyMtnHigh 0 #17 September 13, 2004 Kozzy, of course! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skydiverkaz 0 #18 September 13, 2004 My housemate/good mate.... or a tub of haagen dazs. Altho housemate gives good advice.... ice cream makes me feel better instantly!If you're gona skate on thin ice, you might as well dance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #19 September 13, 2004 Phil. He hasn't been here in awhile. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rehmwa 2 #20 September 13, 2004 No one - I just visualize a little bottle in my chest and then take whatever is stressful (twitch) and visualize pushing that (twitch) stress inside that bottle and then putting a cork or cap on the bottle. Whenever the stress (twitch) tries to get out, I just keeping packing in more (twitch) stress on top of the old (twitch) stress and make sure that cork is good and placed in snugly. Ahh, good old bottle {{tick tock tick tock tick tock}} ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #21 September 13, 2004 Y'all. That way I'm pretty sure the thing/person I'm bitching about won't ever know, 'cuz my issues are with people who don't generally lurk or post on dizzie.com...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites brits17 0 #22 September 13, 2004 dz.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Ncrowe 0 #23 September 13, 2004 Bartender "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites CrazyThomas 0 #24 September 13, 2004 something to be careful about. bottling up too many feeling causes postal worker type reactions. I used to try to bottle up my feelings or reactions, and generally it is not a good thing. I snap and find myself in an undesirable position (read: 4 point restraints at the psych ward), or worse. Venting is a good thing, and like all things, best done in moderation. That, or just try swooping the sewage treatment plant pond. If you make it, you'll feel better. If not, you'll smell like you feel . Thomas Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites peregrinerose 0 #25 September 13, 2004 My husband is my best friend and best sounding board. I can vent in his general direction and he never takes my pissy mood personally. If I'm out of line, he has the balls to tell me so (and he's usually right). If I have a problem that is solvable, he helps me brainstorm. If I just had a long day and need to scream a bit, he lets me rant and rave, actually listens to what I have to say, and he knows I'll be over it in a minute. The best part is that he truly does listen to me. Not just my words, but he hears all that is behind them. And in the end he makes my world a safe and happy place again by wrapping me up in his arms. Jen Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
adamjenner 0 #13 September 13, 2004 i never vent i probably should. i'm so overdue for a vent it would takes hours to get it all out. but in the rare case that i do vent it's to friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #14 September 13, 2004 Quotei never vent yup, what he said.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #15 September 13, 2004 QuoteQuotei never vent yup, what he said. I tried that for 30 years and got into a world of hurt. Let it out...and let it go! Jump ---------------Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #16 September 13, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuotei never vent yup, what he said. I tried that for 30 years and got into a world of hurt. Let it out...and let it go! I would, but there's a reason I don't vent. I really don't have anything to vent about. It's actually nice being me. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #17 September 13, 2004 Kozzy, of course! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverkaz 0 #18 September 13, 2004 My housemate/good mate.... or a tub of haagen dazs. Altho housemate gives good advice.... ice cream makes me feel better instantly!If you're gona skate on thin ice, you might as well dance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #19 September 13, 2004 Phil. He hasn't been here in awhile. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #20 September 13, 2004 No one - I just visualize a little bottle in my chest and then take whatever is stressful (twitch) and visualize pushing that (twitch) stress inside that bottle and then putting a cork or cap on the bottle. Whenever the stress (twitch) tries to get out, I just keeping packing in more (twitch) stress on top of the old (twitch) stress and make sure that cork is good and placed in snugly. Ahh, good old bottle {{tick tock tick tock tick tock}} ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #21 September 13, 2004 Y'all. That way I'm pretty sure the thing/person I'm bitching about won't ever know, 'cuz my issues are with people who don't generally lurk or post on dizzie.com...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #23 September 13, 2004 Bartender "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyThomas 0 #24 September 13, 2004 something to be careful about. bottling up too many feeling causes postal worker type reactions. I used to try to bottle up my feelings or reactions, and generally it is not a good thing. I snap and find myself in an undesirable position (read: 4 point restraints at the psych ward), or worse. Venting is a good thing, and like all things, best done in moderation. That, or just try swooping the sewage treatment plant pond. If you make it, you'll feel better. If not, you'll smell like you feel . Thomas Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peregrinerose 0 #25 September 13, 2004 My husband is my best friend and best sounding board. I can vent in his general direction and he never takes my pissy mood personally. If I'm out of line, he has the balls to tell me so (and he's usually right). If I have a problem that is solvable, he helps me brainstorm. If I just had a long day and need to scream a bit, he lets me rant and rave, actually listens to what I have to say, and he knows I'll be over it in a minute. The best part is that he truly does listen to me. Not just my words, but he hears all that is behind them. And in the end he makes my world a safe and happy place again by wrapping me up in his arms. Jen Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
